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0:00Do not text her. I know you want to
0:01check up on her. I know you're dying to
0:04seal that gap. You want to contact her.
0:05Don't do it. I'm telling you you're
0:07going to thank me. You're going to say,
0:08"Marcus, you were right. She texted me
0:10back." So, relax. Take a deep breath. Go
0:13to the gym. Go do some manly [ __ ]
0:16Relax. I'm telling you, you text this
0:18girl right now. You're like, "Well,
0:19maybe she just wants love. Maybe she's
0:21been unfortunate with all these You
0:22know, a lot of these girls though
0:23they'll have an unfortunate past." And
0:25then they'll tell you, "Well, I just
0:27want a guy who's loyal. I just want a
0:28guy who's sweet. I just want a guy who's
0:29honest." And then you'll be all those
0:30things. Let me tell you,
0:32stop doing it.
0:34It's all a facade. It's all a lie. What
0:36you need to do is just relax.
0:38And let her come to you. You are chasing
0:40her right now. You're not building
0:41attraction. If she isn't giving you all
0:42the time and attention in the world,
0:43it's because you aren't attractive
0:45enough. Because let me tell you, for a
0:47man that's attractive enough, she'll
0:49throw away everything. She'll spend
0:50every single second of her day trying to
0:53contact him, trying to establish
0:55something with him, a relationship,
0:57whatever it is. Pursue him.
0:59Relentlessly. She'll do it with no no
1:02remorse.
1:04She'll throw everything away. She'll
1:06stop hanging out with her friends.
1:08She'll cancel plans with her family.
1:10Anything. So, let me tell you, if she's
1:11not doing that right now, your problem
1:13is that she's not attracted to you. So,
1:15why the hell are you chasing her?
1:17When you chase, it doesn't build
1:18attraction.
1:19When you try to initiate that contact
1:21with the woman, it doesn't build
1:22attraction. It just pushes her away. Cuz
1:24remember,
1:26attraction is based on your value. The
1:28more valuable you are than her, and the
1:30more valuable you are than all the other
1:31guys around you,
1:32right? The more attractive you become.
1:35So, what do you got to do to become more
1:37attractive? Establish higher value. Now,
1:40how do you do this? You do this by
1:41having a lack of care. You do this by
1:44showing her that you don't care if she
1:45reaches out or she doesn't. What does
1:47that mean?
1:48It means you must have girls as pretty
1:50as her around. It means you can easily
1:52easily replace her. It means you go out
1:53with girls just as pretty as her all the
1:56time. This is what it is. So relax right
1:58now. You got to just chill.
1:59Okay? Because the only way you can ruin
2:02this is by putting her above you. Is by
2:04putting her on a pedestal. Is by showing
2:06her that she actually isn't less
2:08valuable than you. That she's more
2:09valuable than you. And if that ever
2:10happens, that's it. She's not attracted
2:12to you at all. So what do you do?
2:15What do you do?
2:16You don't chase.
2:18Because you see, you can only chase
2:19something that's ahead of you. Something
2:20that's in front of you. Something that
2:21is better than you. You can't chase
2:22something that is behind you. You
2:24already have everything that's behind
2:25you. So this is the thing.
2:26You stop chasing this woman.
2:28You already have her. She's already your
2:31girlfriend. You already have this girl.
2:33Or let's say you're in a talking stage.
2:36But if you stop chasing her, what is
2:38that going to establish? That you
2:39already have her. That she's already
2:41yours. Like you don't care.
2:43It doesn't matter to you because she's
2:44already yours.
2:45And this is the thing. You guys have to
2:47understand this.
2:48If you do
2:50end up doing nothing and you listen to
2:52my advice and it still doesn't work out,
2:53that means you never had a chance in the
2:55first place. Because you pursuing her
2:56wouldn't have made her attracted to you.
2:58Wouldn't have built attraction. Wouldn't
2:59have It wouldn't have helped you. It'd
3:00have only slowed you down. It would have
3:02only made things worse. Meaning if you
3:04did nothing, she still didn't initiate,
3:07you had no chance of her initiating in
3:09the first place. Guys will always ask me
3:10this. Well, Marcus, what if I What if I
3:13don't text her? Like What if I don't
3:15text her and she doesn't text me back?
3:16You know what I mean? She didn't like
3:17you.
3:18Because let me tell you,
3:20either she's testing you and she will
3:21text you or she literally doesn't care.
3:24And if she doesn't care, no amount of
3:25you pursuing her, no amount of you
3:26trying to establish further
3:28communication is going to make her care.
3:30The only way you get her to care is by
3:32you not caring. Is by showing that you
3:33don't care.
3:34You just relax. You chill out. You do
3:36your thing. You live your life.
