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0:00When I tell guys that women want you to
0:01cheat, they don't understand it. They're
0:03like, "What if I don't want to cheat?
0:04What if I don't want to hurt her?"
0:06You're hurting her by not cheating.
0:08You are hurting her by not cheating. You
0:10are devaluing yourself, which is forcing
0:12her to lose attraction for you, which is
0:14forcing her to find another man, which
0:16means with that man, she's going to be
0:17lower value than she was with you
0:19because now she's got an extra body
0:20added to her. You added an extra body to
0:23her, have forced her to lose attraction.
0:25Now she has to go find another man. And
0:27this is the thing, why do you feel bad?
0:28Why would you feel bad on for cheating?
0:30First of all, it's only cheating the
0:30first time you do it, right? Cuz she
0:32doesn't know about it. Then after the
0:33first time she confronts you, you tell
0:35her, "Listen, I did what I did. I'm not
0:37going to change. If you have a problem
0:38with it, no problem. We don't have to be
0:39together." That's it. Finished. You let
0:42her go. And she's not going to leave.
0:43She's going to come right back. And now
0:44she knows what kind of man you are,
0:46right? An actual man. And now she's not
0:48going to have a problem with it. Or at
0:49least she stayed, so obviously she don't
0:51got a problem with it. You'll see that
0:52she's actually attracted to this. You'll
0:53see the whole entire relationship switch
0:55dynamic. You'll see you have all the
0:57leverage all of a sudden. If you didn't
0:59already have the leverage, now you have
1:00all the leverage. And so this is the
1:02thing.
1:03A lot of guys then ask me, "Well, why
1:04don't I tell her that before so I don't
1:05hurt her? Why don't I tell her that
1:06before?" Well, because if you tell her
1:08before you guys start dating that you're
1:10going to be with other women, what that
1:12shows is you care so much to make the
1:14relationship work that before it's even
1:16started, you're going to establish all
1:18these different rules and like all these
1:19different standards that you have in a
1:21relationship. I would like to be with
1:22multiple women. Which just shows her how
1:24much
1:25you're afraid of losing her. And nothing
1:28has even started. Imagine, if you didn't
1:29care and you had a bunch of options,
1:31right? Cuz you're a valuable man. You
1:32got a bunch of options. You would never
1:34ever tell a woman, "Yeah, by the way, I
1:36like to be with multiple women." You're
1:37only going to tell this to a woman that
1:39you're afraid of losing cuz you're
1:40afraid to upset her in the future
1:42if she finds out about something
1:44unexpected, like you being with multiple
1:46women. Who cares? You don't tell her and
1:48then she finds out and that's when you
1:49deal with it. And that's how you
1:51maintain attraction. It is unattractive
1:54if you tell that woman right off the
1:55bat, "Yeah, by the way, I like to be
1:56with multiple women. Because guess what?
1:58If you actually had multiple women, you
2:00wouldn't care to tell her that. Because
2:01you wouldn't care if she has an issue
2:03with it or not in the future. Because
2:04you wouldn't care if she leaves or not
2:06if she finds out in the future. Because
2:07you have options.
2:09When you communicate that before the
2:11relationship starts, all you're doing is
2:13showing her you have absolutely no
2:14options. And that you're afraid to lose
2:16her. At least you don't have an option
2:17better than her. So you're going to
2:18you're going to pre-fire everything.
2:19You're going to be like, "Yeah, by the
2:20way,
2:21I I I like to be with multiple women.
2:24I don't like to be with one woman."
2:25Now she's going to look at you and she's
2:26going to be like, "Look how much you
2:27care to tell me. Make sure that I'm okay
2:29with everything. Make sure that I know
2:31what's going on. Fill me in on it." And
2:33now she looks at you as an unattractive
2:35man. This is why.
2:36You got to understand how the method
2:37works. It's genius.
2:39You have to maintain your value.
2:41Right? Because value is what creates
2:43attraction.
2:44And your value is determined by how many
2:45options you have.
2:46And guess what? A man with a bunch of
2:47options would never ever sit there and
2:49tell a woman everything about the way he
2:51likes to run a relationship before he's
2:53even dating her. He wouldn't care. You
2:55just get into the relationship. You'd
2:57stay with the other women. And then when
2:58she finds out about it, you just tell
3:00her, "Listen, I did what I did.
