Never try to fix the relationship

0:00Never try to fix the relationship. Any

0:01amount of you showing effort to try to

0:03save the relationship just shows her how

0:05desperate you are for her, makes her

0:07lose interest. She looks at you and she

0:08goes, "Wow, I got you. You're booty

0:10whipped." Look at how desperate you are.

0:12Look at how broken you are without me.

0:13If I threaten to leave, look at how much

0:16it breaks you. Look at how much it

0:17destroys you. And now she goes, "I'm the

0:18power in the relationship. I'm the

0:19leader. And if I'm the leader, you can't

0:22lead me. And now I'm the boss, and now I

0:24don't have a man."

0:26Because the masculinity is the leader.

0:28The masculinity is the power.

0:31And you aren't that power. You're not

0:32that leader. If you ever become a man

0:36who falls to her knees, and you fall to

0:37her knees every time that you try to

0:39save the relationship. You see,

0:41when you sit there and text back and do

0:44all these things and try to fix the

0:46relationship, let's save things. No,

0:48let's make things work. You know, she

0:50sends you that long paragraph about,

0:51"Oh, I don't know if things are going to

0:52work out. You know, you spend a lot of

0:54time working. You spend a lot of time

0:55going to the gym. I don't know if this

0:57is going to work out. I don't know if

0:58you're my person." Yeah, it's all a

0:59test. It's all a test. She doesn't mean

1:01any of it. She's not going to leave you

1:02unless you react the wrong way.

1:04It's It's all a test. Because there's

1:06nothing unattractive about you

1:07prioritizing the gym, you prioritizing

1:09your work, you prioritizing the things

1:11that you know you're supposed to

1:12prioritize. Because those things are

1:13going to ensure your survival and hers

1:15and your children's survival. So, it's

1:16impossible for it to be unattractive

1:18because attraction is literally based on

1:21traits that ensure the survival of both

1:23man and woman. So, if you're doing

1:25something that is going to ensure your

1:27survival and make sure that food is on

1:28the table,

1:29guess what? It's impossible for it to be

1:31unattractive.

1:32What she's doing here, she's actually

1:33testing to see how weak is this man.

1:36Because you know what's unattractive?

1:37Emotional thinking from a man. Because

1:39this means you make decisions on impulse

1:42instead of being logical and calculated.

1:44You're the type of man that makes

1:45decisions based on emotion, which is

1:47dangerous. Because a man that makes

1:48emotional decisions is a man who is

1:51dangerous. It's a man who might lose

1:52everything tomorrow because somebody

1:54decided to piss him off.

1:56Or somebody made him upset. So, now he's

1:57not on the grind. Now he's just, you

1:59know, laying in bed, and right? Well,

2:00what does a girl do? She gets emotional,

2:02something pisses her off or something

2:04upsets her, she goes, lays down on the

2:06couch, sits and rots. She doesn't do the

2:08logical thing, which is keep pushing

2:10forward, keep working. That's a feminine

2:12trait.

2:14Masculine trait is logic. You just keep

2:17going. You keep shooting your shot. You

2:19keep showing up every day, regardless of

2:21how you feel. That's logic, and that's

2:22what's going to ensure your safety and

2:24your survival, because guess what?

2:25That's what's going to keep you ahead of

2:26the

2:27the system, ahead of everybody else.

2:29Not being emotional.

2:31So, she's doing here, she's trying to

2:32see, are you that kind of man? Or are

2:34you a man that's emotional? And when you

2:35show her that you are so afraid of her

2:37leaving you, and you are so afraid

2:41that you're going to sit there and try

2:42to fix things. Oh, let's make this work.

2:45You show her that you think based off of

2:46emotion.

2:47You're so afraid that she's going to

2:48pull away love from you and pull away

2:49that feeling of love, and pull away that

2:52feeling of, oh my god, I have a girl,

2:53that now you get emotion, you start to

2:55think emotionally. Logic would dictate,

2:57you know what? Me showing all this care

3:00is unattractive because it shows how

3:01desperate and weak I am for this woman.

