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0:00The people at the top don't want you to
0:01win. I'm going to keep saying this over
0:02and over and over again. The people at
0:04the top do not want you to win. So,
0:06they're going to tell you all these lies
0:07about what you need to do in a
0:08relationship to retain a woman, and it's
0:09all crap. It's nothing but crap. In
0:11fact, it's going to keep you in a loop
0:12where you keep having unsuccessful
0:14relationships, and you think, "Well, I
0:16just haven't found the right one."
0:17That's an illusion. There is no such a
0:19thing as the right one. You, as a man,
0:21have the power to make any woman the
0:24right one. You can choose a girl and
0:25make her the right one. If you know how
0:27to act and you know how to manipulate
0:30her mind, you can make any woman cook
0:33you dinner. You can make any woman act
0:36right. If you understand how the dynamic
0:38works and you understand how the
0:39exchange works, you go, "Okay, well,
0:41this girl's a 10 out of 10. I don't have
0:43access to her, but I know if I improve
0:44this, this, and this, and I talk this
0:46way, and I say this, and I understand
0:47that if I just stop caring about this,
0:50and I don't be so attentive to this, I
0:53can get this woman to act right." Like
0:56you're a girlfriend. You've been told
0:57everything.
0:59And everything you've been told, like
1:00all the things you've been told, they're
1:01wrong. They tell you got to buy her
1:03flowers, open the car door, you got to
1:04be nice, you got to be her best friend,
1:05you got to relate with her. This is the
1:06opposite of everything you should ever
1:08do. This is manipulation. So this is the
1:10thing in the game. You have to
1:11manipulate regardless. You have to be
1:13manipulative regardless. The difference
1:15is one type of manipulation works and
1:16the other one makes you look like a
1:18cuck. It's buying her flowers, opening
1:22the car door, being her best friend,
1:23calling her 24/7, FaceTiming her,
1:25sharing your location, all these things.
1:26Oh, it's building trust. Oh, it's
1:28building a connection. No, it's not. You
1:29know what the connection is with a
1:30woman? It's when she chases you. That's
1:31it. She's not going to chase you if
1:32you're always there. She can't. You're
1:34always there. Can't chase something
1:36that's always there. Can only chase
1:37something that is fleeting. Can only
1:39chase something that you fear losing.
1:41Can't chase something that is always
1:42there. And you're the man that's always
1:43there. She can't chase you. Now, she's
1:45not in fe she's not in her feminine
1:47energy. Now she is leading the
1:48relationship because she has the power.
1:50The leader is the person with the power.
1:53She has all the power.
1:55You listen to her. You get off work when
1:57she wants you to get off work. You buy
1:58her flowers when she wants flowers. You
2:01don't go to the gym when she says, "You
2:02know what? I want to go out and eat."
2:03Don't go to the gym today. You don't go.
2:05She controls everything. And it's funny
2:07because the same girls will say they
2:08want to be led. That's not leading.
2:10Leading is you having 100% of the power.
2:12The boss always tells the assistant what
2:14to do and that's just the way it is and
2:15you got to be the boss.
2:17There's no 50/50. And let me tell you,
2:20the system is against you. Everything
2:21you see, the reason why you see all
2:23these women saying all these things that
2:24they want from men and then rejecting
2:26those same men that give them all those
2:28things, and the reason why you see all
2:30these adverts and all these movies and
2:34all these things about love [snorts] and
2:36romance, you know, the more romance you
2:39try to have in a relationship, the less
2:41the woman's going to love you. Because
2:43the love, the love, it's attraction.
2:45It's not love. We'll save that for
2:47another video. It's attraction.
2:51The attraction
2:53has absolutely nothing to do with
2:55romance. It has everything to do with
2:57her fearing losing you. Her fearing that
3:00she can't do better. That's it. You
3:01know, we're going to talk about love.
3:03You guys like to say, "Oh, what's
3:05wrong?" Like, a lot of people will look
3:06at me and go, "What's wrong with you?
3:07You don't believe in love?" No, I
3:08believe in love. I just believe in it
3:10where I'm supposed to believe in it.
3:12Like you are delusional if you think
3:13that you can find love in a partner, in
3:15a woman that isn't your mother or isn't
3:18your daughter or like it's just
3:21ridiculous. So this is what you got to
3:23understand. I'm going to explain to you
3:24how love works.