3:03If you got a problem with it, you can
3:04leave. No problem. We don't have to be
3:05together. I totally understand. I like
3:07you,
3:07but we don't have to be together."
3:09Let her go. She's going to come right
3:10back every single time. Why? Because you
3:12didn't do anything unattractive. What
3:14you did is attractive. I'll tell you,
3:15women fantasize about men cheating. You
3:17got to understand why. It's because it's
3:18attractive.
3:20See, a man who can cheat versus a man
3:22who can't cheat,
3:24there's a big difference between their
3:25value right there, right? Only a man
3:27with value, who has options, can cheat
3:30on a woman.
3:31Be with other women.
3:32And so she fantasizes about you being
3:34with other women. Because what this
3:35signals is that you're a safe man. Why
3:37are you a safe man? Because only a man
3:39who has resources can be safe. You know
3:40what a man with resources has? Options.
3:43You know what a man with options can do?
3:44Cheat. Be with multiple women. And then
3:46a lot of women are going to combat this.
3:47They're going to be like, "Well,
3:49well, that's a lack of self-control.
3:53Self-control?
3:54What? Since when is self-control
3:56attractive?
3:58What?
3:59Self-control?
4:01Let me tell you something. Self-control
4:02is unnatural.
4:04Right? It's unnatural. If something was
4:06natural, you didn't have to have self
4:07you wouldn't have to have self-control
4:09against it. It's natural.
4:11You don't need to control yourself.
4:13It is natural.
4:14It is natural for a man to be with
4:16multiple women. It is unnatural for a
4:18man to be with one woman. That's why
4:19they call it self-control. Control
4:20against what? Against your nature.
4:23So, it is impossible for a woman to be
4:25attracted to something that is
4:26unnatural. Impossible, because it does
4:28not exist. Loyalty doesn't exist. It's
4:31fabricated by society. It doesn't exist
4:33in men.
4:34It exists in women
4:36differently,
4:37but it does not exist in men. Let me
4:40tell you, when it comes to women,
4:41loyalty exists, but it only exists as
4:43long as you are the best option. And you
4:45know how you remain the best option?
4:47It's not by buying her the most flowers.
4:49It's not by taking her out the most.
4:50It's not by being the biggest gentleman.
4:51It's by being the man with the most
4:53amount of options. Cuz she measures your
4:55value based on the amount of options you
4:57have.
4:58The higher your value, the better of an
5:00option you are.
5:01If you're a better option than all than
5:03all the other guys, because you have
5:04more options than all the other guys,
5:06you are now the best option and she
5:07stays loyal to you. Women are not loyal
5:08to loyal men. They're loyal to their
5:10best option.
5:11You got to remember this. So, look, this
5:13is how you run your relationship. Let's
5:14say you want to be with multiple women.
5:16How do you do this?
5:18You get involved with one girl. You
5:19don't tell her anything. You go do the
5:20same stuff you would if it was just
5:22everything was normal. You go out on a
5:23date. You enjoy your time. You do
5:25whatever you want to do. And then and
5:27then
5:28one day, sometime in the future, cuz you
5:31listen to me, right? And you're not a
5:33cut.
5:34She finds out about the other girls that
5:36you're with.
5:37And you know what you do?
5:38You don't lie to her. You don't
5:39apologize to her. None of that. Because
5:41you know what kind of man apologizes and
5:43lies? It's a man with no options. It's a
5:44man who's afraid to lose her, so he's
5:45going to lie, try to justify it. Or he's
5:48going to apologize
5:49and say please let's make this work. And
5:51what that does is decrease her perceived
5:53the perceived amount of options that you
5:55have.
5:56And guess what? If she measures your
5:57value based on your options, that
5:58decreases your value. And if your value
6:00decreases, attraction decreases. Your
6:01goal is to always maintain attraction.
6:04Regardless of whether it makes her happy
6:05or not. Whoever said it has to make her
6:06happy? Who said that? Who? Tell me.
6:10Who said that attraction has to do with
6:12happiness?
6:14Has to do with value.
6:16So maintain value
6:17by maintaining your perceived amount of
6:19options. And guess what? Only a man with
6:22a lack of options, especially a lack of
6:24option to replace her with a girl just
6:25as pretty. Cuz think about it, if you
6:26could replace this girl with a girl just
6:27as pretty, would you apologize? Would
6:30you lie about what you did? Or would you
6:32just say, "Listen, I did what I did. You
6:33got a problem with it? No problem. We
6:34don't have to be together."
