The Rights Of The Wife (1 of 2) - MUFTI MENK

0:00السلام علي ورحمه الله وبكاته بسم الله

0:04والحمد لله والصلاه والسلام على رسول الله

0:07وعلى اله واصحابه ومن اهتدى بهداه وب

0:30‏and there are many programs whether on

0:34radi or in var newspapers etc etc

0:38regarding this particular issue and so

0:40many people have discussed this in their

0:43lectures and so many people have tackled

0:45it this shows us the importance of this

0:49particular issue today i wish to

0:51actually raise a few points that i have

0:54come across from a certain book which is

0:57actually written by one great

1:01مولان مى الله سبحانه

1:07وتالى rel and marri

1:10life inb

1:41‏trust سبحانه

1:45وتالى example words use make carefully

1:50select think what

1:55before possible

2:22‏enged عليهم

2:33اللهانه وتالى

3:00‏he says he must provide food clothing

3:02and accommodation for his wife and

3:04children regarding food and clothing he

3:06must provide them that of a similar

3:09standard of his own and regarding

3:11accommodation if he is staying with his

3:13parents or other family members he must

3:16ensure that his wife is given her

3:18privacy and freedom such that when the

3:20two are alone they are in a carefree

3:22state this privacy must also protect her

3:26from interference by anyone besides the

3:29husband

3:30‏and is independence of woman

3:33allah gred her has right to her own

3:37independence when she is married because

3:39obviously now she is married she is

3:41going to have children of her own she

3:43would like to bring them up according to

3:45what she knows is right and if people

3:47are going to interfere she will not be

3:49able to do this so no matter how good

3:51the husbands parents and family might be

3:54but a woman has the right to actually

3:56have her total privacy and her

3:58independence ‏there the next he he must

4:02over and a very important he must over

4:05his wife character and conduct at

4:08all others seen enging unne

4:15discussion

4:16friend

4:19those

4:22other inl

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5:01‏all

5:03indep

5:06bees considering feelings and

5:10relations is right andong isef detriment

5:15to

5:15matm some people along husb husb

5:21comfortable some speak them ure

5:38‏how husb required you to there is

5:42nothing wrong with

5:43that beed because husband comes first he

5:47continues to say extreme caution must be

5:49exercised in this regard the next point

5:52if the wife utters words that are

5:54disliked and detested the husband that

5:57hees it her

6:01‏it is sometimes there are ser swear

6:04words that is

6:06actually has put them on her tong and

6:08she continues saying them he must raise

6:10them with a matter of urgency he must

6:13address the issue he continues to say

6:15she should feel that he disapproves of

6:18such language or utterances however to

6:21express disapproval at every minor issue

6:24to become furious or to overreact to the

6:28issues creating

6:30‏ma is against e and characters

6:34successful

6:36husb very we remember every small is

6:41that you of langage that has been used

6:45even it is

6:46accept people just you go to their wies

6:50and say you know i want and like and you

6:52keep on complaining about s this is not

6:56ait not ait of a successful husband

7:00‏in a in future because wife will

7:02thinking you know this man has never

7:03said what done is right never ever has

7:06he told me look what you done i like

7:07this and i like the way you spoken in

7:10particular you know occasion etc etc we

7:13need to also praise our wives sometimes

7:16within certain limits obviously uh the

7:20author continues he says if in a serious

7:23matter speaking to her and raising it

7:25with her has not helped in any way then

7:28he may decide

7:37‏her understand ser done more tove

7:44thewe look we actually is

7:52notif can only

8:12‏conf

8:20gen come سبحان

8:30‏if the husband find that he still is

8:31facing the same after tried all the

8:34above he may empy other method with the

8:40limit

8:43remembering breaking causing bleeding

8:46are totally un islamic that is something

8:49extremely important don't ever raise

8:51your hand and slap your wife for nothing

8:57ever allow

9:07‏us islam

9:09us meod

9:13tove

9:14bly you are create bigest because it

9:18islamic isam do not all breaking ofes

9:24ofc come sles so

9:44سحانه

9:51وتالى ح

10:07البخ اللهانه

10:11وتالى

10:14ح uty

10:35ححح الار

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