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0:00Hello , welcome . My name is Mar Jasm . If
0:03you are new to this channel , I invite
0:05you to subscribe . Let’s open up a
0:07reading for the sign of Cancer . For
0:09those who have Sun , Moon , Venus ,
0:11Jupiter , or Rising in this sign . This
0:13reading might be for you . If you are
0:15here because of Cancer , there might be
0:17a message for you too . Remembering that
0:20this is a collective reading , so use
0:21discernment when applying it to your
0:23situation . If you need any important
0:26confirmation or if you identify with
0:27this reading , I suggest you book a
0:29private reading to get to know my work ;
0:31my contact links are in the description
0:33of this and other videos . Well , this is
0:38a timeless reading , it might also be
0:40mirrored , so check if it makes sense to
0:43you , if you are identifying yourself or
0:45your partner . It might also be that at
0:50the moment you watch the video , nothing
0:53from the reading is happening yet , so
0:56come back later to watch , okay ? So
1:00let's go , opening the table for Cancer .
1:12The Three of Wands , the Lovers card .
1:29The Seven of Pentacles , the Queen of
1:36Swords . The Nine of Wands , the Knight
1:51of Pentacles , two cards on the table ,
2:00the Four of Swords and the Eight of
2:05Cups . Well , we have someone here who
2:08seemed open , single , open to relating
2:10to other people , but they make a very
2:13cold , very rational analysis and end up
2:15closing themselves off . Someone who
2:19wants a serious relationship , but now
2:21and then shuts down , like , " stop
2:23looking , stop going out , stop doing
2:25things , " and enters a standstill . Eight
2:30of Cups cutting with the Three of Wands
2:31. It’s like , at the same time it’s :
2:35" Wow , I’m open , I want to , I want to
2:36get into a relationship . " There is
2:39still a very big wound there regarding
2:41the past , right ? It’s someone who
2:43still suffers because of the end of a
2:46relationship . There is the Hanged Man
2:48card here in the hidden pile , showing
2:50that this person is still stuck in this
2:51situation from the past . They need to
2:55do a review and reach a conclusion ,
2:57right ? a closure , an energetic divorce ,
3:00a family constellation , something that
3:04helps this person to let go , right ? Yes
3:11, that’s it , let go of the past . Oops
3:21, it fell down there . The Ace of
3:27Pentacles cutting with the Lovers card .
3:29And a great opportunity comes along
3:31here , right ? I don’t know if it has
3:32appeared or if it will appear . Ace of
3:35Cups , a very good opportunity here . Uh ,
3:39there is reciprocity , there is romance ,
3:41there is feeling , there is a desire to
3:43make the relationship real . Uh , a nice
3:47person is coming here for Cancer or for
3:50whoever is , I don't know , for you
3:52listening to me , for this person here
3:54on my table . Yeah , cards fell on the
3:59table that I won't accept because they
4:02fell right together . I’m just a bit
4:05clumsy with my hands today . The 10 of
4:11Cups cutting with the 7 of Pentacles .
4:14And , well , in this person's assessment ,
4:16it's all good . Wow , it's just great .
4:19This person brings well-being . There is
4:23emotional fulfillment , it's like , wow ,
4:25they are everything I wanted ,
4:27everything I thought of , everything I
4:29prayed to God for , it's this person
4:31here . It's very good , very good . The
4:34Hierophant card . The Hierophant card .
4:39Let's hold onto this information to see
4:41what the problem will be here , because
4:43there is a problem , right ? If there
4:46weren't , it wouldn't be appearing in
4:47the tarot . The 4 of Pentacles cutting
4:55with the Queen of Swords . So I said
4:58this person ends up making assessments
5:01and now I understand the Hierophant
5:04card . They assess things through a very
5:07ideal lens . This 10 of Cups , not
5:11necessarily that this person meets this
5:14ideal , but the person with whom they
5:16are , well , is meeting the ideal . Uh ,
5:21and this ideal is very much based on
5:23morality , uh , I don't know if there's
5:27something religious , something related
5:30to values , right ? So it's someone very
5:33judgmental or picky , because the Queen
5:35of Swords appeared here regarding this .
