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0:00It's Banksy and I'm here with
0:02>> Zack Ellard, owner of The Hotwife Tour,
0:05>> Satie Andrews,
0:07Cameron Marie, Riley Jacobs, Ally Sky,
0:12Crystal Davis,
0:13>> Daddy Dan,
0:14>> Daddy Dan,
0:16>> Daddy.
0:17[laughter]
0:18>> Oh,
0:18>> we're assuming position here in Dallas,
0:21Texas with the Hot Wives of the Hotwives
0:23Tour. Hi, everyone.
0:26>> Hi.
0:28>> Uh, okay. So, we're going to ask y'all a
0:31question. This one's a deep one, though.
0:33Are y'all ready? We're going deep.
0:37>> We like [laughter] it deep.
0:38>> So,
0:40do y'all have any advice when it comes
0:43to other couples or other wives that are
0:47interested in doing things in the
0:50industry or wanting to be more kinky
0:53>> on or people that want to step into the
0:55lifestyle that y'all have?
0:57He always has good answers for that.
0:59>> My husband always provided me like a
1:00safe my husband always gave me like a
1:02safe space to to be able to do whatever
1:04I wanted. Like he always was like
1:06there's nothing that you could do when
1:08we're exploring this that
1:11>> if it goes wrong, we figure it out. So
1:13>> he always provided Yeah. He always
1:14provided that and always said we'll
1:15figure it out. So that was that was a
1:17big thing for us.
1:19>> Um I would say well a really big thing
1:21for me is just having fun and kind of
1:24rolling with the vibe. Um, that's my
1:27biggest thing. Um, and so I would
1:29definitely say that's what I would I
1:32mean always go for it. If you're not
1:33comfortable with it, don't do it. If
1:35you're curious, do it. And just have fun
1:38because if you're not having fun, why
1:40are you doing it? [laughter]
1:43>> Um, so I would say for couples that are
1:45getting into, you say couples that are
1:47getting into the industry,
1:49>> I would say just have complete um open
1:52communication, honesty. Um, you know,
1:56you never want to kind of sell your soul
1:57or, you know, you just want to, you
2:00know, always have that open
2:00communication with your partner and, you
2:02know, do what feels comfortable for
2:04everyone. And, um,
2:07>> like, don't push boundaries that you're
2:09not comfortable pushing just because,
2:10you know, other girls are doing it and
2:12the camera's on you and you're getting
2:14money or not money, you know, don't go
2:16past your boundaries that you're not
2:18comfortable for because you can't take
2:19that back.
2:20>> Can I piggy back on this? I would say uh
2:23just like what she was talking about um
2:25sometimes the fans will will give you a
2:28lot of pressure from what they're and
2:29trust me they ask for everything you
2:31could ever imagine. Stick to your uh not
2:34morals but your principles and your
2:36boundaries. Have your boundaries and
2:39don't
2:40>> subjective. Okay.
2:41>> For [laughter] both of us they're
2:42actually you know morally.
2:45>> He's done. Morals are subjective.
2:47[laughter]
2:48>> We got what you were saying. Um, when it
2:50comes to the lifestyle, I think you have
2:52to make sure that your marriage or your
2:54relationship is really secure because it
2:57can possibly fracture it. So, if you're
3:01not secured and you try something new,
3:04it may not be able to survive.
3:06>> It's really similar to the lifestyle.
3:08>> Yeah.
3:09>> Really similar.
3:10>> You always have to like talk about
3:12lifestyle.
3:13>> Yeah.
3:14>> Find a mentor. Find amazing group of
3:16people. You know, it's all about
3:17networking. The hot wife tour
3:21>> cuz it's a safe place.
3:22>> It is.
3:23>> Yeah.
3:24>> Good.
3:24>> Yeah.
3:25>> Try
3:25>> and don't feel bad. Don't feel bad about
3:27it. Like don't if you are open and
3:30you're comfortable with yourself.
3:31>> Oh yeah.
3:32>> And you know be confident and don't let
3:35anybody judge you. And if they do judge
3:37you like who cares?
3:38>> I think something that we provide is
3:39like a really sex positive space. Even
3:41our guests who come in like it's very
3:43sex positive. Like
3:44>> anyone will take anyone's idea or kink
3:46control. [laughter]
3:48>> I'M USED TO DOING THAT.
3:50>> YOU CAN'T TAKE THIS. You can't take this
3:52one. Seriously.
