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0:00If you sleep with a sister, you'll
0:01become a more attractive man. It's just
0:02simple as that. The more options you
0:04demonstrate you have, the more
0:05attractive you are. Like let's say
0:06you're a guy that can sleep with a
0:07sister, or can sleep with her mom, or
0:09can sleep with her best friend. Well,
0:11you're more attractive than a guy that
0:12can't. Literally. What determines your
0:15attractiveness is how many options you
0:16have. It's not the shape of your nose.
0:18It's not how good-looking you are. It's
0:19not how much money you have. Looks,
0:21money, and status is blind. It's blind.
0:24She totally forgets about all those
0:25things if you don't demonstrate that you
0:27have options. You don't demonstrate you
0:28have options by having looks, money, and
0:29status. You see, you could have all the
0:30looks, money, and status in the world,
0:31but if you start to do everything she
0:33asks you for, and [snorts] you act the
0:35way she wants you to act, and you listen
0:36to her, and you always apologize to her,
0:38she looks at you and she goes, "Oh, you
0:38never get laid." Sure, you must have all
0:40these things, all these assets, but you
0:42still never get laid. Cuz if you did,
0:44you would never listen to me. You could
0:45just replace me.
0:46Cuz a man with power who has options
0:48lives life the way he wants to live it,
0:50not the way some woman tells him. And
0:52every time you conform, and every time
0:53you don't, you're too afraid to go
0:55against what society tells you, or
0:57you're too afraid to break any of the
0:58societal norms, you always act right.
1:00I'm a good boyfriend. Look how good of a
1:01boyfriend I am. She looks at you and she
1:02goes, "You have no options."
1:04If you slept with her mom, she would
1:05find you more attractive. That's it.
1:07If you never apologized for it, and you
1:09never lied about it, and when she
1:10confronted you about it, you told her
1:11the truth, and you said, "This is what I
1:12did."
1:13And you said, "You know what? If you
1:14want to be over, we can be over." She
1:16would never end it. She wouldn't.
1:17Because you didn't do anything
1:18unattractive. One, you demonstrate you
1:19have options, and two, you demonstrate
1:21you're not afraid to lose her. By
1:22telling her the truth. That's just the
1:24way it works. The more options you have,
1:26the more attractive you are. Because you
1:27see, what determines your attraction?
1:30It's options. Why? Because options shows
1:33how valuable you are.
1:34You must be more valuable if you have
1:36more options. The reason why a soccer
1:39player can get laid more than you is
1:40because he's more valuable than you. He
1:41has more resources than you.
1:43Okay? So, that value and those resources
1:46allow him to have more options. Because
1:48every woman is trying to secure
1:49resources. She's trying to survive. She
1:52doesn't want exclusivity when it comes
1:54to you sleeping with her. She doesn't
1:56want sexual exclusivity. She wants
1:57resource exclusivity.
1:59>> [snorts]
1:59>> Okay? So, what's important is not
2:01whether you're loyal, because if you're
2:03a man who's loyal,
2:04but you have no money, you can't take
2:05care of her, well, she she will
2:07literally die. She won't be able to
2:08survive. So, that loyalty is irrelevant.
2:10It's not useful at all.
2:12What's resourceful to her and what is
2:15important to her is that resource
2:18loyalty. That resource
2:22the transaction of resources. So, you
2:24need to give a woman resources, not
2:26loyalty.
2:28If you're a man that cheats on her and
2:29you don't give her any loyalty and
2:30you're with multiple women, but guess
2:32what?
2:34The bills are paid and the child is
2:35being taken care of, well, guess what?
2:37She's surviving. She's thriving. She
2:38gets to go on trips with you. Life is
2:40great. No anxiety, no stress about the
2:42bills.
2:43Oh, she's upset that you're with another
2:44woman. Big deal.
2:46Okay? They're all going to be upset,
2:47regardless.
2:48They have to. Because you see, if every
2:50day was a good day for your girl, she
2:52wouldn't value you anymore. She enjoys
2:54spending time with you because every
2:55other day, she's wondering whether
2:56you're with the with another girl.