6:35What would you do?
6:37Think about it.
6:38And so when you respond like that, you
6:39say, "Listen, I did what I did. I still
6:40like you, but we don't have to be
6:41together."
6:43And you let her go.
6:44You win twice.
6:46You established
6:47higher perceived options through
6:49cheating on her because only a man with
6:51options can cheat. A man without options
6:53can't cheat.
6:54And secondly, you showed her willingness
6:56to let her go, which must mean you can
6:57easily replace her. You just said,
6:59"Listen,
7:00I did what I did.
7:02It's who I am.
7:03You got a problem with it? We don't have
7:04to be together."
7:05Let's say, "We don't have to be
7:05together.
7:06We don't have to be together."
7:10She might even spend two, three, four,
7:12five days not talking to you. She's
7:13going to come back. She's going to text
7:15you back. This works every single time,
7:17100% of the time. And let me tell you,
7:21small chance. You know, this there's
7:23always these bumps that complain, "I did
7:24what you said and it didn't work."
7:26Because she never liked you in the first
7:27place. Love is sacrifice. If she loves
7:30you, she will sacrifice that need for
7:32loyalty. If she doesn't, she doesn't
7:34love you. She doesn't look at you as the
7:36best option. She already found someone
7:38better.
7:39This works 100% of the time if you are
7:41already her best option and just you
7:42continue increasing your your perceived
7:45value through demonstrating more options
7:47and then she stays. But let me tell you,
7:49if Ronaldo comes, whose fault is that?
7:51Whose fault is that? Mine? It's yours.
7:54Should have been better than Ronaldo,
7:55but that's what it is.
7:57Of course.
7:58When I say 100% of the time, I mean 100%
8:00of the time if there isn't an outlining
8:02factor like another guy who's better
8:04than you.
8:05This is why you have to spend 100% of
8:06your time focusing on becoming as
8:08incredible as possible of a man.
8:11Of course, it's going to work. This is
8:13psychology. This is biology. I'm not
8:15teaching you guys a lie. I'm not
8:16teaching you guys something that is oh,
8:18it's like red pill surface level blanket
8:21statements. You got to say this and you
8:22got to do this. No, this is 100% success
8:25rate because it is biology and
8:27psychology. It works every time. It's
8:29the same for every woman. I don't care
8:30where she comes from. I don't care if
8:31she's 50, 100 years old, 20 years old, 1
8:34year
8:39Funny story. When I was in when I was a
8:41little kid,
8:42when I was in when I was in preschool,
8:44we almost took that somewhere where we
8:46shouldn't have taken it. When I was in
8:47preschool,
8:48I I I was one of those kids that always
8:51had girlfriends.
8:53And I remember
8:55I had multiple girlfriends and that's
8:57why all the girls liked me.
8:59So, funny enough, what I'm saying is
9:01true.
9:01Even if she this they are wired like
9:04this since day one. When I was a little
9:06kid in preschool, I remember I had all
9:09the girls because I had one girl. When
9:11you have one girl, you get all the
9:12girls. You ever realize you get a
9:13girlfriend all of a sudden all the girls
9:14like you? This is what it is.
9:17This is what it is.
9:18It is it has been like this since day
9:20one. So, look,
9:23apply for one-on-one coaching. Click the
9:25link
9:26whether it's in the bio or whether
9:27you're watching this on YouTube, click
9:28the link
9:30down below. Apply for one-on-one
9:31coaching because my goal is to get all
9:32of you guys to understand this, learn
9:34this, internalize this because it'll
9:35change your life.
9:36You will at your past relationships,
9:38your preschool relationships, you'll
9:40look at everyone else's relationships,
9:42you'll feel like a genius. Whatever
9:43situation you're in, whether you can't
9:45get past the situationship phase,
9:47whether you can't attract, whether you
9:48can't retain, we will get it figured
9:50out. We will get it fixed.
9:53Change your life. This changes
9:54everything. The guys
9:56that internalize this and learn this,
9:58they can't imagine, they can't believe
9:59they didn't know this their entire life.
10:01They can't believe that the whole world
10:02doesn't know this. And this is the
10:03conviction I have is to teach this to
10:05every man. I want you to learn, I want
10:07you to understand. That is my goal here
10:09because I'm tired of seeing everybody
10:10make all the mistakes.