3:53>> We try and put them in the center so
3:55[laughter] we can
3:58never work.
3:59>> It never works. [laughter]
4:01>> Oh my god. So, speaking about your fans,
4:03you brought up your fans. I have to ask,
4:06what is the most unexpected unexpected
4:09fan interaction or gift that y'all have
4:11gotten?
4:12>> M. Ooh, [laughter]
4:16>> I have gotten a lot of kitchen
4:18appliances from some fans. Like I always
4:20put like things on I have gotten
4:22[laughter] really cool things. Yeah,
4:25>> I have I mean I've run into fans at
4:27airports. I mean it's
4:29>> it's really fun at football games. Um
4:34>> I mean they could I could go on. It's
4:35pretty fun. The connections [laughter]
4:36the for me it's all about the
4:37connections, you know, like I I know
4:39someone who works for this TV network.
4:41if I needed something, I could reach
4:42out. Like, I don't know. It's just kind
4:43of fun just to have different
4:44connections across the country to me.
4:48>> I think she nailed it. [laughter]
4:50>> Period.
4:50>> Um, I think the funniest interaction
4:53I've had with the fan, I was actually at
4:55a lifestyle resort, Temptations, and I
4:58was at um I was inside the men's
5:01bathroom using the bathroom because the
5:02women's was so backed up. So, I walked
5:04in the men's bathroom and I walked into
5:06a stall and then all all of a sudden I
5:08heard, "Was that Cameron Marie?
5:11>> [laughter]
5:11>> And I'm like using the bathroom and I
5:13was like, "Yeah." And then like, "Uh, I
5:16don't think I know you." So then I'm
5:18like, "Okay." So then I get out of the
5:20bathroom and I'm washing my hands and he
5:21comes out the stall. He was like,
5:22"Cameron." And I'm like, "Yeah." I'm
5:24like, "Uh
5:26uh, nice to MEET YOU." LIKE, "SORRY,
5:28THIS IS SO WEIRD. IT'S A MEN'S
5:29BATHROOM." BUT, "OH MY GOD, NICE TO MEET
5:31YOU." And he's like hugging me. I'm
5:32like, "Okay, this is like the most
5:34interesting like meeting ever." But it
5:36was fun. It was fun. I was on the stairm
5:38one time at my local gym and I
5:41[laughter]
5:42>> someone touched the back of my leg and I
5:44turned around and they said, "Oh my
5:46gosh, you look like Satie Andrews." And
5:48I was like, "Oh yeah, that's my twin
5:49sister." [laughter]
5:52>> So that reminds me. Do you guys remember
5:54the first time you ever got recognized?
5:56>> Yes.
5:57>> What was it like?
5:58>> I still
5:59>> exciting. Yeah, it's so nice.
6:01>> They It's It's funny because they're the
6:04ones that's like
6:07and they don't say anything and I'm
6:08like, "Okay, I'll just go." And I always
6:12try to remind my fans to if you see me,
6:15say hi. Unless I'm with people like my
6:18children, you know, maybe just be
6:21discreet for a little bit before you can
6:23you want to take a picture right away.
6:24But I always tell them, you're more than
6:26welcome to come and say hi. If you want
6:28to take a picture, that's fine. Just
6:30maybe not in the middle of my dinner or,
6:32you know, that kind of stuff. I mean,
6:33common sense. But I've always welcomed
6:36my fans to come say hi to me. I I like
6:38to talk to them because I I owe a lot to
6:40them.
6:41>> I never Some of the opportunities that
6:43I've had have been because I've made
6:44connections with my fans outside of, you
6:46know, just messaging them. I actually
6:47get a lot cuz my my I'm actually tall
6:49girl Ally, but Ally Sky is my stage
6:51name. Um people see me and they say,
6:53"Wow, you really are tall." Yes. Like
6:55it's not an alias. Like it's not an
6:57alias. I really am tall. I really am
6:59tall. I don't lie about it. [laughter]
7:01>> Yeah.
7:03>> Anyone else? fan interaction.
7:04>> I have mainly people just stare at me.
7:07I'm like wondering like
7:09>> it's like do they know me or are they
7:12just like
7:13>> so say
7:14>> like is something wrong with me right
7:15now?