3:38Something that's valuable doesn't need
3:39to state that it's valuable. It just
3:40exists and that's enough. And this is
3:42your job.
3:44This is your duty as a man.
3:46They qualify themselves to you. You
3:47don't qualify yourself to them ever.
3:49Because you're above them. And if you
3:51ain't above them, guess what? They will
3:52never like you.
3:54So, you have to always be above them.
3:55Even if you think she is more rare than
3:57you. Even if you think she is more
3:58valuable than you. Let me tell you, you
3:59can change all that. You can make it all
4:01seem like it's all it's all crap. Like
4:03it's [ __ ] a facade.
4:05She thinks she's valuable? She ain't.
4:07You know why? Because you care less than
4:08her.
4:09You care less than her to make the
4:10relationship work. You care less than
4:12her to establish communication. Now,
4:13what happens now is doesn't matter if
4:15she's prettier than you. All right, it
4:16doesn't matter if you're a better
4:17looking guy or not. It doesn't matter if
4:19you
4:20are not as good looking as her, right?
4:22Doesn't matter.
4:24Doesn't matter if you are as high
4:25status, as high value as all the other
4:27guys. Why? Because you care the least.
4:29When you care the least, it must mean
4:30you are abundant. You can easily replace
4:33the woman.
4:34It means you already have women.
4:36Now, she looks at you and she goes,
4:38"Wait a minute. Maybe he's much more
4:40valuable than I thought." See, this is
4:41the thing.
4:42This can all be faked. It can all be
4:45faked. But, at the same time, I'm not
4:47telling you guys to stop focusing on
4:48your future. I'm telling you do
4:49everything at once. Because now what
4:50happens is you become this man that is
4:53irreplaceable. Irreplaceable. Can you
4:55imagine a guy that doesn't care to lose
4:57her and at the same time is focused on
4:58his future?
5:00Meaning every single second of his life
5:02he's spending it becoming even better
5:04than he was the second before.
5:07And at the same time, you ain't chasing
5:08her. So, you're not chasing her, which
5:10is creating attraction, and you're
5:11bettering yourself, which is creating
5:12attraction.
5:14In the long term, you're going to be a
5:15much better man.
5:17Which is going to build your attraction.
5:18And you don't care whether the
5:20relationship works out, whether she
5:21texts you back or not.
5:23You're literally winning twice. There's
5:25no other way. It's either you win twice
5:26or you lose twice.
5:28You make the choice. You make the
5:29decision, but I'm telling you there's no
5:30other way to go about this. This is the
5:32only way to go about it. And if you
5:33decide to go about it any other way,
5:35it's not going to work out. It just will
5:36not work. It will not work.
5:39Do it as much as you like.
5:41You guys think it's about finding the
5:42right one. Oh, maybe she wasn't the
5:43right one. With the right one, you
5:44wouldn't have to play all these games.
5:45This isn't playing games.
5:48This is the natural course of life. The
5:50man follows God. The man follows
5:52purpose.
5:53And in return,
5:54he turns himself into a man who's
5:55valuable to society, valuable to the
5:57people around him. He has resources he
5:59can provide. And now the woman can be
6:01attracted to that man. Why? Because
6:03attraction is for survival.
6:05She can only be attracted to a man that
6:06initiates
6:08that can enable her survival.
6:11And can allow her to survive better than
6:13all the other women. Can allow her allow
6:14her to win live a better life than all
6:16the other women.
6:18Meaning, you buying her flowers,
6:21you being on FaceTime with her, you
6:23texting her and pursuing her, that is
6:25not you increasing your value because
6:26that doesn't add resources to your life.
6:29And so what happens now is she looks at
6:30you and she goes, "You're unsafe. You
6:32can't provide me with a life where I can
6:33survive and prosper." Or maybe you can,
6:36but you can't do it as good as the other
6:37guy. She'll leave you for that guy.
6:40I don't care how much history you have
6:41together.
6:42Because this is how attraction is wired.
6:45Survival of the fittest. This is the
6:46truth, the cold hard truth. It's never
6:48going to change. It will always remain
6:49this way. This will never ever change.
6:52You have to understand this. And if you
6:53don't understand this and you think it's
6:54all about finding the right one,
6:57let me tell you,
6:59there's no such thing as the right one.
7:00There's only such thing as the right
7:01type of man. For the right type of man,
7:02any woman will be the right woman.
7:04She'll act right.
7:06She'll do everything you want her to do.
7:07She'll prioritize you every day of her
7:09life. She'll obsess over you. She'll
7:10love you more than you could ever
7:11imagine.
7:13Because a woman doesn't have a frame.