5:37It's someone very attached to their own
5:39point of view , their own way of
5:40thinking , right ? We have this 4 of
5:42Pentacles here , someone who has great
5:44difficulty changing their thinking .
5:47It's the Chariot card hidden here ,
5:49showing that it's a person who knows
5:51very well what they want , what they
5:52want to do . They know very well the
5:54direction they want to give to their
5:56life , right ? But it's someone very
5:58rigid who won't let go of their point
6:00of view . Two cards on the table , the
6:07Tower card and the Ace of Wands . The
6:10Tower card cutting with the 9 of Wands .
6:14This shows that this barrier , this
6:16block that this person has to changing
6:19their point of view is very difficult .
6:23So they end up , uh , ruining
6:25relationships or situations that appear
6:28for them because of this rigidity ,
6:31right ? Yeah , it's as if this person
6:35ends up losing people , losing
6:37opportunities , right ? It’s very bad
6:41in this person's life . The ace of wands
6:43crossing with the knight of pentacles .
6:45Someone who has the desire to live
6:47something lasting . I see that it’s
6:49someone who wants a serious
6:50relationship , certainly a long-lasting
6:52one . I think someone who wants to get
6:54married , uh , wants a long-term
6:56relationship . And here the ace of wands
7:00is showing that , uh , maybe this person
7:06ignores that spark , that initial
7:08passion , they want to skip the step ,
7:11they don't consider whether they feel
7:14desire or not for this person . We have
7:18a queen of wands here . The signs are
7:21Aries , Leo , Sagittarius . The Hermit
7:36card crossing with the four of swords .
7:41Yeah , this person truly withdraws ,
7:44shuts down when , uh , they meet someone
7:47who doesn't fit their ideal ; they stop
7:50replying to messages , they hide , close
7:53off and , and dive into work , anyway ,
7:56they'll do other things , get distracted
7:59, do other things . Uh , they don't
8:03continue , they put the brakes on the
8:05interaction , on the relationship . The
8:18Queen of Cups crossing with the eight
8:21of cups . Queen of cups , water element .
8:24It could be you , Cancer , Scorpio , or
8:26Pisces . We have here , then , showing
8:30that it’s really Cancer energy
8:32looking at some past situation that
8:35ended , some distance , something that is
8:38preventing this person from being
8:40completely open to future relationships
8:43. We have the five of pentacles , a
8:47great longing , a lack , a void ,
8:48something that holds this person back .
8:52There’s an emotional void here caused
8:56by some past relationship . This needs
8:59to be looked at . The Sun card crossing
9:05with the ace of pentacles . Which I was
9:07talking about , a wonderful opportunity
9:10that arrived , which has , uh , a lot of
9:12love , it had love because the ace of
9:14cups fell in the hidden cards , but also
9:16someone wanting a serious relationship .
9:19The Sun card has here a lot of
9:23happiness , joy ; there is a very
9:25pleasant , very warm energy here , right ,
9:27of a couple . I don’t know if you’ve
9:30met them or if you will meet them . In
9:32fact , it’s … uh , if you haven’t met
9:36them , please , observe this : this
9:39behavior here of … uh , making things
9:43blow up before they even start , right ?