3:26I'm not delusional. So I don't look for
3:28love first of all in places where it
3:30doesn't exist. It doesn't exist in a
3:32partner. Doesn't exist in your wife.
3:33Doesn't exist in your husband. Doesn't
3:35exist in your girlfriend. Doesn't exist
3:36in your boyfriend. Doesn't exist for man
3:39and woman. I'll tell you why. Right now,
3:41a girl is going to walk down the street
3:42and she's she has a checklist for
3:44everything she wants out of a man.
3:46Height, looks, right? Money, status,
3:49whatever. Everything, all these things.
3:50These are all conditions. If the man
3:52doesn't check off those things, she
3:54won't even give him the time of day.
3:57Okay? And you have a set of conditions
3:58for the woman that you would talk to.
4:00She needs to look a certain way
4:03and she needs to have a certain kind of
4:04history, right? You don't want a girl
4:06with 50 bodies. What are these things?
4:08They're all conditions. So when you
4:10enter the relationship, you're entering
4:12the relationship based off of
4:14conditions. A criteria was met and now
4:16you say, "Okay, I'm going to give you a
4:17chance." And now you start to build
4:19history. And the history,
4:22right, the memories, the time you guys
4:23spent together, that's what builds
4:26builds the love. That's what builds into
4:29love. But what's really building is onto
4:31the attraction. The initial attraction
4:33is you checking all the check all all
4:35the things off of the the checklists and
4:37her checking all the things off of the
4:39checklist. And now you guys decide to
4:40date each other and now you're building
4:41history which is building the attraction
4:43because now you're adding all these
4:44memories and all these moments that are
4:46building attraction because they get to
4:47know you a little bit deeper. Now here's
4:49the thing
4:51that history has weight until it doesn't
4:54because the structure are the
4:55conditions.
4:57those conditions, no matter how much
4:58history you guys have together. That's
5:00why people will spend 20 years together
5:01and still get divorced, it will not save
5:04you. Once the structure falls apart, the
5:06history falls apart with it. The
5:09structure is conditional. Meaning, if
5:10one day you aren't the man that she fell
5:12in love with or that she gave the chance
5:14to in the first place, why do you think
5:15she's going to give you the chance to
5:16stay? Or why would you give her the
5:18chance to stay? Because you guys have
5:20some history? Because you guys shared
5:21some memories together? Because you guys
5:24have kids? It doesn't matter. Oh, we
5:26have kids. Well, now you're just doing
5:27it for the kids. You're not doing it
5:28because you're attracted to her. You're
5:29miserable. Now you're just literally
5:31with this woman because you have
5:32children.
5:33Or you're with this woman. You're not
5:35attracted to her, but you're with her
5:36because of something she did for you. Or
5:38she's with you because of that's
5:40miserable. That's miserable. That's not
5:42love. It's attraction. And once that
5:45attraction fades, you have nothing. A
5:48lot of people are tied. A lot of people
5:50stay in marriage and and and stay
5:52together because they don't want to
5:54cause family trauma. That's not why you
5:55should stay in a marriage. You just stay
5:56in a marriage because you want to be in
5:57a marriage. Now, here's the thing.
5:59[sighs]
6:00Love is unconditional. I believe in love
6:02that's unconditional. Meaning, I only
6:04believe and look for love where it
6:06cannot be taken away because that's what
6:08love is. Love is there regardless. No
6:11matter what, that person is there for
6:12you. You know where you can find that?
6:13In relationships that aren't built off
6:15of conditions. What kind of
6:16relationships are built are not built
6:18off of conditions? Bloodreated
6:20relationships. your brother, your
6:22sister, your mom, your dad, your
6:25children. A lot of guys ask me, "What
6:27are you going to do when you get old and
6:28you have multiple women? What if they
6:30all leave you?" I don't need the women
6:32to stay. I need my kids to be there. And
6:34my kids will be there because they're my
6:35kids.
6:37You understand? Your parents aren't
6:38going to live forever, but your kids,
6:40they're going to be there, God willing.
