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0:00So what I'm about to tell you is
0:01something that you haven't heard ever
0:02before. Like this is going to go against
0:03everything everybody has ever taught you
0:05about women. Everything your mother,
0:08your friends, your teachers, all the
0:10women you've ever been with, everything
0:12they've told you this is going to go
0:13against everything they've ever told
0:14you.
0:16But it works. It just works.
0:18And this is the thing. I don't want you
0:19to use this to just get women in bed
0:21with you. I want you to use this to
0:22actually make women fall in love with
0:24you
0:25and use this for a productive reason,
0:27which is having women that are willing
0:29to take care of you, willing to be there
0:31for you, willing to build a relationship
0:32with you rather than you just going to
0:33the club and getting laid. This is not
0:35what this is for. You can use that You
0:38can use this for that.
0:39But it's not what this is for. That's a
0:41waste of time. That's the generosity.
0:42That is something that you shouldn't
0:44partake in.
0:45>> [snorts]
0:45>> This is to make women fall in love with
0:48you. What is love? It's sacrifice,
0:49right? So in other words, I'm saying
0:52this is to get women to sacrifice for
0:54you. Sacrifice their time, their energy,
0:56their attention. All they want is you.
0:58They don't want any other guy. They
0:59sacrifice all of the time they want to
1:01spend with their friends and their
1:02family and they give it to you.
1:04So do not use this for any other reason
1:08other than to build a long-lasting
1:10relationship with a woman. Okay, don't
1:12use this on some random girl.
1:14So look,
1:16you're in a talking stage right now.
1:19You're at the point where the woman
1:20hasn't chosen you. And the goal here is
1:22to get her to choose you over the other
1:23guys. Because you see, when you're in
1:24talking stage, the woman has her options
1:26open. Like in her mental, she has her
1:29options open. So what you want to do
1:31>> [snorts]
1:32>> is you want to get her to choose you
1:35over the other guys. That is the game
1:36that you were playing. Nothing else. You
1:38were not playing the game of being the
1:39nicest guy. You were not playing the
1:41game of being the sweetest guy. You were
1:43not playing the game of being like this
1:45the toughest guy, the best looking, none
1:47of those things.
1:49All you have to focus on is getting her
1:51to choose you over the other guys. And
1:53it has nothing to do with your looks,
1:54your money, your status, your
1:56confidence, none of those things.
2:00So, look.
2:01First of all,
2:03the first thing I want you to do
2:06is to stop trying to schedule the date.
2:08Stop trying to schedule dates with her
2:09cuz remember, she has other guys in her
2:11inbox. So, what she's doing right now
2:14is she's texting all of these guys,
2:17including you. She's texting you as
2:18well.
2:19And the way she puts you above all the
2:21other guys is if you're hitting her
2:22inbox less than all the other guys.
2:25So, the way you win here,
2:27the way you win over
2:29the other dudes, the way you beat the
2:31other guys,
2:32is by not pursuing her.
2:34Is by letting the other guys pursue her.
2:36Let the other guys take her out. Why are
2:38you afraid of this? Let the other guys
2:40take her out. When she's sitting on a
2:42date with those guys, she's going to be
2:43wondering why you didn't care to take
2:44her out.
2:45She's going to be thinking about why you
2:47didn't care to take her somewhere nice.
2:49Look at this guy.
2:50Look at all these other guys trying so
2:52hard to impress me.
2:54And this other guy, you,
2:57you didn't even try. You didn't care.
2:59She looks at you and she goes, "This is
3:01what This is what people think, oh,
3:03well, if I'm not going to take her out,
3:05well, why would she choose me? Because
3:06those guys gave her a nicer time." But
3:08See, attraction is never built in the
3:10time you spent together. Attraction is
3:11built in the time you spend apart.
