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0:00If you don't listen to me right now, you
0:01and your girl are going to be done,
0:02finished for good. Because let me tell
0:04you, every girl is going, every single
0:06girl. Except that isn't true. And the
0:09only reason why it is true is because
0:10you don't know what I know. So all of
0:12you guys are going to lose the game
0:12because until you understand what I know
0:14and you implement this fundamental
0:16system. It is a necessity. Then you will
0:19never ever be able to carry out a
0:20successful relationship where the woman
0:22never leaves you. You have to understand
0:24it's transactional. Simple as that.
0:27There's no meant to be. There's no the
0:28right one. There's no, "Oh, but she she
0:30came from this family, so she wasn't the
0:32one." There's none of that. That doesn't
0:33exist. There's you maintaining your
0:35value, which maintains attraction, which
0:38ensures that the woman stays in the
0:40relationship. If at any point in time,
0:43you lower your attraction through
0:44decreasing your perceived value, she
0:47will leave you for another man, 100%
0:49guaranteed. Or let's say you don't lower
0:52your value, but you don't work every day
0:54to try and increase it to better your
0:56chances of keeping her. Because let me
0:58tell you, another man is going to take
1:00her away from you if he is better than
1:01you. And this has nothing to do with
1:03looks, money, and status. This has
1:04nothing to do with everything you've
1:06been taught. It has everything to do
1:07with this man showing that he has
1:09options. That's it. If this man can
1:12demonstrate that he can get laid more
1:13than you, then now what happens is she
1:15looks at him and she goes, "He must be
1:16more valuable." Because guess what? If a
1:18man can get laid more than you and he
1:19can sleep with women more beautiful than
1:21you can, he must be more valuable
1:23whether he has more money or not. Right?
1:25When you see that guy who's a five out
1:26of 10, but he's with two beautiful girls
1:28with him, what do you think? You go,
1:30"Oh, he must have money." And now it
1:32automatically establishes him as higher
1:34value than you. You, the guy who showed
1:36up to the club or the bar or wherever
1:37you are without any woman on your arms.
1:39That's what it is. It has nothing to do
1:41with all these other metrics. Has
1:42everything to do with how many options
1:44or at least how many perceived options
1:46do you have. So, how do you demonstrate
1:48that you have perceived options? If you
1:50maintain your perceived options at a at
1:53a all-time high, like you always 24/7,
1:56you always have this stat maxed out, she
1:59will always always always
2:02be attracted to you. I don't care what
2:03happens. I don't care what goes on. I
2:06don't you can do anything anything.
2:08Because what she calculates is she goes,
2:09if this guy can sleep with the most
2:11beautiful women, if this guy has the
2:13attention of all these other women, he
2:14must be the most valuable guy. And what
2:16happens now is attraction keeps going up
2:18and up and up and up. And let me tell
2:20you guys don't understand this. So what
2:21happens is when guys get into
2:22relationships like you for example, you
2:24think now, oh, I can just relax. I can
2:26just take it easy. I can just start, you
2:28know, doing whatever I want and acting
2:29however I want because I've been with
2:30this girl for so long. But this is just
2:32not the way it works. Let me tell you,
2:34the second you go weak for her, the
2:36second you think you can open up, the
2:38second you start sharing everything
2:39about your life and now she realizes,
2:40"Oh, wait a minute. He's not as valuable
2:42as I thought he was." Because let me
2:44tell you, let me tell you, you allowing
2:46her to fulfill her fantasies of just
2:48like when you keep that distance between
2:50her and you and you don't text her too
2:53much, she always assumes that what? That
2:56you're doing what? That you're cheating
2:57or that you're with another woman, which
2:58is exactly what you want. You never want
3:00to try to cover it up or prove to her,
3:01"Oh, no, I'm not cheating. No, no,
3:03you're the only one." This is what guys
3:04will do. But when she knows you, she
3:07doesn't make any of those assumptions.
3:08She always knows you're home or you're
3:10working or you're doing. She never ever
3:12thinks maybe he's leaving me for
3:13somebody else. Maybe he's looking for
3:15somebody better. Maybe somebody better
3:17have come into his life. And now what
3:18happens is fear of loss disappears. She
3:21doesn't fear losing you, which allows
3:23her to behave however she wants to
3:24behave. Because if she doesn't fear
3:25losing you, she doesn't fear to
3:26disrespect you. She doesn't fear to act
3:28out of line. She doesn't fear losing
3:30you. So, she doesn't care. And now what
3:32happens is she has a reason to
3:33disrespect you. Okay? And then
3:36attraction drops, decreases because
3:38you're going to tolerate that disrespect
3:39because you don't want to leave this
3:41girl and you can't catch her bluffs. And
3:42when she says, "I'm going to do this and
3:44you have an issue with it." What you do
3:46is you argue with her and you tell her
3:48it's disrespectful. All you have to do
3:50is do nothing, but you don't understand
3:51this. All you have to do is walk away,
3:53but you don't understand this because
3:54you're afraid if I walk away, what if
3:56she doesn't come back? I got some news
3:58for you, buddy. She always comes back.
