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0:00Women are not loyal to loyal men.
0:01They're not loyal to men who are nice
0:03and sweet and kind. They're loyal to
0:05their best option. I don't care how much
0:07history you have had with her. If a
0:08better option comes along, she will
0:10leave you for that man. And she is not
0:12wrong for this. Her biology is
0:14programmed to lose attraction for you
0:16and gain attraction for that man because
0:18he can provide her with a better life, a
0:21more stable life. Now, this is the
0:22thing. Your definition of a better man
0:24and my definition of a better man and
0:26society's definition of a better man are
0:29different. You have to understand your
0:30definition is their definition. My
0:32definition is my definition. Listen to
0:34my definition because it's actually the
0:35truth. What they're telling you is just
0:36supposed to keep you weak. So listen,
0:39here's how a woman measures whether you
0:42are her best option or not. She does
0:44this based on your value. See,
0:46attraction is built based off of the
0:48value that you provide. Not value in
0:51terms of, oh, how happy you make her.
0:52value for her survival.
0:55Most valuable man is the man that can
0:57ensure her survival and give her the
0:59best life. Give her the whole world.
1:01That is the most valuable man. Doesn't
1:04mean you give her the whole world. It
1:05means you can give her the whole world.
1:07Doesn't mean you start buying her G
1:08Wagons and you start buying her Birkin
1:10bags. That just means that you can.
1:12Meaning you are powerful. Meaning you
1:14are stable. Meaning you have resources.
1:16Meaning if something hits the fan, you
1:17can take care of them like nobody else
1:19can take care of them. And this is the
1:20thing. If a man comes along who can do
1:22this and you can't, she will leave you
1:24for that man. And it's not because she's
1:25evil. It's because she's the weaker
1:27person. She is weaker than you. She is a
1:30woman. And so, she is biologically
1:32programmed to choose a man that is the
1:35best because she relies on that man for
1:36survival. Of course, we have feminism
1:38now. Women can go out and they can work.
1:39They can make their own money. But this
1:41is the thing. Those women are not women.
1:42They're men. They turn into men. Because
1:44if a woman doesn't need a man, she can't
1:46be a woman. feminine femininity is about
1:50submission. If a woman can't submit, she
1:52can't be a woman. She is the power now.
1:55She is the man. If she's not submitting,
1:56she's the man. Okay? So, this is the
1:58thing. We're talking about women that
1:59haven't been manipulated by this this
2:02system, right? And we're talking about
2:03beautiful women. I understand if you're
2:04a three out of 10, go ahead and go work.
2:05I know there's you got no hope, right?
2:07Nobody's gonna go for you. It's fine.
2:09But if you are a beautiful woman, these
2:12beautiful girls, they don't have to go
2:15deal with these things. They just need
2:16to find a man and they need to find a
2:18man that they can submit to. And this is
2:19the thing. You're never going to be the
2:20guy that she submits to, that 10 out of
2:2210 girl that you want if you aren't the
2:24best option. Or she might submit to you
2:25for a little bit, but she's going to
2:26choose the other guy over you
2:27eventually. Why? Because you go weak for
2:29this girl. See, you think that a better
2:31man is a man who sits on FaceTime with
2:33her and gives her all the time and
2:34attention and he's the kind of guy
2:35that's going to do whatever she wants
2:36and he pedestalizes her and all these
2:38things and he opens the car door, buys
2:40her flowers. This man is dangerous. He's
2:43dangerous because this is the kind of
2:44man that never achieves anything. Or if
2:45you already have achieved everything and
2:47this is why guys like Elon Musk and Tom
2:49Brady get left. They are valuable on
2:51paper. Absolutely they can provide that
2:53woman with a good life. But the woman
2:55goes blind to all that value on paper
2:57because she sees that man going
2:59emotionally weak and she makes the
3:00calculation. Well, if you've gone
3:01emotionally weak for me and I'm a woman,
3:03then what else are you going to go
3:04emotionally weak for? What if your
3:06business starts going as shambles
3:07tomorrow and you don't feel like showing
3:09up and everything falls apart and now
3:11you're not making the money you were
3:12making before? See, so now she makes the
3:14calculation of, okay, you're rich now.
3:16You're valuable now, but how long can
3:18you retain that? And a man that goes
3:20weak and this means you get married to
3:22her. You give her all this devotion and
3:23care and loyalty. That's you going weak
3:25for her, right? Because you would only
3:26do that to a woman that you think you
3:28can't replace a woman that you you
3:30really want to keep in your life. You're
3:31trying so hard to keep her, so you're
3:32doing all these things. Let me tell
3:33because it's unnatural for a man to be
3:34loyal. It's unnatural. That's the truth.
3:36It's a societal construct and you're
3:38following it because you're afraid that
3:39if you don't follow it, she's going to
3:40leave you. So, if you do all those
3:41things, she looks at you and she goes,
3:42"You're unsafe because you are acting
3:44based off of emotion. You are only doing
3:45those things because you're afraid to
3:46lose her." And so, now even those guys
3:50with all those things on paper still get
3:51left because they are unsafe. Why?
