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0:00You guys have this misinterpretation
0:01when it comes to women, how to behave
0:03with them. You think that it's about not
0:05caring. But see, there's a nuance. When
0:06I tell you you shouldn't care, what I'm
0:08saying is you shouldn't care if she's
0:10there or she isn't tomorrow. Right, you
0:12don't care if she leaves or she stays.
0:14That is the point. The point is that you
0:17can show and demonstrate that you can
0:19easily replace her. And that's what
0:21keeps her around cuz she makes the
0:22calculation that if you are the man out
0:24of all the other guys that can replace
0:26her the easiest, you must be more
0:28valuable than every other guy. Cuz think
0:30about it, the more valuable you are, the
0:31more options you have. The more options
0:33you have, the easier you can replace a
0:35woman. Therefore, reverse it. The easier
0:37you can replace a woman, the more
0:39options you must have. The more options
0:41you must have, the more valuable she's
0:43going to think you are even if you don't
0:44have the looks, money, and status. This
0:46is why women end up with bums, for
0:48example, the guys that smoke weed in
0:50their mom's basement all day. Why?
0:51Because that guy just cares about his
0:53weed. And he doesn't care about holding
0:54on to her. And so, she makes this false
0:56calculation that this guy who smokes
0:59weed, and then there's another guy that
1:01has the looks, money, and status, but he
1:02really wants to make the relationship
1:04work.
1:05And this guy doesn't care. And so, this
1:07guy must have more options because he
1:10doesn't care to lose me. So now, she
1:11makes this false calculation and falls
1:13in love with a guy that smokes weed all
1:14day. And this is why looks, money, and
1:15status
1:16it gets you through the door,
1:18but it doesn't help you retain a woman.
1:21Right? Because with retention, when it
1:23comes to long-term, that guy can beat
1:25you, the guy that smokes weed.
1:28Looks, money, and status is about like
1:29given the when when when a woman looks
1:31at looks, money, and status, what that
1:32is is qualification, attraction. Right?
1:35It gives you the key to the 10 out of
1:3810s.
1:40But let me tell you, if that guy that
1:41smokes weed somehow has access to that
1:4310 out of 10 and they went on a date,
1:45he's already got her. Attraction is
1:46done. Like, the attraction phase is
1:47finished. Now, it's retention. And if
1:49that guy doesn't care to lose her
1:51as much as the other guy does, he is
1:53going to be the one that she chooses.
1:55And so, this is what you guys have to
1:56understand. It's not that you don't care
1:57about her and you treat her like [ __ ]
1:59and you do all these things like, "Oh,
2:01yeah, I'm going to be a bad boy and I'm
2:02going to be mean and all this. I don't
2:03care about you. I
2:05No, that's not the point. The point is
2:08that you don't care to lose her.
2:10Right? The care that you provide her
2:12with
2:13is resource care. You are there. You are
2:16her rock. You can provide for her. You
2:17can make sure that she survives on a
2:19daily. But this is not emotional
2:21support.
2:22This is nothing other than resource
2:26loyalty, right? Not sexual exclusivity.
2:29Not loyalty like that. No. Resource
2:31loyalty. That's how you show that you
2:33care.
2:34Right? The way you show that you care is
2:36by not focusing on her at all.
2:38If you really love the woman and you
2:39really cared about a woman, what you
2:40would do is you go would go out there
2:42and become as powerful and influential
2:44as possible
2:45because that in turn would allow you to
2:47give her a life that no other man can
2:48give her because you become the top of
2:51the top. Right? You can show her [ __ ]
2:53that other men can't.
2:55And so, if you really love the woman,
2:57you wouldn't spend any time with a
2:58woman.
2:59You wouldn't try to make things work
3:00with a woman. You wouldn't sit there and
3:01try to save the relationship because you
3:03would be too busy building a life,
3:05building an empire
3:08that in turn allows you to actually love
3:10the people that you love in your life,
3:11including women, including your friends,
3:14including your family.
3:16And this is the way you have to operate.
3:17And if you don't operate this way, guess
3:19what happens?
3:21The woman looks at you as unsafe. You
3:24guys have to understand this. You think
3:26that you focusing on her, giving her all
3:28this attention, caring about her, trying
3:29to make the relationship work,
3:31caring about whether she leaves or if
3:34she disrespects or she goes out there
3:35and does something, you showing all this
3:37care,
3:38trying to make her perfect, trying to
3:40make sure she doesn't slip up because
3:41you really don't want her to disrespect
3:43you because you don't want to have to
3:44end things even though you're a
3:45You're You're not going to end things,
3:47right? It's all It's all You can't
3:49replace her, so you're not going to end
3:50things. It's all a bluff. Yeah, I'm If
3:51you do this again, I'm going to end
3:52things. No. All of this trying to
3:55hold her down
3:57makes you unsafe because you're spending
4:00all of your time and attention
4:02on her.
4:04And let me ask you this. This is a very
4:06simple question. Make this calculation
4:09right now. How do you become a man that
4:10is safe? Right? What is a safe man? A
4:12man that can provide. How do you become
4:14a man that can provide? You attain
4:16resources. How do you attain resources?
4:17By focusing on a woman or by focusing on
4:20yourself? And I ask yourself this. A lot
4:22of guys are going to be like, "Well,
4:23there needs to be balance." No.
4:25No, there isn't. There's no balance.
4:26It's only 100% focus on yourself.
4:30Because guess what? To become as
4:31powerful and influential as possible
4:35100% focus on you versus 90% focus on
4:38you, 10% focus on her
4:40100% focus on yourself is going to beat
4:42the 90% focus on yourself, 10% focus on
4:45her 100% of the time, every single time.