3:14And what she's going to make what she's
3:16going to determine in that time that
3:18she's sitting with some other guy and
3:20it's not you and you didn't try to
3:21schedule the date. See, there's a
3:22difference. If you would have tried to
3:23schedule the date and she chose that
3:25other guy over you, that's an issue.
3:27But if this guy scheduled a date with
3:28her and you've just been texting back
3:30and forth with her, but you haven't been
3:31trying to schedule any dates,
3:34she's going to look at you and she's
3:34going to go, "He must go out with women
3:36all the time. He must go out with women
3:38as pretty as me all the time. He doesn't
3:40care to schedule a date with me. He
3:41doesn't care to take me out somewhere
3:42nice. He doesn't care."
3:44And this other guy I'm sitting on a date
3:46with cared so much to try and take me
3:47out and give me a good time. And she
3:49looks at the two of you and she makes a
3:50calculation, which guy is more valuable?
3:52Cuz remember, a woman is just trying to
3:54survive. Attraction is built
3:57to ensure
3:58genetic legacy. Nothing else. Attraction
4:01is not built for fun, happiness, all
4:03these things. No, it's it's built to
4:05ensure genetic legacy, to ensure the
4:08survival of her offspring. To ensure
4:10that she has a safe life and her
4:13offspring has a safe, provided for life.
4:15That's it. So, she looks at value.
4:19The way she measures value is not by the
4:21car you drive.
4:23It's not by how good-looking you are.
4:24It's not by your status. The way she
4:26measures value
4:28is by how many options you have in the
4:30dating market. Because if you have
4:31options in the dating market, you must
4:33be valuable. See, she she can't check
4:35your bank account.
4:36She can look at the car you're driving,
4:37but at the same time, that can be faked.
4:39She can look at the house you live in,
4:40but that can be faked. Maybe you
4:42inherited money. Maybe it's not actually
4:45your money that you can make and you
4:46don't have the skills to make money.
4:47Therefore, you aren't actually a
4:48provider. You know what you can't fake?
4:50Women giving you attention. Women being
4:53in love with you. You can't fake a woman
4:55being in love with you.
4:57And what she infers by you not caring to
4:59schedule a date with her, by you not
5:00trying to pursue her, by you not trying
5:02to see her, is that other women must
5:04love you. Other women must give you
5:05attention.
5:07That's why you don't care to schedule a
5:08date with her because you already get
5:09attention from other women. So, you are
5:11not lacking attention from other women.
5:12Therefore, you don't care to go on a
5:14date. You don't care to schedule
5:15something. So, right there,
5:18because you never try to schedule
5:19anything, and you let her do the
5:21scheduling, cuz let me tell you, if you
5:22never try to schedule anything, but the
5:23contact is going back and forth, she
5:24obviously likes you. She will ask you
5:27to go out. She will tell you,
5:30"Why haven't you asked me out? Why
5:31haven't we gone out yet?" So, you want
5:33to wait it out.
5:34Let it play out. She will text you that.
5:37And that's where you have the upper
5:39hand, because now it's her pursuing you,
5:40her chasing you. And at that point, most
5:42likely, she's already chosen you over
5:45every other guy, because I promise you,
5:46the other guys, they're asking to take
5:48her out. They're always planning the
5:49dates. They're always scheduling
5:50everything.
5:51So, that's the first thing I want you to
5:52do.
5:53The second thing I want you to do,
5:56okay? And this is a very important one.
5:59I want you to always, always, always
6:02be seeing other women.
6:04This gives you the biggest upper hand in
6:06the relationship. This gives you such an
6:08upper hand you couldn't even imagine.
6:10Because you see, when she does go out
6:11with other guys,
6:13right? She goes and does her thing.
6:17If you
6:19are a man that has no options,
6:22by indicating that you don't have any
6:23other girls,
6:25right? And And I don't mean you start
6:26posting on your story that you're going
6:28out with other women. I don't mean you
6:29start posting on your story that Oh,
6:30look at me. I have all these girls and
6:32No, no, no, no, no. Like,
6:34you just you go out with other women and
6:36it's casual. Maybe it's like somebody
6:38that she knows through a mutual friend
6:39or something like that. Like, that's
6:40going to give you a an insane upper
6:42hand, because now she's going to go Oh,
6:43he doesn't care.