9:48So here comes the Temperance card even
9:50advising . Be calm , calm . Wait . The nine
10:00of pentacles crossing with the 10 of
10:02cups . There is a lot of pride here in
10:07this motivation , right , of evaluating ,
10:09of watching , seeing if this person
10:11meets all the requirements , right ? And
10:15so , deep down , I see that this person
10:17— and it could be a woman , okay , that
10:19I'm talking about , right ? She is very
10:22selective because it comes from a place
10:25of " I deserve it , " " I am amazing , " or "
10:28I've already built a lot on my own , and
10:30I need someone who can keep up with
10:33this pace , keep up with my growth , "
10:35right ? A prosperous woman here , and she
10:39is a person who is willing to be alone ,
10:42because if she doesn't find someone who
10:44is up to the level of what she desires ,
10:47well , that's okay . She stays alone ,
10:50right ? She might have been alone for a
10:52while and truly stays on her own . Three
10:55of Pentacles : it has to be someone who
10:57will build what she desires . The Hanged
11:03Man card cutting across the Four of
11:05Pentacles . But here it’s saying : " My
11:07daughter or my son , right ? " I don't
11:10know if you are a man or a woman . Well ,
11:13it's okay for you to know your high
11:15value , it's okay for you to want
11:17someone who can keep up with you , but
11:20the way this is being done when you
11:22meet someone — here comes the Ace of
11:24Cups — it's not great . It's leaving you
11:29hanging , it's leaving you stuck ; you
11:31are sacrificing , sacrificing yourself ,
11:33preventing yourself from experiencing
11:35relationships that could be really cool
11:37just because you didn't see a
11:39requirement you wanted there , right ?
11:42For example , " Oh , I only want to date
11:43doctors , " let’s think like that ,
11:45because it seems like someone very
11:46extreme . " Oh , because I only want to
11:49date people who have X or Y profession ,
11:51" right ? " Oh , I only want to date
11:54engineers , I only want to date doctors .
11:56" Yes , believe it or not , that exists .
12:00And that is preventing you from opening
12:02up to really nice people , including one
12:04who is here in your energy , who if they
12:05haven't appeared , they might appear . So
12:08, pay attention , because this is
12:10leaving you stagnant . The Six of
12:15Pentacles cutting across the Tower card
12:17. So here , this blockage is ruining all
12:22the possibilities for happiness in love
12:24. And here , this thing — each fall ,
12:28right , weighs on you and then you need
12:31some time to rebalance again , right ?
12:34This is talking about reciprocity ,
12:36right ? Maybe I'm talking to someone who
12:39doesn't have an easy time showing
12:41reciprocity . This person stays more
12:45closed off , right ? No , there isn't a
12:48very good exchange . And then it has to
12:52do with actual interest , economic ,
12:54status , something like that . Queen of
12:58Pentacles , earth sign , Taurus , Virgo ,
13:00or Capricorn . You might be dealing with
13:02someone of this sign . Ah , the Nine of
13:10Cups cutting with the Ace of Wands ,
13:12we're talking about pleasure here .
13:15It’s interesting , because as I was
13:18saying : someone who is ... maybe this
13:20person is so demanding that they
13:23postpone sexual relations , for example ,
13:26someone who is getting to know someone
13:28else and says : " Oh no , I’ll only have
13:31sex on the 10th date , I don't want to ,
13:34I don't want to . " Uh , but I see here
13:39that uh because it's someone who I
13:44think gets very lost if they have sex ,
13:46they lose that rationality , a Queen of
13:48Wands had fallen here . It’s as if
13:51when this person gives in , all that
13:54rationality goes down the drain and
13:56then they dive into pleasure and their
13:58motivation becomes something entirely
14:01different , right ? I understand it this
14:05way , they postpone it because they are
14:07in this strategy , but then when they
14:10have sex they lose their sense of self
14:13and end up giving in . Anyway , I think
14:15this is this person’s biggest fear ,
14:17letting go of this point of view , this
14:19strategy , this way of dealing with
14:21things . We have here a King of Swords ,
14:25an air sign . The Queen of Swords came
14:28up again , now the King of Swords . Uh ,
14:31Gemini . Libra or Aquarius , it could be
14:35that you are dealing with this sign
14:37being strong in the chart . We could be
14:40talking about a Cancerian who has an
14:43air sign ascendant or the other way
14:45around as well . Whoops , more cards fell
14:51than should have . The Star card cutting
14:53with the Hermit card . And we also have
14:56the Queen of Pentacles . This has closed
14:58here . Uh , and what is happening here ?