4:49Because you are selfish. You are
4:51narcissistic. You are only focusing on
4:53yourself. You never let anything that
4:54she says get under your skin. And this
4:56is the kind of man that she wants.
4:58Because this is the safest man. Because
4:59this is the man that acquires and
5:01attains the most resources throughout
5:02life. This is also the man that is the
5:04most reliable because he doesn't allow a
5:06woman to emotionally manipulate him.
5:08Because he doesn't invest any attention
5:09or time into her at all. And of course,
5:11right? That's inhuman. Of course, you're
5:13going to want to go out with her once in
5:14a while. You're going to want to spend
5:15time with her. You're going to want to
5:16laugh with her.
5:17That's fine. But see, the men that
5:19really deserve this, you got to
5:20understand this. Every time you do that,
5:21you decrease attraction because you make
5:22yourself a little bit less safe.
5:24And so, the goal and the goal that I'm
5:26going to give you for the rest of your
5:28life, you have to acquire this this
5:31goal.
5:33Is you become so much better than every
5:35other guy around.
5:36And this is your only choice, right? If
5:38you don't do this, she's not going to
5:39love you. She's not going to stay loyal
5:40to you. She will leave you if you
5:42continue doing those things. You want to
5:43be able to do those things. You want
5:45want able to spend some time with her.
5:46You want to be able to sit back, relax a
5:48little bit, and let loose. It's going to
5:49be unattractive, but here's how you make
5:50it work. You become so much better than
5:52every other guy that even you decreasing
5:54attraction, you're still better than
5:55every other guy. Cuz you got to
5:56understand, it's not that you have to be
5:58perfect every single day. It's not that
6:01you have to watch every word that you
6:02say.
6:03It's that you simply have to be the best
6:06option out of all the other options she
6:09has. This doesn't mean the best option
6:11in the world. Doesn't mean you have to
6:13be better than Donald Trump or Ronaldo.
6:15Okay? Doesn't mean you have to be the
6:16number one.
6:18It just means you have to be the number
6:19one in her life, in her DMs, in her
6:21following list.
6:22That's it. Because remember that guy
6:24Those other guys at the highest of
6:25echelons, they're not even looking at
6:27your girl. You're not dating a 10.
6:29Now, when you're dating a 10, that's a
6:30different story. Now, you got to be the
6:32best.
6:33But you don't even have access to that a
6:3410. You're dating a seven right now. So,
6:36the game ain't difficult for you. So,
6:38all you have to do is understand that
6:40you have to be her best option. And so,
6:42the more time you spend on focusing on
6:44yourself and becoming the best version
6:46of yourself
6:47instead of focusing on her
6:49and instead of letting every single
6:50little thing that she does get under
6:52your skin, you just keep going and
6:53focusing on yourself, guess what's going
6:55to happen? That is going to allow you to
6:56become so much better than every other
6:57guy that you're going to have
6:59the luxury of being able to relax
7:01sometimes and decrease attraction.
7:02Because even with you decreasing
7:03attraction, you're still
7:06more attractive than every single other
7:07guy that she can choose from. You're
7:09still more valuable than every single
7:10other guy that she can choose from.
7:12And this is the key.
7:14I don't care where she comes from. I
7:16don't care if she has a body count of 50
7:18or one or she's a virgin. I don't care
7:21if she had a great history or a horrible
7:23history. I don't care what her morals
7:25and her standards are, liberal,
7:27Republican, it doesn't matter.
7:30Women are only loyal to their best
7:33option, every single woman. I don't care
7:34how many years you guys have spent
7:36together. I don't care how many memories
7:38you have. I coach men
7:41who have had kids with a woman and this
7:44still happens to them. This is how every
7:46single woman is programmed because women
7:50need a man to survive. Now, of course,
7:52feminism has enabled them to survive on
7:53their own, but that hasn't that doesn't
7:55change their biology. That doesn't
7:56change their programming. That's just
7:58societal a difference in society that
8:00allows them to take care of themselves.
8:02But what happens with that is they just
8:03turn into men.
8:05Right? And so, this is the thing.
8:08But their biology never changes.
8:10What happens is they turn into men and
8:11now they can't be attracted to a man
8:12because they don't need a man. Let me
8:14tell you, every woman's biology is wired
8:16to need a man because she is weaker than
8:18a man and so therefore, she needs a man
8:20to survive. And the only way she can
8:22test to see if that man is capable of
8:25providing a a stable life,
8:28not only now, but in long-term,
8:31is by always choosing her best option
8:33because that optimizes her ability to
8:35survive. That is what she's doing. This
8:37calculation, you know, a lot of guys
8:39like to say women are dumb. Women are
8:40stupid.
8:42They might seem like that at face value,
8:44but their subconscious mind is genius.
8:48It is constantly making this
8:51cost
8:53cost-value calculation
8:5624/7.
8:58And if you ever lose to another guy, I
9:00don't care how much history you have
9:02with this woman. I don't care if you
9:03guys have been married and you have
9:04kids. She will cheat on you with that
9:06man. She will leave you for that man and
9:08that's not her fault. That's your fault
9:10for not focusing on yourself every
9:12single day of your life and becoming the
9:13best man you can possibly be. That is
9:16not her fault at all. You have the
9:17control. You have the power. You have
9:19the ability to put full focus on
9:20yourself and you chose not to. You chose
9:23not to listen to me. You chose to live a
9:25lie. You chose to conform to society and
9:27you chose to be a weak man and that is
9:29not a woman's fault. That is your fault.