6:43And your kids will never leave you. Your
6:45kids cannot disappear from your life
6:47because the relationship was built
6:50off of no conditions. Your child doesn't
6:53get to be your child. Doesn't get to
6:54choose to be your child. And you don't
6:56get to choose that your child is your
6:57child. You decide to have a kid. And
7:00that kid turns out however that kid
7:01turns out. And regardless, you're going
7:03to love them because that kid is your
7:05kid. And you can never change the fact
7:06that that kid is your kid. Now, a lot of
7:08parents hate their children and a lot of
7:09kids hate their parents. But that's
7:11because the history that was built after
7:13the attraction or after the initiation
7:16of the relationship which is I'm going
7:17to have a child child is born. I'm going
7:20child is born child has a has a father
7:23or mother though that's the initiation
7:26right so for example I'm gonna contrast
7:28that the initiation when you find a
7:29girlfriend or you find a boyfriend is
7:32okay looks good funny whatever all these
7:34things okay I'm going to give him the
7:35chance there's no chances being given
7:38when you have a kid you just have a kid
7:40and that kid is your kid and you can't
7:41change that it's a condition that's
7:43unconditional it's a condition that
7:44cannot be changed so when you guys
7:50Look for love. You need to look for love
7:52in things that are unconditional.
7:55So again, now I want to go back because
7:58I want to make I'm a little scattered
8:00today. It's late. It's 2:38 a.m. And
8:03like always, I sit here and I lose my
8:06mind about the fact that nobody
8:07understands this. I don't care if this
8:09video goes viral. You know, I was making
8:12these videos before to go to to to be
8:14like, you know what? I want this to go
8:15viral. And then I thought about it. And
8:17I'm like, I don't care if this goes
8:18viral. I'd rather just be so authentic
8:21and not try to say anything extra and
8:23not try to have to add anything on top
8:26just for, you know what, the people that
8:27deserve to hear this. I I don't care.
8:30Whatever. It is what it is. Screw it.
8:33You know, and I'm doing this for the
8:35fact that I want this to one day go v.
8:37See, I'm so conscious. I know that one
8:40day this video is going to resurface
8:41somewhere and people are going to look
8:44at it and go, "Look at this guy. I
8:45figured all this out way back then. I'm
8:47crazy. I'm insane. I'm sitting here
8:49until 2:30. It's 2:30 right now and this
8:52is just the beginning of my night.
8:54I'm going to sit here probably until 5
8:56in the morning piecing all of this
8:58together so I can build on to this more
9:01and more and more. I I don't know why
9:05when when you just figure out the truth,
9:07you can never go back. You just can't.
9:10It's It's done.
9:12There's this saying in Russian and it's
9:15my favorite saying ever and it's called
9:18and the way it goes is
9:21and what it means is the less you know
9:23the better you sleep and it's the most
9:24truthful thing ever and the funny thing
9:26is I don't really have an issue sleeping
9:31honestly I get my sleep in
9:33but you can apply that in the sense that
9:36your brain is always moving like a lot
9:38of people are sleeping and they don't
9:39even know it like you're sleeping you go
9:41to you go to the club, you smoke, you
9:42drink, you're sleeping. You're you're
9:44walking around. You don't go to the gym.
9:46You don't have a routine. You don't have
9:47anything that you want to do in life.
9:48You don't have purpose. You're sleeping.
9:49You are not alive. You're asleep. You're
9:51unconscious, right? Cuz what is what is
9:53sleeping? Sleeping is unconsciousness.
9:55Consciousness is is being awake. Awake.
9:59That's why they call you, you know, they
10:02say when you're awake, like wake up,
10:03wake up, wake up, wake up. Like when
10:06you're not paying attention or when
10:07you're not doing. So that's what it is.
10:09So,
10:11I think that saying can be applied,
10:13right? Makes sense. The less you know,
10:15the better you sleep. And it's like all
10:17these people are sleeping and they don't
10:19even know it. They're sleeping so good
10:21that they don't even know that they're
10:23sleeping. They don't even know it.
10:27And it's because they don't know
10:29anything. And they don't sit here and
10:31try to sit in their thoughts and figure
10:32these things out.
10:35And they don't sit here and try to loop
10:36everything around and understand what
10:38the world is about and understand how
10:39they can contribute. That's what your
10:41job is. Your job is to contribute.
10:45Contribute.