3:54Because they start focusing on her.
3:56Think about this. For you to become the
3:57most powerful resourceful man, how do
3:59you get there? Do you get there by
4:01focusing on the woman or do you get
4:02there by focusing on yourself?
4:04There you go. And so any amount of
4:06focusing on her, any amount, even a
4:09minute of watching movies with her, even
4:11the flowers that you gave her, that one
4:13time once in a blue moon, that decreased
4:15attraction. This is the thing, somebody
4:16like Tom Brady, right? He can be a cuck
4:19to that level. Like he can decrease
4:20attraction in that in that way once or
4:22twice or three times because he's so
4:23much better than everybody. Even though
4:25he decreases his attraction by doing a
4:28few things here and there, he's still
4:30above most of the other guys. You don't
4:32have to be the Superman of the world.
4:34You have to be the Superman of her life,
4:36right? And this is more difficult
4:37depending on how beautiful she is,
4:39right? If she's a 10 out of 10, it's
4:40going to be a lot harder to be the best
4:41guy out of all the other options she
4:42has. But she's constantly making this
4:44calculation, right? Versus if she's like
4:45a seven out of 10, it's going to be very
4:47easy for you to be the best. Now, here's
4:49the thing. Like I said, you got to be
4:51the superman of her life. And so, this
4:53means you have to care less about making
4:55the relationship work than every other
4:56guy in her life. Why? You have to
4:58understand how she calculates your
5:00value. She calculates how many resources
5:02you have based on how many options you
5:04have. Because if every woman wants
5:05resources, that means that the more
5:07resource resources you have, the more
5:09options you have in the dating market.
5:11So now reverse it. The more dating
5:12options you have, the more resources she
5:15assumes you have. So now we let's look
5:18at the other side of the spectrum,
5:19right? We talked about Tom Brady, talk
5:20about Elon Musk. Let's talk about the
5:21guys that smoke weed in their mom's
5:22basement. They're nobodyies. Why do
5:24women end up with these guys? Because
5:25sometimes beautiful women end up with
5:26these guys. these 10 out of 10 dudes
5:28that I mean these 10 out of 10 girls
5:30that end up with these ugly ass dudes.
5:31Why? Because they create the same
5:34illusion because they have a lack of
5:35care. So let me tell you, she measures
5:38your value based on how many options you
5:40have. She measures how many options you
5:42have based on your lack of care to make
5:43the relationship work. The guy who's
5:46loyal is trying hard to make the
5:47relationship work. The guy who gets
5:48married is trying hard to make the
5:49relationship work. The guy who always
5:50sits down and talks things out is the
5:52guy who's trying hard to make the
5:53relationship work. You would only try
5:54hard to make the relationship work if
5:55you didn't have the option to replace
5:57her. If you could replace this girl in
5:58the heartbeat with a girl just as
5:59valuable, just as pretty, you would do
6:01it. But you can't. Why? Because you lack
6:04the value to be able to do that. If you
6:05were the most valuable man on earth and
6:07you had all the dating options in the
6:08world, you could replace this girl, no
6:09problem with a girl just as pretty, if
6:10not prettier. And so when she looks at
6:12you and she goes, "You're loyal to me.
6:14You're devoted to me. You care so much."
6:15She knows that you just can't replace
6:16her cuz if you could replace her, you
6:18wouldn't care to make the relationship
6:19work. You wouldn't care to be loyal
6:22because you wouldn't be afraid of losing
6:23her, right? And you just stick to your
6:25nature. It's unnatural for you to be
6:26loyal. Unnatural.
6:28Do you understand what I'm telling you?
6:30So, when you give her that loyalty, she
6:32just sees that you are desperate to make
6:34things work with her. And see, now the
6:36guy that smokes the weed all day in his
6:39mom's basement creates this illusion
6:40that he has looks, money, and status,
6:42that he is resourceful, and that he is
6:43safe because he doesn't care about her.
6:46What does he care about? He cares about
6:48smoking. That's it. The same illusion is
6:52created because she looks at him. He
6:55doesn't text her 247. He doesn't care to
6:57see her again or schedule plans. He
6:59doesn't care because he just cares about
7:00his weed. It's the same as the guy who
7:02only cares about his business. It
7:04creates the same illusion. She looks at
7:05that man and goes, "He doesn't care." So
7:07that means he must have other dating
7:09options. He must have girls like me
7:10around all the time. He must go on dates
7:12with girls just as pretty as me all the
7:13time. And now, right, what kind of man
7:16has options? She's looking at him. She
7:17goes, "He's he's got options as pretty
7:19as me. He must, right? Cuz he doesn't
7:20care to call me and text me all the
7:22time. The whole time he probably doesn't
7:23even have options, but he just really
7:25wants to smoke his weed." But she
7:26doesn't know that. She doesn't
7:27understand that. She makes this
7:29calculation because this is how she's
7:30biologically wired. She looks at the guy
7:32and she she goes, "Okay, well, if you he
7:36has options, he must be valuable because
7:37only a valuable man can have options."