2:57That's what puts value on your time. You
2:59have to have the negative to have the
3:00positive. You cannot have a sunny day if
3:02every day is sunny. It's just another
3:03day. You can't.
3:05You want to make a woman feel all the
3:07emotions. You want to make her feel the
3:09highs and the lows and the more you can
3:10feel make her feel the highs and the
3:11lows
3:12and the more you can create that those
3:13polar opposites, the more she's going to
3:15be infatuated with you because they're
3:16emotional. That's why they watch their
3:17dramas and their TV shows. They want to
3:19feel something.
3:21>> [snorts]
3:21>> But you see, she's only going to feel
3:22something if she's with a man that has
3:23value. With a man that has options. With
3:25a man that every other woman wants.
3:27She wants an emotional roller coaster
3:29with that guy.
3:31And you can inflate yourself to become
3:33that guy without even having looks,
3:34money, and status. Sure, looks, money,
3:36and status can help.
3:37But guess what?
3:39If looks, money, and status increases
3:40your value,
3:42right? Cuz now you have more resources.
3:44You have more genetic You have better
3:45genetic resources, better financial
3:47resources.
3:48Guess what?
3:49If you just start to have girls around
3:52as friends and you openly show every
3:55woman that you have multiple women
3:56around.
3:57Well, guess what? Now they think that
3:59your value is high. You might not drive
4:01a Ferrari. But when you see a guy with
4:03two girls on his arms that are
4:04beautiful, you think he has a Ferrari.
4:07You go, "Oh, he must have money. Oh, he
4:08must have paid them."
4:10Oh, he must just be some rich dude.
4:12That's what you think.
4:14Lots of the time it's just some bum that
4:15knows how to play the game and you can
4:17be this guy.
4:18You can be this guy. You can fake it
4:19till you make it. You could be this dude
4:21with all these women
4:23and they might all They're going all
4:24going to think that you have a Ferrari.
4:25They're all going to think that you're
4:26just this famous guy
4:28that is just, you know, with all these
4:30girls because you have something else.
4:31No, the truth is you just know how to
4:33play the game. You know how her
4:34psychology works, how her mind works.
4:36You have a superpower
4:38which is understanding how female nature
4:41works. That's it.
4:43And how it works is very simple. It
4:45comes down to this one fundamental thing
4:46that I'm going to say over and over and
4:48over again. Her options Her your
4:50options.
4:52Her perception of how many options you
4:54have is directly correlated to how
4:56valuable she thinks you are. That's it.
4:59If you are a guy that can sleep with her
5:01sister, you are more attractive than the
5:02guy that can't.
5:04Literally.
5:05Who is more attractive? The guy that can
5:06sleep with her sister or the guy that
5:07can't?
5:09Now, here's the thing. A lot of guys are
5:10going to be like, "Well, it's the it's
5:12not about whether you can or you can't.
5:14It's about being able to but not doing
5:16it because you love her." Well, guess
5:17what? What kind of guy is going to be
5:19careful about what he does with this
5:22specific woman? What kind of guy is
5:23going to be afraid to sleep with that
5:26girl?
5:27To sleep with his girlfriend's sister
5:29because maybe his girlfriend might leave
5:30him for it. What kind of guy? The guy
5:31that always gets laid? The guy that has
5:32a bunch of options or the guy that has
5:33none no options? The The guy that can't
5:36replace that girl easily. The guy that
5:37can't do better than that girlfriend.
5:39The guy that can't do get better than
5:40that girlfriend. If you could have just
5:41replaced her, you wouldn't care. You
5:43would sleep with her sister.
5:45And so? So what? Oh, she's got an issue
5:48with it? I can replace her.
5:50You wouldn't care. And the thing is she
5:51wouldn't leave you because she sees
5:53this. She sees that you don't care, that
5:55you can replace her, that you're willing
5:56to do whatever you want because it's
5:57what you want to do.