10:47Do something. Teach someone something.
10:50Help someone. But don't do it to help
10:53people. Don't do it to help. Do it for
10:56yourself. That might sound selfish, but
11:00it's the most selfless thing you can do.
11:03Be narcissistic. care about yourself
11:05over everybody else because what that
11:06allows you to do is become powerful.
11:09And what power is is freedom. And the
11:11more power you have, the more freedom
11:12you have. And the more freedom you have,
11:13the more power you have. And what
11:15happens is you become the most powerful
11:17man on earth. And if you're the most
11:19powerful man on earth, well, you have
11:20the freedom to take care of whoever you
11:21want to take care of. Now all that
11:23selfishness where you were narcissistic
11:24and you prioritize yourself and you only
11:26did what's good for you. Now what
11:28happens is you're so powerful because
11:30you always put yourself first that now
11:32you can help all the people around you
11:33and be more selfless than the guy that
11:37believed in all this crap which is
11:38equality and being in the middle and all
11:40this crap and his whole life is a lie
11:42and he never prioritized himself because
11:44he wanted to be a nice guy.
11:48That guy can't even take care of his
11:49parents because he ne never did anything
11:50interesting or special to the point
11:52where he now has the resources or the
11:54tools to be able to take care of the
11:55people around him.
11:57So, so what for somebody to for you to
12:00win, somebody has to lose. That's what
12:01it is. There's no middle. The middle is
12:03an illusion. The middle was created by
12:05society. You got to do this, but you got
12:07to do that. There's right and wrong.
12:08There's no right and wrong. There's
12:09winning and losing. That's it. For you
12:11to win, somebody got somebody's got to
12:12lose. Why are you going to feel bad
12:13about that? That's how life works. It's
12:14survival of the fittest.
12:17I don't even know where the hell I was
12:18with this. I'm going to upload this. I
12:20don't care. Whatever.
12:24I was talking about love. You guys need
12:26to look for love in places where it will
12:29always exist because love is the most
12:31powerful thing and you never want that
12:34power to be taken away from you. So you
12:37can love yourself.
12:39You can never take yourself away from
12:41yourself. You didn't choose
12:43to be in this body. You were just born
12:46with the body and the soul and the mind
12:48that you have. Your intelligence and the
12:51way you look. You You didn't choose
12:53these things. Bang. Love. That's
12:56unconditional. You can never because the
12:58relationship wasn't entered based on any
13:00conditions. You are you and you can't
13:02change that.
13:04Love yourself. Second thing, God. God's
13:09always there for you. God isn't going
13:10anywhere. Love God. Third thing,
13:13purpose. Nobody can take your purpose
13:15away from you. They can't. They can't.
13:18Purpose. Something bigger than life. God
13:21purpose. Something bigger than life.
13:22Love that. Your parents. Love your
13:26parents.
13:28I was talking about this, making this
13:30point. A lot of people don't have a good
13:31relationship with their parents. A lot
13:33of parents don't have a good
13:34relationship with their kids. It's
13:36because the history is important. The
13:38structure is very important, but the
13:40history is built on top of the
13:41structure. And this is the thing. the
13:42history is negative, like you didn't
13:43have a good upbringing, of course you're
13:45not going to love your parents
13:46unconditionally.
13:47When you have a child or when your
13:50parents have you, they are now given a
13:51chance to build unconditional love and
13:53is built off of history. If your parents
13:54take care of you for 20 years and do
13:56everything for you and they're right,
13:58they do right by you and they take care
14:00of you and they give you all the love in
14:02the world. You will never forget that.
14:04You can't delete history. You can't take
14:05it away. So, you will always love them
14:07for that. And the thing is the
14:09relationship can't fall apart because
14:11the structure it doesn't even like the
14:13structure is unbreakable because it was
14:15built off of something that wasn't
14:16conditional which is they're your
14:19parents and you're their child and you
14:20can't change that. It's a condition that
14:22can't be changed. So it makes the
14:24relationship unconditional and that
14:26history you can't erase the history. So
14:28it always stays there versus if you find
14:30a partner like a boyfriend or a
14:31girlfriend you can build a history that
14:33will raise attraction.