7:15>> She was talking about a certain look and
7:17they're not saying you it's a certain
7:18look like you're
7:21>> so I have mainly that unless we're at
7:23like an expo or whatever. And then I had
7:25actually one of the male talents that I
7:27hadn't met yet in um the last stop that
7:30we did and I was hopping in um Deem was
7:34coming to pick me up and I was hopping
7:36in with him trying to find him in his
7:38rental car and he flagged me down and
7:40introduced himself and was like, "Oh,
7:42hey." It's like, "Well, just hop in with
7:44us." So, we canceled his Uber and came
7:45over. But um [laughter]
7:48>> he said, "Yep,
7:49>> I know. No, it's we saw JL.
7:51>> I never know what's going to happen or
7:52if anyone's actually going to say
7:54anything.
7:55>> They want to say something, but some of
7:57them are very shy.
7:58>> Some are shy.
7:59>> Are y'all ready for my last question?
8:01>> Yes.
8:02>> Okay. What's one myth or any myth about
8:05the industry or being a hot wife that
8:08you would like to bust? [clears throat]
8:11>> Oh, I thought you had one.
8:13>> Yeah, you go.
8:14>> So, hopefully you guys agree with this.
8:16>> [laughter]
8:17>> I think uh there's a stigma that the
8:19women are being kind of controlled by
8:22men in the industry, but if you knew
8:25this tour, [laughter]
8:28>> the last word, [ __ ] ain't happening.
8:30>> I can hardly get a word in because and
8:33and it's awesome cuz they take care of
8:34everything. They control most of it. And
8:37so, especially like with who we shoot
8:39with, all that is all in their hands.
8:41So, yeah, I think that's one myth that's
8:42kind of out there.
8:43>> Yeah.
8:45Um I think another big myth is that we
8:47are all um ridden of STDs [laughter]
8:50when
8:51or you know there there's a stigma that
8:53comes behind sleeping with multiple
8:55partners of course um but in this
8:57industry and not only in the industry
8:59but us as hotwives uh you know we get
9:02tested
9:03>> you know sometimes we're tested every
9:05other week and every week. So we are the
9:07like the cleanest and safest safest.
9:11>> I'm safer now than when I was single.
9:13>> Yeah. Exactly.
9:14Yeah, 18 and in like in college and
9:16you're Yeah, I was definitely a lot more
9:18safer now than I was then. And so I
9:21think that's a huge huge myth is that
9:23women that do this are you know they're
9:25you know they can be having you know X Y
9:28and Z diseases but that the truth of the
9:30matter is that we are all tested
9:32absolutely regularly more than anybody
9:34normally would be. So,
9:35>> and also the hot wife tour even goes
9:37above and beyond. Like, normally it's a
9:3914-day within a 14-day window of the
9:41testing. We do a 7-day window because we
9:44do large group scenes. So, we even do a
9:45little bit safer than the um the
9:48>> the mandatory.
9:50>> Wow.
9:51>> Well, and not only that, even with our
9:53guest, if they're performing somewhere
9:55else, they got we got to make sure that
9:57whoever they're performing is also on
9:58their 7-day test. So, we kind of like
10:01backtrack like, you know, we make sure
10:03that everyone is just total seven days,
10:05even the ones that they're working
10:07outside of the tour.
10:08>> I love that y'all bring it up.
10:09>> Yeah,
10:10>> I love y'all bring that just the
10:12conversation up because it's something
10:15that is very important. I think it's
10:17very important in our industry and like
10:18y'all said, it's a big misconception.
10:20>> It's actually good for your health to do
10:21it. It's not necessarily about about,
10:23you know, not spreading things. It's
10:24good for your health.
10:26>> Yeah. It's good for your health to take
10:28care of yourself. Yeah. Like it's
10:30healthy for you to get tested and if you
10:32have issues, go get it taken care of.
10:35>> Definitely number one.
10:36>> Yeah. Yes. Health is number one.
10:38>> I take care of myself more now than I
10:39did back in the day.
10:41>> Does anybody else have any
10:42misconceptions that they
10:44>> I think a lot of our people think that
10:45like this is easy. [laughter]
10:48>> This is hard. It's it's I mean it's
10:51satisfying for sure, but it's
10:53>> there's challenges for So, I think a lot
10:55of people think that you just show up,
10:57film, and [ __ ] and it's an easy, fun
10:59job. You don't know. A lot of people
11:01don't realize what's going on behind the
11:03the scenes with all the video editing
11:05and the marketing. It's tedious. It's
11:07like a It's just like any other job.