4:00You know when she doesn't come back?
4:01When you stay. When you stay and you
4:03stay and you stay. and she keeps
4:05disrespecting you because you decided to
4:07be a cuck, a man who goes weak for her
4:09and you decided to tell her everything
4:11about your life and now she doesn't feel
4:12losing you. So, she has no reason to
4:14respect you. And you stay through the
4:15disrespect and now attraction keeps
4:17going down and down and down because she
4:18looks at you as a man who's not
4:19valuable, which means you're not a man
4:21that's worthy of sacrifice, which means
4:22you're not a man that's attractive
4:24because you aren't able to ensure her
4:26survival. Remember, attraction is built
4:28for one reason and one reason only, and
4:29that's to ensure the woman's survival.
4:30And if you aren't a man who's valuable,
4:32you cannot be attractive because you
4:34cannot help her survive. Now she looks
4:37at you and she goes, "I can disrespect
4:38you. I can make you go weak. I can make
4:40you emotionally unstable." And she goes,
4:42"I don't want to be with you anymore."
4:44She cheats on you. You know what kind of
4:46guy never gets cheated on? The guy that
4:48the woman fears losing. You know how you
4:49make sure the woman fears losing you?
4:51Making sure that she knows that tomorrow
4:53you can walk out the door and never come
4:54back. And you do this by every time she
4:57does something wrong. And this is the
4:58funny thing is she does something wrong
5:00once and you leave. You wait. You wait
5:04her for her to beg for you to come back.
5:07She'll never do it again. So it's not
5:08like you have to do this over and over.
5:09You just have to be strong once. Once
5:12and save yourself years of
5:15years of anxiety, years of stress. You
5:18know this girl is not going anywhere.
5:20She's not going to cheat. She's not
5:21going to go out and do anything because
5:22she knows that you don't care, that you
5:25will leave her, that you will replace
5:26her in a heartbeat. And now you have all
5:28the leverage, all the power. And it's
5:30this simple. You guys are in a
5:31relationship. She's your girl. She's
5:33yours already. All you have to do from
5:35now, from this point out, is nothing.
5:38Nothing. Just do absolutely nothing. And
5:40the less you can do and the more cool
5:42you can stay and calm and collected you
5:44can stay throughout every situation,
5:47the better you're going to be at
5:48retaining the relationship. That's it.
5:50And at the same time, let me tell you,
5:52because this world is competitive, there
5:54are guys out there that want your girl.
5:56There are guys out there that will
5:57happily take her away from you. Nobody
6:00has mercy for you. Which means that
6:01every single day of your life. This is
6:03what it is. Survival of the fittest.
6:05Life is a competition. You either stay
6:08focused on becoming the best version of
6:09yourself every day to ensure that she
6:12never ever leaves you and that all the
6:14people around you stay loyal to you or
6:16you can lose all these people, lose all
6:18your women to the other guy who decided
6:20I am going to show up today. You aren't
6:22showing up. If you aren't moving
6:24forward, you're moving backwards.
6:26Because let me tell you, time time is
6:28always going. Okay? And in a day, you're
6:31you're a day older than you were a day
6:32before. And that's another day that
6:34somebody went ahead of you, passed you
6:36up, and now they have a better chance of
6:38stealing your girl. Why? Because they're
6:39more valuable. They are better at
6:41helping women survive. They are better.
6:43They are a better option. They are a
6:44more attractive man. Why? Because they
6:46can demonstrate more options. They can
6:48demonstrate more options because the
6:49more valuable you become, the more women
6:51want to date you. The more women want to
6:53date you, the easier it is for you to
6:54not care because you've got a bunch of
6:56women that want to date you. You don't
6:57care if she leaves. You don't care to
6:59tell her, "Walk out the door. I never
7:01want to see you again." You don't care
7:02about these things anymore. It doesn't
7:03matter anymore because you've done it
7:05once and that's it. It's done. And you
7:07guys don't understand this. So, look,
7:08what you have to do from this point out,
7:11from this point on is just let go. Let
7:14go. Relax.
7:17Breathe.
7:19It's going to be okay. But right now,
7:21the way you're doing things, it ain't
7:22going to be okay. What you need to do is
7:24you need to understand that you got to
7:25let her go because that's what every man
7:26is afraid of doing. Every man is afraid
7:28of letting her go. Every man is afraid
7:30of saying,
7:32"Listen, it's my way or the highway."