14:35It can get you to a point where you're
14:37really infatuated with that person, but
14:38it's not love. Because it's not
14:39unconditional because the structure was
14:41built off of height, looks, um, money,
14:44status, and if those things crumble and
14:46fall apart, that person isn't going to
14:48be attracted to you anymore because
14:49remember that's what they entered the
14:50contract. That's what they entered the
14:51that was the agreement. That falls
14:53apart. The history falls apart with it.
14:55That's what it is. So, you guys are have
14:57been sold this lie where, oh, you're
14:58going to find love in a partner or
15:01you're going to find love in a wife, you
15:02got to have married. No, they want you
15:05to stay weak. They want you to be easy
15:09to destroy. If you love something that
15:11can be taken away from you like this,
15:13it's not love. Love is unconditional.
15:15If these girls really believed in
15:18unconditional love like they say, "Oh,
15:19and then you know girls are going to say
15:21or guys, whatever. Everyone, everyone
15:22says the same crap. What is wrong with
15:25you? You don't you don't think love is
15:26unconditional. You just don't believe in
15:27love." No, I believe in love where love
15:29isn't delusion. I believe in love where
15:31it's actually love, not attraction.
15:33you these girls then prove my point and
15:36these guys prove my point when I say
15:38I'll tell a girl well so would you stay
15:40with a cheater? No. So how is it
15:42unconditional? First you told me that
15:44you believe that love has to be
15:46unconditional. Meaning the guy is going
15:47to be there for you no matter what and
15:48you're going to be there for him no
15:50matter what. And then I go would you
15:51stay with a cheater? No. Which by the
15:53way we all know she would right if you
15:55dealt with it the right way because we
15:56all know it's not about women love
15:58cheaters. It's not about you guys know
16:00this. It's not about the cheating. It's
16:03about how you how you deal with the
16:04confrontation.
16:06They But they filter, right? So, they'll
16:08say, "No, no, I wouldn't." Well, that
16:10you just proved my point that you won't
16:12love that man unconditionally because if
16:14he changes something or he does
16:16something that you don't like, your
16:19attraction drops and now you don't want
16:21to be with him. That's not
16:21unconditional.
16:24That's not unconditional.
16:26That's what it is. So you guys are
16:28looking for all these things and what
16:30you're looking for, which is love in a
16:33partner, it doesn't even exist.
16:35And what it does is it keeps you weak
16:37because now all it takes for you to be
16:38broken is one woman that could take her
16:40away from you.
16:42How they going to do it? Who knows? Many
16:43ways
16:45they don't even have to do it. Actually,
16:46she'll do it herself cuz women are
16:48filters. She's going to figure out a
16:50way. Okay, you know what? This man's not
16:51good enough for this and this reason and
16:52because he always buys me flowers. And
16:54you know what? I got this guy to commit.
16:56Can I get someone better to commit? And
16:57that's it. It's done. Finished.
17:00And you guys believe in this fallacy.
17:03And you know, that's why a lot of people
17:04feel so broken after they get left
17:06because they feel like they lost
17:08something. Oh, I lost that girl that
17:09loves she didn't love you, bro. It's
17:11impossible. You understand? It's
17:14impossible. I'm a believer. I I love to
17:17believe in things. I love believing in
17:20things. You can't take away something
17:22that I believe in. I believe in it. You
17:24can't take my mind away from me.
17:27So, and and so I always look for a
17:29reason to believe in something,
17:31especially the things that are supposed
17:32to be good.
17:34So, when I'm telling you this, I'm
17:36coming from the bottom of my heart. When
17:38I tell you that she doesn't love you and
17:40that it isn't anything other than
17:42attraction,
17:44if it was the other way around, I would
17:45have no reason to to to go against it. I
17:48I wouldn't because why would I do that?
17:54This is all about power. The world,
17:56society, everything in in this entire
17:58system is all about power
18:00and they want to stay in power. The
18:04people at the top want to stay in power.
18:05And the way they stay in first place is
18:08by keeping you in second and third. How
18:10do they keep you in second and third?
18:11They tie you to something. They tie you
18:13to something that they know is going to
18:15run away from you and flee from you,
18:17like a woman. Or she doesn't flee from
18:20you, not a problem because they're going
18:21to tell you need to get married. So now
18:22you tie yourself. Now you got you're
18:24married to her. she doesn't leave you,
18:25but now your whole life is about this
18:26woman and how you married her and how
18:28you guys grew old together.