7:15And a woman is literally just a
7:16reflection of the man she's with. The
7:17reason why we have
7:19so many ruined women in today's
7:21generation, it's not women's fault. You
7:22know whose fault it is? It's man's fault
7:24for not being man.
7:26All these men, they're not men.
7:27And when there are no men in a society,
7:29what that what that does is it allows
7:33for a lack of femininity to occur.
7:35Because see, now women don't have any
7:36men to be feminine for. They don't have
7:38to uphold anything. They don't have to
7:40act a certain way because they don't
7:42have a man to lose. She has nothing to
7:43lose, so why would she care? She can act
7:46however she wants, right? That's what it
7:47is. The homeless man can do whatever he
7:48wants because he's got nothing to lose.
7:51So now women have nothing to lose. Women
7:53don't live their life for money. They
7:54don't live their life for status. They
7:56live their life for love, for emotion,
7:58for a man. If she has no man, she's got
8:00nothing to live for.
8:02These girls clubbing and smoking and
8:03drinking, your fault.
8:05Man's fault. The men that aren't being
8:07men. The men that are focused on women,
8:09cuddling in bed, sitting on FaceTime all
8:11the time. The men that are going out
8:13there and doing things
8:16that are useless to society. This is the
8:18reason why we have a lack of women, why
8:20we have a lack of femininity.
8:22It's man's fault. It's not woman's fault
8:24at all. And then, you know what's funny
8:26about this? American men will complain
8:27about this. I'm an American guy, but
8:29listen. These guys will complain about
8:31this.
8:32I'm not taking their side because these
8:33guys are idiots. They'll say,
8:36"American women are the worst."
8:39What are you complaining about? I want
8:41to ask you that. I really want to
8:42understand what the hell you're
8:43complaining about. Because if you think
8:45these American guys that complain about
8:47the women here, if they think they can
8:48get laid in Eastern Europe, good luck.
8:49Cuz remember, the only way that you can
8:51be the most attractive man in the room
8:52is by doing just that, being the most
8:54attractive man in the room.
8:56Being the man with the most amount of
8:57resources. Being the man that's the most
8:59manly. You go to Eastern Europe, you're
9:01instantly going to be the most feminine
9:03man there. The competition is a lot more
9:06competitive. Okay? And now you have
9:09absolutely no chance of mating with
9:10those women. So those women might be
9:11better women,
9:12but what that means is that there's
9:14better men in the society. What that
9:16means is it's more difficult for you to
9:17get laid, more difficult for you to find
9:19a partner, more difficult for you to get
9:20a woman to love you over the other guys
9:21because the other guys are better than
9:22you.
9:24You live in America, you got the best
9:25opportunity in the world.
9:27I mean, it's it's fantastic here if you
9:28really know what you're doing because
9:29there's no competition. There are no men
9:31in this society, in this country.
9:33Very few.
9:35Very few. And as much as I love America,
9:38let me tell you, these guys don't know
9:39what the hell they're doing because of
9:41this society and these things that
9:43everybody is being brainwashed with.
9:46It's easy. You instantly beat all these
9:48guys. It's easier here. It's more
9:51difficult you go to Eastern Europe.
9:52Those men are men. They know men here.
9:54Your competition is none. Put me in a
9:56room.
9:58Easy, done, finished. I don't have any
10:00competition.
10:01And you guys are complaining cuz you
10:02don't understand how this works.
10:04The only reason the women here are
10:06screwed up is because there are no men
10:08to be good for.
10:10You guys don't understand. You sending
10:11her that text message, don't send it.
10:14Don't send it because that doesn't allow
10:15her to be in her feminine.
10:17If you don't allow her to be in her
10:18feminine, she can never ever ever be a
10:20good woman. She'll never be the girl
10:23that is obsessed with you. She'll never
10:24be the girl that can love you because
10:25you're not allowing her to love you.
10:27Because you're not allowing her to be a
10:28woman. Don't send that text message.
10:31She texts you, great, you respond.
10:34She doesn't, fine.
10:36I'm not telling you guys to react. I'm
10:37not telling you guys that if she doesn't
10:39text you, you play games with her and
10:40you don't text her back and you ghost
10:41her back. No, I'm not saying that.
10:43I'm saying she texts you, great,
10:45respond. She doesn't text you, great,
10:47that's fine, too. Whatever it is.
10:49Let it flow. Relax.
10:52She doesn't text you, great, hallelujah.
10:54You don't have to listen to female
10:55drama. Go to the gym. Make some money.
10:58It's great. Everything's fantastic. She
10:59ain't got anything interesting to say
11:00regardless, I promise you that. So, why
11:02the hell do you care?
11:04Do not send that text message. Don't do
11:06it.