7:34And this is the thing. You don't
7:35communicate this. You don't tell her,
7:37"Get out of my life." Cuz that's
7:38reactive. That shows that you care. You
7:41do this by not giving a Think
7:42about it. If you didn't care about this
7:43girl and she was a three out of 10, you
7:44think you would explain to her why
7:45you're leaving her? No, you wouldn't.
7:46You would just disappear from her life.
7:48Women do this to men all the time.
7:50Women disappear from men's lives because
7:52once they lose attraction, they don't
7:54care to be nice. They don't care to
7:55explain themselves. They just leave. And
7:58that's the same kind of women that you
7:59get hung over. So, think about it. How
8:00do you make her hung over you? All you
8:03got to do is just disappear. You don't
8:06say anything. You don't communicate
8:07anything. She does something wrong.
8:09Women know what's wrong and what's
8:10right. Trust me, they know they're not
8:11supposed to be at the club. They know
8:12they're not supposed to be talking to
8:13other guys. They know they're not
8:14supposed to disrespect you and yell at
8:16you and raise their voice. They know all
8:17these things. They know exactly how to
8:19act.
8:20for the man that they want. Trust me,
8:22she knows exactly how to behave. She
8:25just doesn't do it for you because she
8:26doesn't like you enough. So now think
8:28about it. If she knows all those things
8:29are wrong, why are you explaining to her
8:30that it's wrong? They all know it's
8:32wrong. All of them. I don't care where
8:33she's from. I don't care how she was
8:35raised. I don't care what kind of
8:36ex-boyfriend she had. They all know that
8:39this is wrong and this is right. And let
8:42me tell you, if you were attractive
8:43enough, she would always choose what is
8:45right. But she doesn't. So what do you
8:48do here? What do you do in this
8:49situation? You don't have to explain
8:51anything to her. You don't have to tell
8:52her why you're leaving her. The only
8:53reason why you're explaining to her why
8:55you're leaving her is because you hope
8:56that maybe she'll listen to you and
8:58change it and say, "Okay, I won't do
9:00that anymore." But that's never going to
9:01happen. That has never happened in the
9:03history of any relationship ever. All
9:05you do is you disappear. Gone. And if
9:09she texts you, you reappear. It's not
9:11like you because remember if you were
9:13all upset and reactive and no, I'm not
9:16texting you anymore because you did
9:17this. No, no. You just pull back your
9:20attention. You just kind of sit back,
9:22relax, and enjoy. Go work a little bit
9:23more. Go to the gym. Enjoy life. Life as
9:25a man is great. You're complaining for
9:27no reason. That's it. You do that. Do
9:29the things you love to do. Pull back.
9:31See another woman. And when she texts
9:34you, fine. You can entertain it. But if
9:36she doesn't, and if she doesn't for a
9:38year and two years and three years, so
9:39be it. If she never texts you again, so
9:41be it. That is the point. And let me
9:43tell you, if she doesn't reach out, she
9:44never liked you in the first place. You
9:46already messed it up. you were already
9:48in a ditch that you could never ever
9:49ever get out of. Because if a woman
9:51likes you enough to the point where, let
9:54me tell you, she likes you, she's going
9:56to text you back. She doesn't text you
9:57back, she found someone better than you
9:58and she didn't like you in the first
9:59place. There was no winning here
10:00regardless. So, you win twice because
10:03you either lose a girl that you never
10:05had in the first place. Meaning, you
10:06save yourself a bunch of energy and
10:08anxiety and stress over something that
10:10you could had no control of in the first
10:11place, or you regain the respect
10:14permanently of a woman that you like.
10:17that likes you back. Because let me tell
10:19you, she texts you, that means she likes
10:21you. She texts you back after you
10:23disappear from her life and she wants to
10:25initiate. Don't shut her down. That's
10:27good. That's good behavior. You reward
10:29that behavior by coming back slowly. Not
10:32all in back. Oh yeah, let's date again.
10:33But slowly, hey, how are you? Hey,
10:36everything's good with you. Great. I'm
10:37glad to hear that. Simple, easy. You're
10:40not mad. You're not upset about what
10:41she's done. You just decided, listen, if
10:43you're going to act this way, that's
10:45fine. I'm going to pull back a little.
10:46I'm going to chill out. I'm going to go
10:47do my own thing because I'm not here to
10:49deal with that. But you don't
10:50communicate this to her. You do not tell
10:52her this. This is not verbalized. This
10:54is done all through your mind. You got
10:57to be like a like a telepathic genius.
11:01And I'm telling you exactly how to do
11:03it. You control the frame without even
11:04having to use a word.
11:07So understand this because let me tell
11:08you, your girl's going until you
11:10understand this. Every girl is going
11:11until you understand this because women
11:13are never looking for a reason to stay.