18:32That's pathetic.
18:33If every think about it, if every man
18:36lived for this thing called love and a
18:39partner and marriage and a woman, you
18:43think we would have any of these things
18:44that we have right now? No. We have
18:46these things because some guy decided,
18:47you know what? I'm not going to live for
18:48all these things. I'm not going to live
18:49for the club, the bars, the alcohol, the
18:52drugs, the women. And what I'm going to
18:54live for is something way greater. God,
18:57purpose,
18:59something up there, something so beyond
19:02what I can imagine. And I'm going to
19:03achieve those things. The people, all
19:05these people that achieved all these
19:06things that they achieved, they didn't
19:07know they were going to achieve them.
19:09They just started believing in
19:10something. And they did something nobody
19:12had ever done. And they didn't do that
19:14by loving somebody,
19:17by loving a woman specifically.
19:20So,
19:23I I
19:25Yeah,
19:29it seems like people are understanding
19:32bit by bit. I've got guys in the
19:34Discord. We got 1400 guys in the Discord
19:37and we have 23,600
19:40followers on t on Instagram and 64,700
19:46followers
19:47on Tik Tok.
19:50and we'll see where this goes. I don't
19:53think there is anything that is more
19:54truthful than this.
19:57And let me tell you another thing. This
19:58will make everything obsolete. You know,
20:00all these guys, they like these ecom
20:02dudes, they all try to be everybody, all
20:04the young dudes these days are trying to
20:06do e-commerce. They want to make money
20:08and the only reason they want to make
20:10money is because some girl left them and
20:11now they're trying to make money because
20:12they want to prove that girl wrong or
20:14they want to get that girl back or they
20:15hope that after they make money that
20:16girl's going to look at them and go,
20:17"Oh, I want him back." which is not the
20:18way it works.
20:21Meaning, people don't even care about
20:22money. Money doesn't mean anything. The
20:24only reason all these guys are trying to
20:25make money is because they want some
20:26girl back. It's going to make everything
20:27obsolete. I'm going to bankrupt all
20:28these course sellers. That's my goal.
20:31Cuz they're selling you a scam.
20:33Yeah. Make money. Make money. Your
20:35life's going to change. No, it's not.
20:37No, it's not. What do you think? Now,
20:39because you drive a Ferrari and you have
20:40a Rolex, girls are going to throw
20:42themselves at you. You don't know how to
20:44retain a woman. Attraction is one thing.
20:45Yeah, of course. you got a Ferrari, a
20:47girl's going to going to want to talk to
20:48you, get on a first date. If you don't
20:49know how to control what's up here in
20:52the crazy mind of of a woman, second
20:55date ain't happening. That's it's just a
20:56fact. It's not going to happen.
20:59And that's why these guys are paying for
21:01all these things in the first place.
21:02Throwing all this money, throwing all
21:04this money at all these courses to try
21:06and make some money, hoping that that's
21:08going to allow them to get a girlfriend.
21:09And that's just not the way it works.
21:11Look at all these e-commerce dudes. They
21:13don't have any women around them. If
21:15they have a girl, she's there for one
21:16day and then she's gone. You never see
21:17her again.
21:21And it'll bankrupt all these flower
21:23shops. I'm going to bankrupt all these
21:25flower shops. I'm going to bankrupt I'm
21:27going to bankrupt the entire system of
21:29romance.
21:30I'm going to do that, too. Romance
21:34and
21:36all this crap. Marriage, wedding rings.
21:39You know how much money they make off of
21:40wedding rings? This is all business.
21:42It's all power being sold. You're being
21:45sold every day of your life.
21:48Every day of your life, these things
21:50were all fabricated. How can a woman be
21:52attracted to marriage? Or how can a
21:54woman be attracted to a wedding ring?
21:58When these things were fabricated,
22:01they weren't even there when we were
22:04first when we first walked the earth.
22:05When Adam and Eve first ex existed, they
22:08those things didn't even they weren't
22:10even real. So, how could a woman be
22:12attracted to something that wasn't even
22:13if a woman needed all those things to be
22:15attracted to a man and reproduce with
22:17him? Then guess what? We wouldn't exist
22:20right now because those things didn't
22:21exist back then.