6:45He's also going out with other women.
6:46He's also filtering. He's also testing.
6:48And now what happens is competition is
6:51created.
6:53And when she knows there's competition,
6:55well, now she naturally wants to
6:56compete. If the other guys don't have
6:58other girls that they're dating, she's
6:59not going to take interest in them.
7:01You know why?
7:02Here's why.
7:04If you have other girls that you're
7:05dating,
7:07she now has reasons to not disrespect
7:11you, because she knows she can be
7:12replaced. If all these other guys that
7:13she's dating,
7:15and she's going on dates with, have
7:17other women,
7:18uh don't have other women,
7:21what happens now is she can disrespect
7:23them.
7:24She can
7:25she can do whatever she wants with them.
7:27She can say whatever she wants to them.
7:28She can ghost them if she wants,
7:30because she knows she doesn't have to
7:32uphold a certain standard, because those
7:34men don't have any other women they can
7:36switch her out for.
7:37So, she naturally isn't going to act
7:40right,
7:42which means she naturally is going to be
7:44able to discover that that man is
7:45willing to tolerate her disrespect. Now,
7:48when it comes to you, because you have
7:49other women, she's never even going to
7:50act incorrectly, because she's afraid
7:53that you will just leave her and replace
7:55her with another woman.
7:57So, now she cannot even test if you're
8:00going to tolerate disrespect. She cannot
8:02even be disrespectful to you in the
8:03first place to make you deal with that
8:05test,
8:07because she knows that if she even goes
8:08there, you're just going to cut her off.
8:11So, this is a very important one.
8:13Always, always be seeing other women,
8:15always. And trust me, she knows, right?
8:18You don't have to post it on your story,
8:19you don't have to tell her anything. You
8:20can if you want to, if you're slick with
8:22what you're saying and you're slick with
8:23the way you talk. You can always say it
8:25if you find a good, clever way to say
8:27it, but
8:28most of the time it doesn't have to be
8:29communicated. The woman knows that you
8:31are seeing other women. It's going to
8:32reflect in your behavior. She's going to
8:34know, and that is going to instantly
8:37make her watch her mouth, watch how she
8:39acts, and it's also going to prevent her
8:41from going, "You know what? Maybe I
8:42should go out with somebody else."
8:44That's going to also stop her from going
8:46out with other guys, and now to get out
8:47of the talking stage is going to be that
8:48much easier, because now you have no
8:50competition.
8:51Because she See, now because there's
8:53competition, she's trying to be the best
8:54version of herself, and she knows the
8:55best version of herself in your eyes
8:58is a version of her that doesn't hang
8:59out with any other guys. It's a version
9:01of her that doesn't go date other men.
9:03So, she's naturally going to stop dating
9:05them, because you're the one guy that's
9:06created competition.
9:08Okay, now here's the last thing.
9:10Here's the last thing. This is another
9:12thing that you have to understand, and
9:14if you can master this,
9:17this is really what's going to get you
9:19through the door to the point where
9:20she's going going to be begging for you
9:22to to ask her to be
9:24your girlfriend.
9:26It's just not caring whether she is or
9:28she isn't going out with other guys.
9:31Stop caring.
9:32The more you care, the more you indicate
9:35that you're low on options. The less
9:37options you have, the less your
9:38perceived value is.
9:41The lower your perceived value is,
9:44the less attracted she is to you.
9:45Remember, attraction is directly
9:46correlated to your value. The more
9:48valuable you are, the more attractive
9:49you are. So, all you have to do is make
9:51sure that your value is always
9:55always maximized. Always, with
9:57everything.