5:59You guys need to understand what I'm
6:00telling you here because otherwise
6:01you're never going to have success with
6:02women. You guys can pay for all these
6:04courses, whatever you want to do. You
6:06want to go learn how to be a trader.
6:07Learn how to be a trader to retire your
6:09parents. Learn how to make money to
6:11retire your parents, not to get women
6:13because guess what, it ain't going to
6:14help because all you're going to do is
6:15make a bunch of money. You're going to
6:16have the Ferrari. You're going to have
6:18the penthouse. And then what you're
6:19going to do is you're going to go on a
6:20date with a woman and then after the
6:21date you're going to be like this nice
6:22guy. Oh, we should do this again. I had
6:23so much fun. And she just went on a date
6:25the day before with some guy that lives
6:27in his mom's basement that smokes weed
6:28that didn't work as hard as you and he
6:30takes her from you because he didn't
6:31text her after the date. He didn't text
6:33her for a week making her think, why
6:35doesn't he care about me? All the other
6:36guys text me right away. Even that guy
6:38that I went out with, which is you, the
6:39guy that was with the Ferrari, he text
6:41me right away. He had so so much fun
6:42with me. He wants to reschedule again.
6:44And she looks at that guy that smokes
6:45weed all day and does nothing. And she
6:46goes, why doesn't he care? He must get
6:48laid so much because the only reason why
6:50he wouldn't care is because he's already
6:51gone with dates with on girl on dates
6:54with girls who are 10 out of 10 and
6:55girls who are beautiful. That's it.
6:56That's the only reason why you wouldn't
6:57care to text her, I had such a great
6:58time. Let's do this again. Think about
6:59it. If she If she was some random girl
7:03that is like a three out of 10, would
7:05you do that? No, you wouldn't. But you
7:06see, to that guy that smokes weed that
7:07always goes out with 10s, that girl that
7:10is actually a 10 to you is a three to
7:12him. He doesn't care.
7:14And actually looks at him and she goes,
7:15he has more options. Even though you
7:17have more money and more resources, she
7:18looks at him and it creates the illusion
7:20that he has more resources. He has more
7:21value.
7:23She looks at him as the guy with the
7:25Ferrari even though you are the guy that
7:27has the Ferrari
7:28because he has more options, so he must
7:30have more value.
7:32You understand?
7:33He's more abundant. He doesn't care to
7:35reach out. He must get laid all the
7:37time.
7:38He doesn't care to connect on the date
7:40with me.
7:41You talk to her about all this crap when
7:43I was born and da da da da da da and my
7:45parents and this and you know, this
7:47happened to me and I want to become this
7:49and that and I want to do this with my
7:50life.
7:51All this trying to connect. You know
7:53what kind of man tries to connect? A man
7:54who feels like he has something to
7:55prove.
7:57If you got laid all the time and you had
7:59options cuz you're a valuable man, you
8:01wouldn't ever try to prove yourself.
8:03Ever. You wouldn't need to have a
8:04connection with a woman because you
8:05already have girls around that you have
8:07a connection with.
8:08The only reason you're trying to connect
8:09with her is because you're so desperate
8:10for that connection because you don't
8:11ever get that connection.
8:13That's it. And she looks at you and she
8:15subconsciously processes this. And girls
8:17don't understand that this is happening.
8:18It's all subconscious. That's why
8:19afterwards she goes, you know, women
8:21will always say this, "Oh, but he was so
8:23nice and sweet, but I don't know why I
8:24don't feel anything for him."
8:26And then the [ __ ]
8:28she's so attracted to him and she goes,
8:29"I don't understand why I like him.
8:31He lives with his mom. He can't pay his
8:33bills." Lots of the time they'll
8:35literally pay that man's bills.
8:37They don't understand why they're
8:38attracted to that guy that doesn't care.
8:39That only cares about his weed. Because
8:41he only cares about his weed.
8:43So, if he only cares about his weed and
8:44he doesn't care about the girl, he must
8:45get girls.