22:24It's all in here. All her attraction
22:26starts in here. It's not external. You
22:29can't do it with money. You you It's
22:33none of these things. It's none of the
22:35these things. It's all in here. Yes. You
22:39got to be good-looking. Yes, you got to
22:41have money or you should. It'll help, of
22:44course, because that positions you above
22:46the other guys. And we're in a system
22:48where money is a necessity. But she's
22:51not attracted to the money. I say this,
22:53I say this all the time. Money didn't
22:55exist. So, she can't be attracted to
22:56money. The ring, the wedding ring didn't
22:58exist. She can't be attracted to she
22:59can't be attracted to all these things.
23:02What she's attracted to is what these
23:04things indicate.
23:06It's a very thin line. You got to make
23:07this distinction. She doesn't care about
23:09the money. She doesn't know the
23:11difference between a F12 and a A12.
23:14What she finds attractive is that you
23:16have resources. Money shows resources.
23:19If she knows you have resources, she
23:21knows that you have something that every
23:22other woman wants. Every woman wants
23:23resources. So now she looks at you, she
23:25sees that Ferrari, she's not looking at
23:26the Ferrari. She's looking at a man that
23:28can attract other women because he has
23:30something that other women want, which
23:31is resources.
23:34A woman's attraction is based purely on
23:36how many options you have. And that
23:38Ferrari indicates that you have options.
23:40Now you sit down on a date, that Ferrari
23:41is not going to save you. Because if you
23:43mess up what you say because everybody's
23:46been teaching you the wrong things
23:48instead of embodying not giving a godamn
23:53crap about anything. and instead you
23:55start trying to connect and doing all
23:57this crap and you bring her flowers and
23:59you do Ferrari goes out the window
24:01because what kind of man would try to
24:02connect with a woman and try to prove
24:03himself and try to talk about all his
24:04goals and all his dreams and buy her
24:06flowers and open the car door for her if
24:08he already got laid shows low options
24:10and now that Ferrari ain't saving you?
24:11That's the point. Money is not the
24:13answer. Yes, you should go out there and
24:16make as much money as possible, but that
24:18is not the answer.
24:25So, debunking the lies one step at a
24:27time. One step at a time. Why has nobody
24:30else figured this out? Why Why is nobody
24:33else talking about this? Why does nobody
24:35have a whole like there's dudes talking
24:37about money? Yes, there's there's red
24:38pill guys. I hate the red pill because
24:40these dudes will also tell you it's it's
24:42about it's about money. It's about
24:44looks. Black pill. It's about looks. But
24:46like they make that the definitive
24:48answer. No. No. Why do all these things
24:51matter? Tell me why they matter. You
24:53can't tell me why they matter. Why is
24:54money attractive? Oh, because you can
24:56take her out and you can take her on a
24:58trip. Why? Why is that attractive? Tell
25:00me why taking her on a trip is
25:01attractive. You can't Why is the shape
25:04of your nose attracted to her? Oh, it it
25:07signals that the offspring is going to
25:09be is going to be like, but okay, but
25:11why? Why?
25:14Options. Shape of your nose. You're a
25:18good-looking dude. What does that
25:19indicate? Why Why is it Why is the fact
25:22that you have a healthy appearance and a
25:25strong bone structure attractive? Okay.
25:28Yes, the kids are going to be healthy
25:31and they're going to be able to survive
25:32easier and reproduce easier because
25:33they're good-looking. Why does she find
25:35that attractive? Because every other
25:37woman finds it attractive. And if
25:39everyone other woman finds it
25:40attractive, that shows that you have
25:41options. If your nose is shaped a
25:43certain way, that that woman that looks
25:45at you knows that every other girl likes
25:47that nose. She looks at me, she goes,
25:48"Oh, you must have other girls that like
25:49you as well." The same way she looks at
25:50the Ferrari, she goes, "Oh, you must
25:52have other women that like you because
25:53you have something that other women
25:54want." That's it. The core is options.
25:57Talk about the core. Nobody's talking
25:59about the core.
26:01I'm done.
26:03It's 3:00. I'm going to go back to
26:05losing my mind. Thank you.
26:09Internalize the