7:40And so, it creates the same illusion. An
7:41attraction is based on how valuable you
7:43are. And so she is attracted to that man
7:45because of the fact that he is creating
7:46perceived value through demonstrating
7:49options through a lack of care. And this
7:52is the thing. If a woman cheated on you,
7:54it's because you care too much to make
7:56things work. The nuance here is not it's
7:58not that you don't care about her. It's
7:59that you care too much to save the
8:01relationship. Something happens. Some
8:02drama, something she does something. You
8:04care. You care to fix everything instead
8:06of just walking away letting her do her
8:07thing. And you don't walk away
8:09emotionally. You literally just take a
8:10step back, create a little bit of
8:12distance. she's not responding to you.
8:14She's not reaching out. You just let her
8:15do that thing until she comes back.
8:17That's it. You don't pursue. Don't
8:18double text. You don't ever try to make
8:19things work. You don't ever go out of
8:20your way to explain anything to her. You
8:21shouldn't go to the club. You shouldn't
8:22do this. You shouldn't. No. Because that
8:24all shows how much you care. And the
8:25more you care, the less options you must
8:26have. The less options you must have,
8:27the less valuable you are. The less
8:29valuable you are, the more attraction
8:30decreases. If she's disrespecting you
8:31going to the club, the problem is that
8:33she doesn't have enough attraction for
8:34you because she doesn't fear losing you,
8:36right? She doesn't look at you as
8:37valuable enough. And so, you need to
8:38raise your value to create more
8:39attraction so that she stops doing this
8:41disrespectful You don't do this by
8:42sitting her down and telling her what
8:43not to do because that shows that you
8:45care. You do this by having a lack of
8:46care, which creates an illusion of
8:48abundance of options, which creates
8:50increased value, which increases her
8:52attraction for you, which gets her to
8:53stop doing what she's doing because she
8:54looks at you as more attractive than
8:56every other guy. And now you're the best
8:57option, and now she doesn't want to
8:58leave you. You don't understand what her
9:00best option is. This is the problem. You
9:02think that the best option is the guy
9:03that, oh, he buys her flowers and he
9:05always, you know, checks up on her. Good
9:07morning, good night, all this. Nope. Cuz
9:09that guy cares. That's the worst option.
9:11That's an unsafe man. That is a man who
9:12is dangerous to her survival and the
9:14survival of her offspring because that
9:16man falls emotionally weak to something
9:19as simple as a woman.
9:23Stop caring whether it works or it
9:25doesn't. Just live your life. Focus all
9:27of your attention on yourself 24/7. This
9:29is how it has to be till the day you
9:30die. You're going to be sitting around.
9:32You're going to be a grandpa. She's
9:33going to be a grandma. She's still going
9:34to be nagging you. It's going to be the
9:35same exact thing. The thing is by then
9:37you're going to be so old you're not
9:38going to even care. learn this now
9:40because it's never going to stop. And
9:41this is the way they're wired. They are
9:43not evil. They are just weaker than you.
9:44They have to test you. They have to do
9:46these things. They have to see if they
9:48can break you. They have to. And if you
9:50give them the ability to break you by
9:52doing something like marrying marrying
9:54or or giving her devotion or giving her
9:56all the time and attention, she is going
9:57to take advantage of that. Not because
9:58she's evil, but because the only way for
10:00her to test whether you are safe or not
10:03is by testing you. The only way she can
10:06tell which man is more valuable and
10:07which man is going to be able to provide
10:08her with a better life. And which man is
10:09more emotionally stable and which man
10:11has more value is by looking at two
10:14guys. She goes, "Get me flowers."
10:16Whichever guy runs over and gets her the
10:17flowers first is the guy that never gets
10:19laid. If he never gets laid, he must not
10:21be valuable. If he's not valuable, he
10:22can't be attractive. Do you understand
10:24what I'm telling you? She's going to
10:27test you till the day you die. This is
10:30the way it is. This is not a bad thing.
10:31This is a great thing. It's a blessing.
10:33It means that your whole life is about
10:34yourself. It's about you focusing on
10:35you. And then you become valuable and
10:37successful and famous and rich and all
10:39these things that you ever wanted to be.
10:42I'm giving you a blessing. I'm telling
10:43you, life is a blessing. It's beautiful.
10:45It's fantastic. It's not complicated.
10:47It's simple. Just do everything for you.
10:49That is your job as a man. And in return
10:52later, because you're going to be so
10:53much better than everyone because you've
10:54spent all this time and energy focusing
10:56on yourself. You'll be able to do some
10:58cuck stuff once in a while. You'll be
10:59able to, you know, cuddle in bed with
11:01her because you want to, because you
11:03want to go a little bit emotionally
11:04weak. You're going to be able to buy her
11:05those flowers to show appreciation
11:06without it making a difference in your
11:08life, without it being detrimental
11:09because you're so much better than
11:11everybody. Even you doing those things,
11:13it does decrease attraction still, but
11:16you're so much better than everyone.
11:17Even you decreasing attraction, you're
11:19still more attractive and you're still
11:21the best option compared to everybody
11:23else.