3:04That would be logical thinking, but you

3:06think emotionally, and you prove this to

3:07her. And now she goes

3:10and and decides, you know what? I'm

3:11going to find a better man. I'm going to

3:12find a man that's more stable. A man

3:14that doesn't care if I'm going to

3:14threaten to leave him or not.

3:16Because what kind of man do you think is

3:17more valuable? What kind of man do you

3:19think gets laid more? What kind of man

3:20do you think has more opportunities in

3:21life? What kind of man do you think has

3:23more money?

3:24What kind of man do you think is more

3:25valuable all around? The man

3:29that is willing to let a woman go at any

3:30point in time,

3:32or the man that tries to fight for it

3:34because he's so afraid of losing her?

3:36Because he loves her so much, or the guy

3:38that loves that girl just as much,

3:39maybe,

3:40but he understands that, you know what?

3:41If this is what she wants, I'm going to

3:43let her go. Which man do you think is

3:44more more valuable? The man that doesn't

3:46care, obviously.

3:48Because if he doesn't care, that means

3:49he must have other options. He must have

3:51other women waiting for him. He must

3:52know that life is going to get better

3:54and he's going to do better than this

3:54girl anyways in the future. That's where

3:56you got to approach it. You need to

3:58always always understand that you can do

4:00better.

4:01So, for you to sit there and play it

4:03desperately, well, you're going to lose

4:05regardless.

4:07But, here's the thing. What happens is

4:09guys get in their own head and they

4:11think, "Oh, no.

4:14That's not the way it works. She's the

4:16one for me." No, she ain't nothing

4:17special.

4:19She ain't nothing special. That's why

4:20you're acting like this. That's why

4:21you're trying to save it cuz you think

4:22she's something special. She ain't

4:23nothing special. Just relax. You don't

4:25want to lose her?

4:26Don't try to keep her.

4:29If she's trying to run away, let her

4:30run. Let her go.

4:32Let her go. Let her be free.

4:35And that freedom that you show,

4:39that that willingness to let her go is

4:40going to pull her right back in. She's

4:42going to send you those paragraphs and

4:44you just respond with an okay if that's

4:45what you want.

4:47She comes right back. She rethinks it.

4:48She goes, "Wait a minute.

4:50Wait a minute. Wow, this man does not

4:53care to get on his knees.

4:55He doesn't care. He's focused on the

4:57gym, focused on his money, focused on

4:59retiring his parents, focused on his

5:00purpose, focused on God. He doesn't care

5:03whether I'm here or not."

5:05Girls are going to tell you they want to

5:06feel wanted, they want to feel seen.

5:09This is what everyone's always told you.

5:10No.

5:12No. They want to feel seen if they give

5:14you the opportunity to make them feel

5:15seen. Like, if she asks you, you know,

5:16"How do I look tonight?" Yeah, sure.

5:18Tell her she looks good.

5:20She's not asking you for it. There's no

5:21reason for you to tell her. The only

5:23reason you would tell her is because you

5:24look at her and you go, "Oh my god, I

5:25love this girl so much. Let me tell her

5:26she looks good so she she stays

5:28attracted to me.

5:29So, she knows that I love her."

5:31No, she looks at you and she goes, "Wow,

5:33look at this pathetic desperate little

5:34man. Look how much he's trying

5:36to keep me around, to make me feel good

5:38in hopes that I stay." And that's what

5:40pushes her away.

5:41Because no man of value, no man that has

5:43a lot of options, no man that knows he's

5:44going to do better and better in life

5:45would ever come off of

5:48that place of desperation where he's

5:49trying to keep a woman. Any amount of

5:51you trying is just going to push her

5:52away. You trying to save the

5:53relationship, she sends you to those

5:55text messages pushing her away.

5:58You know when she comes to you when

5:59you're working?

6:01Like you're working. You're doing

6:02something. She knows you're doing

6:03something. She's going to ask you on

6:04that exact same day,

6:06"I want to go out. I want to have

6:07dinner. Why do you work so much? Just

6:09don't work today." And you take that day

6:11off.