15:03Uh , there is withdrawal , this person
15:05stops communicating , they stop talking ,
15:06they put the brakes on , they’re
15:08getting to know someone , and suddenly
15:09they don’t give any more conversation
15:11, right ? And this shows someone who
15:18perhaps is very afraid of making
15:20themselves vulnerable . Huh , I don't
15:24know . It’s someone who is very
15:28comfortable in their own presence , I
15:30don't know . A difficult person , you
15:32know ? A difficult person to have a
15:35relationship with , but they need to
15:37deal with and treat wounds from the
15:39past , past relationships , and all this
15:41demand . Let’s see here with the gypsy
15:45deck , let’s look at the advice . If
15:48this reading is making sense to you ,
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15:58lot . The Tower card cutting with the
16:04Queen of Cups . Oh , so here I was
16:08talking precisely about this person
16:11appearing to be open , but in reality ,
16:13they are still mourning the departure
16:16or the end of a relationship . The Tower
16:19card says : " It is very important to
16:22experience a true period of withdrawal ,
16:24right ? " Because to me , this seems like
16:28a person who forces situations because
16:31they cannot stand being alone . They
16:34force situations because they have a
16:36goal , and they haven't been able to
16:37spend an entire period by themselves ,
16:39have they ? " Oh , I'll stay here until I
16:41heal , until I resolve this situation
16:43within myself , and then I'll open up . "
16:45No , they close off when they have a
16:47disappointment , and then later , when
16:49that disappointment passes , they return
16:51. They cannot anchor this , uh , this
16:55withdrawal . And here , it is very
16:58important to retreat in order to treat
16:59these wounds from the past . It is
17:01someone who has not processed the grief
17:02of the end of a relationship . The
17:08Coffin card cutting with the Sun card .
17:11It's interesting because here I was
17:13talking about that wonderful
17:15opportunity that arrived , which is here
17:17, right ? Lots of warmth , lots of
17:19happiness , lots of joy , there's the
17:21possibility of a stable relationship ,
17:23there's feeling , there's reciprocity ,
17:26there's desire , there's everything
17:28together . And the death , or the Coffin
17:32card , says you need to manage to finish
17:35what is final , what has already ended ,
17:39to make closures in life , right , in
17:42order to be able to open up to a
17:45situation . Here is the Key card . So ,
17:47what is it saying ? Uh , you will only be
17:51able to attract this love or say yes to
17:53this love — because sometimes it has
17:55even already appeared to you — when you
17:57end the past situation , when you manage
17:59to put a real full stop to it . The
18:10Heart card cutting with the Nine of
18:11Pentacles . Here I was talking about the
18:13evaluation of the ideal . " Is this
18:15person on my checklist , or are they not
18:17? " " If they aren't , I'd rather stay
18:18alone , because I am beautiful ,
18:20wonderful , and I have already built so
18:22much on my own , and it doesn't matter . "
18:24And then the Heart comes along and says
18:27: " Dear , honey , we aren't talking about
18:29business , we aren't talking about
18:31finding a partner , we are talking about
18:34an affective relationship . " So that's
18:37it , the Serpent card speaking here ,
18:40right ? Be careful with your motivations
18:42. You might be , uh , distorting matters
18:46of the heart . The Birds card cutting
18:54with the Hanged Man card , the center of
18:56the reading . Too much attachment to a
19:00point of view , something that makes you
19:02sacrifice this person , sacrifice your
19:04love life , remain stuck there , unable
19:07to move forward . The birds card is
19:09completely the opposite . Free yourself ,
19:12let go , uh , try to think differently ,
19:14talk to other people , get out of this
19:16comfort zone of , oh , there's a lot of
19:19stubbornness here with this person .