9:58The way you maximize your value is by
10:01maximizing the metric that she uses to
10:04measure your value. Remember, it's not
10:06looks, money, or status. Unless un-
10:09Even though that can help, looks, money,
10:10and status, it can help because that
10:12does demonstrate options cuz every woman
10:13wants a man who's good-looking and has
10:15money and has status.
10:17But, the core
10:18is that every woman wants the man that
10:21has looks, money, status, confidence.
10:24The core is that every woman wants that
10:26man. So, what is that? Options. That you
10:28have options. Every woman wants you, so
10:30you have options. So, that's what it is.
10:32What you have to understand is that as
10:34long as you're a man who's demonstrating
10:35options, you're demonstrating value. So,
10:37you could be a broke man. You could be a
10:39man that doesn't have a lot of
10:40resources, but here's the thing.
10:42If you are a man who has a lack of care,
10:45if you are a man that isn't confronting
10:46her, if you are a man that isn't
10:48reacting emotionally, what does that
10:49mean? Well, it must mean you can easily
10:51replace her. It must mean that you
10:52always go out with women just as pretty
10:54as her. That's why you wouldn't care,
10:55right? The only man that would care
10:56about her acting wrong or her doing
10:58something and letting her get under his
11:01skin and letting this woman
11:03control his emotions is a man that
11:04thinks that he can't find another one as
11:06good as her cuz if he could, he would
11:07never trip about anything. You're only
11:09tripping because you feel like you can't
11:10find anyone as good as her cuz you think
11:12she's special because you don't have any
11:13options on her level.
11:15So, all you got to do,
11:17you don't even need to get rich. This is
11:19the funny part. You should be working
11:20towards all those things because it
11:22naturally allows you to not care because
11:24now you have priorities where you can
11:25naturally just It's easier for you to
11:27not care, but what you can do here,
11:30right, is just artificially stop caring.
11:33Just stop caring. That's it. Because if
11:35you stop caring, she looks at you and
11:36she goes,
11:37"Does he always go out with girls as
11:39pretty as me?
11:40Does he not care because
11:42he can just replace me with a girl just
11:44as pretty?"
11:45Now all of a sudden, you're indicating
11:47options through a lack of care. So,
11:50here's There's the ladder.
11:52This is how it goes. This is
11:54the whole system from start to finish of
11:57how attraction works.
11:58If you demonstrate
12:01options through a lack of care,
12:04you're going to establish perceived
12:06value. And through that perceived value,
12:08you are going to become a very
12:09attractive man. And the more perceived
12:11value you have, the more attractive you
12:13become. And then she chooses you over
12:15every other guy if you are the most
12:16attractive guy.
12:18You are the most attractive guy because
12:19you have the most amount of value. You
12:21demonstrate value or perceived value cuz
12:25it might be even a phony amount of
12:27value, right?
12:29Through indicating options.
12:32You indicate options
12:34through a lack of care. So, of course,
12:36you can indicate options through driving
12:38a Ferrari because then she looks at you
12:39and she goes, "Oh, he drives a Ferrari.
12:41He must have women because
12:43a lot of women want a guy who has a
12:44Ferrari." Sure, in that case, looks,
12:46money, and status applies. But it's not
12:48the looks, money, and status. It's what
12:50those things indicate.
12:51It's what it indicates. What it
12:53indicates is options. It's like, "Why do
12:55women like the bad boy?" Because his
12:56lack of care,
12:57he doesn't care to be nice or kind or
12:59respectful, indicates that if this guy
13:01doesn't care if I like him or not,
13:03right? It indicates this dude doesn't
13:05care if the woman likes him or not. So,
13:07it indicates that he must have other
13:08women. The only guy that's going to act
13:10desperate and is going to be very
13:11careful about what he says, the good
13:12boy, is the guy that never gets laid.
13:14So, he's desperate, so he's trying to
13:15optimize everything to be as good as
13:17possible to try and get laid. The funny
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