11:09It's a moving target. It's a fun job. I
11:12love my life, but it's not easy.
11:14>> And I've heard the phrase sell your
11:16soul. Like, people think it's all about
11:17money. [clears throat]
11:18>> It's not. It's about it's about there's
11:20so much friendship and I say people in
11:22the industry have done more for me than
11:24even family and friends and places. So I
11:26think [laughter]
11:29there's
11:30>> there's a lot of real like really real
11:33people in this industry and that are
11:35great and are strong people in this
11:37industry and um I'm sitting in a room
11:40full of them right now and I love it.
11:43Um, it's not for the weakest soul, but
11:47>> there are some really great people and
11:50people that came from also really good
11:52backgrounds, really good careers, and
11:55choosing to do this because it's just
11:58more satisfying for them and it's more
12:01fun. And then you're also your own
12:03business versus the 9 to5. I could never
12:06go back to a 9 to5 ever. Um, so it's
12:10it's a transition for yourself, not just
12:12for somebody else.
12:15>> Yeah.
12:15>> Yeah.
12:16>> I love that.
12:17>> Oh, I was just going to say real quick,
12:19um, the first thing, the thing we value
12:22the most is actually the time we get to
12:24spend with our family because that's
12:25another thing,
12:26>> but we are very family oriented. I know
12:29it seems weird to say that. And of
12:31course, we keep this life separate. Um,
12:33but we once we did this, we're not
12:35working a 9 to5. We get to go to every
12:36school event. We don't miss any sporting
12:39events. It's that's the best part for
12:41me. So,
12:43>> I love that.
12:44>> Anybody else want have anything to add?
12:47>> No. No.
12:52>> We'll keep on talking. Oh,
12:53>> hand down to her shoes.
12:55>> This is what THEY'RE TRYING TO SAY.
12:56>> OH MY GOD.
12:57>> MAMA CRYSTAL.
12:58>> Mama Crystal. We love Crystal. De Mama.
13:03[laughter]
13:04>> Oh my god. YEAH. THEY ALL GOT THEIR
13:05LITTLE
13:06>> They're matchy.
13:07>> I'm not wearing my nails.
13:09>> I love it.
13:10>> We have a wedding season again.
13:11>> Yeah, we have a wedding here.
13:15>> We're on a very beautiful set,
13:17everybody. Or location, let's say,
13:18because it's like it's such a big place
13:20that I haven't even seen it all.
13:24>> Who's getting married?
13:25>> They are.
13:26>> Girl,
13:29>> are you going to record it? Yes.
13:30>> Do y'all do y'all
13:33wedding OR
13:36[laughter]
13:40transition into an orgy afterwards?
13:43>> We just celebrated 10 years last month.
13:45>> Wow. Congratulations.
13:47SHE ALL THE GROOMSMAN. [screaming]
13:49>> WE HEARD YOU here first everybody in my
13:51wedding dress.
13:52>> And her wedding dress.
13:53>> Wow. Your actual wedding wedding dress.
13:55>> Well, I mean I got it on Sheen.
13:58[laughter]
14:02I'm a cheap [ __ ] Okay. I'm a cheap
14:04[ __ ]
14:04>> Oh, it's a whole Wow. I love that.
14:07>> Did you see the reception area?
14:09>> No. Y'all got to give me the hot wife
14:11tour. THE REAL HOT WIFE TOUR. HOW I GET
14:14THE REAL HOT WIFE tour here?
14:16>> Oh, [laughter] yeah.
14:16>> Um, okay. Well, do y'all have anything
14:18y'all want to tell y'all's fans that are
14:20going to be watching the wedding? Your
14:22fans that stay with y'all throughout the
14:24years?
14:25>> We love you.
14:26>> We love you. Love you guys so much.
14:29>> We'll be at Exotica next month.
14:31>> We will
14:32>> be ready for some fire content from this
14:34weekend. It's going to be It's going to
14:35be hot.
14:35>> Thanks for having us.
14:36>> Yeah. Thanks for coming out.
14:38>> Thanks for having me. Thanks for letting
14:41me uh be a part of this. This is
14:43amazing. Great start.
14:46[laughter]
14:47>> Um okay everybody
14:50look in the comments below, comment,
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14:55see y'all soon.
14:57Yay! Because light went out, too.