19:22Maybe , maybe people have already told
19:24her about this , spoken to her about
19:27this , right ? Gee , but aren't you being
19:30too rigid , but she continues , right ?
19:32She doesn't allow herself . The birds
19:34card is go , right ? uh allow yourself to
19:37think of new ideas , to accept new ideas
19:41. And here the house card suggests that
19:43these ideas come from family , from the
19:45foundation , right ? From father and
19:48mother , I don't know , something
19:49familiar . These are ideas , uh , that
19:52have a family foundation . The snake
19:59card cutting with the six of pentacles .
20:01It had come out here , now it fell . And
20:05it fell right here , where it says that
20:08the more rigid you are , the more blocks
20:10you place here in your love life , the
20:12more you will suffer , because then , uh ,
20:15there is a lot of disappointment ,
20:17that's what I see , you know ? It's like ,
20:20you build an ideal because I'll find
20:23them , because now it's going to work , I
20:26found the person , and then it crumbles
20:29and hits a wall here regarding
20:31reciprocity , rejection , right ? It seems
20:36like something like , wow , so I met
20:38someone who has the ideal profession ,
20:40uh , who lives in such and such a
20:42neighborhood , who does this , who does
20:45that , who is like this physically and
20:47everything . Uh , and then you invest in
20:52this person , but this person isn't
20:53reciprocal , and then comes a whole
20:55thing of rejection . Anyway , the snake
20:58card says : " Beware of your own traps ,
21:01right ? Beware of what you , uh , set as
21:05criteria and then you end up suffering
21:08because of it , right ? Anyway , here it's
21:13, uh , to be very attentive to your own
21:16traps , to question your own traps , your
21:22own motivations . Whoops ! And here it
21:26could be saying : " Your motivations are
21:27so false , they are so superficial ,
21:29right ? You need , uh , to review all of
21:33this . Card didn't fall . The garden card
21:47cutting with the nine of cups . Well ,
21:51here I was talking about this person
21:53postponing sexual relations , because
21:55when they do go for it , they like it a
21:57lot and then they kind of lose their
21:59head . The garden card says : " You are a
22:02very closed-off person and you need to
22:04open up and you need to let go and you
22:06need to stop creating obstacles for
22:08yourself . Last card for us to finish ,
22:17the winds card cutting with the star
22:19and the queen of pentacles that fell
22:20together here . So , uh , as I was saying ,
22:24it’s someone who ends up closing
22:26themselves off a lot , and there’s
22:28this energy of " I’m self-sufficient ,
22:30I can handle things on my own , I
22:31don’t need anyone , " with a real
22:33struggle to be vulnerable or leave
22:35their comfort zone . A very difficult
22:38person here . Sorry if I’m talking
22:41about someone watching me , but it’s
22:42very important to look at ourselves ,
22:44right , to change . Oh , the Winds card
22:47here says that uh , your mind , the way
22:52you think , it’s very , uh , oh ,
22:56what’s the word ? It’s very cloudy .
23:01And it’s as if there were things
23:07there , and it’s very blurred , and
23:09it’s blurred by other people’s
23:10views , you know ? You probably took on a
23:14view from someone in your family , or a
23:16father or mother or relative , there’s
23:19something there clouding your vision
23:21and you aren’t able to see , you
23:23aren’t able to see things clearly .
23:26This is preventing you from being happy
23:28in love . The Fox card , it appeared a
23:31few times here , it says be more
23:33analytical , strategic regarding
23:35yourself , because here I see someone
23:37who is very analytical and strategic
23:39regarding others , but not toward
23:41themselves . It’s as if you think
23:44you’re perfect . And here it says ,
23:47question , right , who you are being ,
23:49question your own ideas . Uh , try to
23:52clear your mind with new ideas or by
23:55listening to people who are dear to you
23:58, your friends , so you can start to see
24:01more clearly . Well , that’s what I
24:05have for you , Cancer . I hope it made
24:07sense . See you next time . Bye .