8:47You would only not care about a 10 out
8:49of 10 sitting in front of you on a date
8:50if you constantly get laid.
8:52You would only not care to cheat on a
8:54girl and lose her if you could just
8:57replace her.
8:58You would only not care to sleep with
9:00your girlfriend's mother
9:03if you were not afraid
9:06that that she might just like the only
9:09reason
9:10why you wouldn't do that,
9:12okay, is because you are afraid that you
9:15can't replace your girlfriend.
9:17That's it.
9:18That's all it is.
9:20You demonstrate that you're low on
9:21options. That text message that you
9:23respond to, she sent you a paragraph, "I
9:25don't know if this is going to work
9:26out." And you go, "No, let's fix
9:27things." Yep, low on options.
9:28Cuz if you had options, you would just
9:30replace her.
9:31You wouldn't deal with the drama. I can
9:32just replace you. Okay.
9:34Oh, oh, you want want fix Oh, da da da
9:36da da You got a problem with something
9:37I'm doing? Okay.
9:38That's it. That's the That's the reply.
9:40Okay. She wants to move on? Okay. She
9:42wants to Then she comes back she cuz
9:43look, this is what's going to happen.
9:44She's going to text you back. She's
9:45going to be like, "No, you know what? I
9:46I thought about it again." Okay.
9:49Oh, you want to come back? Okay, fine.
9:50No problem.
9:52That's it.
9:53You get reactive when she turns her
9:54location off because you have no options
9:56and you don't think you can replace her.
9:57You think you can't do better.
9:59You react when she goes to the club and
10:01when she dresses the way she's not
10:02supposed to dress because you have no
10:03options. If you just didn't care,
10:06if you didn't care that she goes to the
10:07club, like she goes, "I'm going to go
10:08out with my friends to the club. There's
10:09going to be guys there drinking, but
10:10don't worry. Like, can I go?"
10:13And you get all like, "No, it's it's
10:16it's not that I It's not that I don't
10:17trust you. I don't trust other guys."
10:19No, you know who you don't trust? Your-
10:20yourself. That's who you don't trust.
10:23You don't trust that you are the best
10:25dude in the world, that you are the man.
10:27That she cannot replace you. So, what is
10:29she going to do? Go find someone better?
10:30She can't. You don't trust yourself. You
10:33don't believe that you're enough.
10:35So, what you do is you get all panicked.
10:38You panic.
10:39Okay? Instead of letting her go, guess
10:41what happens when you let her go.
10:43You let her go and she goes, "Every
10:44other boyfriend I've had and every other
10:46guy that I've dated cared so much about
10:47how I dress
10:49and me not going to the club. The same
10:51crap that you said, 'I don't trust you.'
10:53Or I that I don't trust other guys."
10:55That's what every guy has ever done to
10:56her. And you're the one guy that doesn't
10:58care. She goes, "Oh my god, he's going
10:59to replace me. Why doesn't he care that
11:01I'm going to the club? Does he have
11:02other girls around? Does he not like me
11:04enough? Why doesn't he care?" And now
11:06she stops going to the club because now
11:07she thinks you're going to replace her.
11:08Now she thinks there are other girls. Or
11:09now she thinks she's not good enough.
11:11And she knows it's wrong, which is why
11:12she asked you. And now she's going to
11:13not do it.
11:15Why? Because now she gets afraid that
11:16you're going to replace her. And now
11:17she's going to act right. That's how you
11:19stop get her to stop going to the club
11:21is by demonstrating that you don't care
11:22because that shows that you have
11:23options. Now she becomes afraid of
11:24losing you because she doesn't think she
11:26can find a man with as many options as
11:27you. And options is value and value is
11:29everything that a woman is looking for.
11:30And value is attraction. And the more
11:32value you have, the more attraction you
11:33create.
11:35That's it. Demonstrate you have options.
11:38Demonstrate you have options 24/7
11:41and she will choose you every single
11:43time. No matter what you do, no matter
11:45how many times you cheat,
11:47I don't care.
11:48She's going to choose you.