6:13You pause everything you're doing and

6:14you go out with her. She goes

6:16She thinks to herself, "Wow, look at how

6:17desperate this man is.

6:19Look at how emotional he is. Look at how

6:21how afraid he is to upset me.

6:23Look how afraid he is to lose me. So, he

6:25doesn't want to upset me."

6:26And that's a That's a turn-off.

6:29Because if you knew you were better than

6:30her and you knew you could do better

6:31than her,

6:32and you you knew you you know there's

6:34other women waiting for you cuz you are

6:36the man.

6:37You wouldn't ever quit your work, which

6:40you know is making you more valuable,

6:41and you know it's the right thing to do

6:42is to stay focused.

6:44You would never stop that for a woman,

6:45ever. I don't care who the woman is. I

6:47don't care how valuable she you think

6:49she is. I don't care if you think she's

6:51one of one.

6:52Get that out of your head.

6:55Nothing is more important than your

6:56future. Nothing is more important than

6:58you. You prioritize yourself, your

6:59power.

7:00You need to win.

7:03And she knows this, and that's what she

7:04wants you to do.

7:06She wants you to do that.

7:08So, that's why she tests you to see

7:09whether you're going to fold or whether

7:10you're going to stay on your path. And

7:12when you fold, you turn her off. And

7:13when you stay on your path,

7:16stay on what you were supposed to be

7:17doing, work,

7:20the grind,

7:22aiming towards the top.

7:24That's not That's not a turn-off cuz

7:26it's ensuring that you both are going to

7:28be able to survive based off of the

7:29actions that you're taking, which are

7:30logical actions, calculated actions.

7:35It's impossible for it to be

7:36unattractive.

7:37So,

7:39that's just what it is.

7:41Today's video, not very high energy.

7:44It's to 3:00 in the morning. I

7:47had a bunch of things to do today. So,

7:51I need to start filming these videos a

7:52little bit earlier.

7:54You know, so I can be a little bit more

7:55in the zone.

7:57But, I just want to keep you guys in the

7:58loop. I'm tired of seeing everybody

8:00doing the wrong things. I'm tiring I

8:03tired of guys, you know,

8:04bending over and bending down and

8:06trying to save things when all that does

8:08is push her away because, you know, any

8:10man of value, like imagine if you were

8:11the most valuable man on Earth.

8:14How would you act? That's how you got to

8:15act because then she'll see you as the

8:17most valuable man on Earth. If you were

8:19the most valuable man on Earth, that

8:20means you could have any woman. If you

8:22could have any woman, you wouldn't try

8:23to save a relationship with one.

8:26Because you know you can replace her

8:28with a girl just like her, maybe even

8:29prettier, if you wanted to.

8:32So, any amount of you showing that

8:33desperation shows her that you aren't

8:35that guy. You aren't that that dude

8:37that's the most valuable, that's

8:39the man.

8:40No, you're just some other dude.

8:42She doesn't want some other dude. She

8:44wants the man.

8:46And you don't need looks, money, and

8:47status to be the man.

8:49What's important is that you're working

8:51towards those things.

8:52Especially if you're young. You don't

8:53need those things yet. It's all a

8:55facade, you know, them telling you you

8:56need looks, money, and status. No,

8:57that's not going to fix anything. Looks,

8:59money, and status is attraction method,

9:00and once you

9:01sit down on the date and you don't know

9:03how to act, you text that girl, "Oh, I

9:04had such a great time. We should do this

9:05again." She looks at you and she goes,

9:06"Wow, that Ferrari, that money,

9:09those good looks, and look at how

9:11desperate he is to see me again. He must

9:13never go out with 10s cuz if he did, he

9:14wouldn't text her right after the date."

9:17So, simple as that can kill all of those

9:19attraction methods. That Ferrari, looks,

9:20money, status, it all goes down the

9:22drain because you don't understand how

9:24to continue.

9:25Because you come off of a place of

9:27desperation, because you don't

9:28understand how the game works. You don't

9:29understand what she's actually attracted

9:30to.

9:32So,

9:33that's what it is.