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0:00Dude, she's not texting me back. It's
0:01been like two days. What the hell do you
0:04care? [snorts] You see, this is exactly
0:05why she's going to leave you. You don't
0:06understand this, but you right now are
0:08failing a test. It's that simple. Guys
0:10don't understand this. They're
0:12constantly failing tests. See, right
0:13now, she's not responding to you
0:14purposefully to see how you're going to
0:16react. She wants to see how weak of a
0:18man and how low value are you. You see,
0:20[snorts]
0:21why do men want to max out their looks,
0:23their money, and their status? Why do
0:25they care so much about all these
0:27different metrics? because they know
0:28that if they increase those metrics,
0:30their value goes up. Why is their value
0:33important? Because their value
0:34determines how many options they have in
0:36the dating market. So, what does that
0:38tell you? If the higher your value is,
0:40the more options you have. The more
0:42options you have, the higher value you
0:44seem. And you can inflate that figure.
0:46There is a way to make yourself seem way
0:49more valuable than you really are. You
0:50know how you do that? By never caring.
0:53Never reacting emotionally. You do not
0:55care what she does, what she says. You
0:57don't care if she hasn't responded to
0:58you for a day. You don't get all anxious
1:00and jittery. You start texting her about
1:03it. You just don't care. So, how do you
1:07demonstrate that you have a lot of
1:08options? Right now, you have a great
1:09opportunity
1:11to demonstrate that you have a lot of
1:13options
1:15if you just don't care. Like, if you
1:16just leave that text message alone,
1:18she's going to go, "Does he have other
1:19girls that he's talking to? Does he have
1:22so many options that he doesn't care to
1:23lose me? Like, he's not even afraid to
1:25[snorts] lose me. like he doesn't even
1:26care that I haven't talked to him in a
1:28day. He hasn't. He doesn't. Now it
1:29flips. Now all this worrying that you're
1:31doing about her not texting you back,
1:32now she's going to be worrying about why
1:34you didn't pursue her and why you didn't
1:36care that she didn't text you back. Now
1:38you have the power. You're welcome. You
1:41have to understand why she does this.
1:44Cuz otherwise, you're just going to look
1:45at this girl and you're going to go,
1:46"She's such a horrible girl." Or a lot
1:48of guys will be like, "Well, then she's
1:49not the one. If she's playing games,
1:50she's not the one." Every woman's going
1:51to play games because dating is a game.
1:55It is a very important game that every
1:58individual needs to play because it
2:00ensures your survival. You see, she
2:02needs to pick the right guy. Otherwise,
2:03she might not survive. She might not be
2:05able to be provided for and her children
2:07as well. So, [snorts]
2:09she has a system, but she didn't
2:11consciously create the system. She
2:13created the system subconsciously.
2:16[snorts] Okay? It's all subconscious.
2:18So, one can't check your bank balance
2:20and she can't check how explosive the
2:22fibers in your muscles are [snorts] and
2:24she can't check all these different
2:26metrics. Like, she can't. So, how does
2:28she test your value? Well, she sees she
2:31tries to figure out how many options do
2:33you have? And she does this by looking
2:35at how much you care. Cuz imagine if you
2:37had every woman in the world.
2:40Imagine you could have any girl in the
2:41world. Would you care if this girl
2:43wasn't texting you back? No, you
2:44wouldn't because you know you could just
2:45replace her.
2:46So, why is this important? And why does
2:48every woman do this? Understand why they
2:50do this. This is why.
2:53Okay, she does this because if she
2:56didn't, she would end up with a loser.
2:59So, now she's trying to filter out all
3:01the weak guys. You know what the weak
3:02guy does? He texts her back. He goes,
3:04"Hey, are are you okay? Is everything
3:06okay? Hey, where you been? I haven't
3:07heard from you." You know what the
3:09strong guy does? The guy that's focused
3:10on his mission, on his future. That's
3:11the type of guy that can provide. You
3:12know what that guy does? Nothing. The
3:14best reaction is no reaction right now.
3:16The best thing you can do is absolutely
3:18nothing. I don't want you to react.
3:21Don't want you to ask her what she's
3:22doing. Don't want you to ask her if
3:23she's okay. She's okay. God damn it.
3:25What do you think she's doing? She's
3:27watching her Netflix show playing the
3:29game subconsciously. She's not texting
3:32you back. She wants to see if you're a
3:34weak man with no options who can't
3:35replace her so that she can eliminate
3:37you and find someone better. And when
3:39she realizes that you don't care, when
3:42she looks at you and goes, "Oh my god,
3:46he's the one guy that doesn't get all
3:48panicked and all stressed out because I
3:50didn't text him for a day or two." She
3:52goes, "That's the man I want." And it's
3:54all subconscious. You see, they're going
3:55to tell you they want you to text them
3:57all the time. They're going to tell you
3:59they want you to communicate with them.
4:01They're going to tell you they want to
4:02hear the good morning and good afternoon
4:04texts and the good night texts. They
4:06don't want any of that. The reason why
4:08they say they want all these things is
4:10for one one reason and one reason only.
4:12You see this, the reason why they say
4:14they want these things is because it
4:15also allows them to filter out the weak
4:16men. So, a woman's going to sit there
4:18and she's going to say, "I want loyalty.
4:21I want this, this, and this, and I want
4:23flowers at this time on this date, or
4:25else we can't date or else this
4:27relationship isn't going to work out."
4:28[snorts] And you know what kind of guy
4:30is going to give her all those things?
4:32Very simple. The dude that never gets
4:34laid. The guy that has no options. and
4:36now she can eliminate him. Because if
4:38you did have options, you wouldn't need
4:40to give her anything. You wouldn't need
4:41to conform because you can just replace
4:44her. So, you need to understand this.
4:46Any amount of showing how much you care
4:49shows that you are low value and now she
4:53doesn't want anything to do with you.
4:54Now, she doesn't find you attractive.
4:56Attraction is literally built by
4:59pursuit. And she can't pursue you if she
5:01sees you as a low value, low optioned
5:03man. Because you can't chase something
5:06that is behind you. You can only chase
5:07something that is ahead of you, in front
5:09of you. And you need to understand that
5:12women only date up. Meaning, you have to
5:14be better than her. You have to be
5:15better than all the other guys that she
5:17has the option of being with, or else
5:18she isn't going to choose you. How are
5:21you going to demonstrate that you are
5:22better than every other guy that she has
5:23the option of being with? I'm hoping
5:25you're not dating a girl that's really
5:26ugly. I'm hoping you've made a good
5:28decision and you're dating a woman
5:29that's very beautiful. And chances are,
5:31if she's very beautiful, she has a lot
5:33of other options. So, how do you beat
5:36all the competition? You don't have to
5:37be the best looking guy. You don't have
5:40to have the most amount of money. You do
5:42not need any of those things. Yes, of
5:43course, you need purpose. Yes, of
5:45course, you need something to focus on
5:46because that allows you not to focus on
5:47her and pedestalize her. But, you don't
5:49have to be number one in all those
5:50metrics because, like I said earlier,
5:52you can inflate you can inflate your
5:54perceived value. And you do this by
5:56caring less than all the other guys.
5:58Now, that doesn't mean when she texts
6:00you, you ignore her. No, because you
6:02would only ignore her because you care.
6:04You don't do anything on purpose. You
6:05are just natural. She texts you, you
6:08respond. She doesn't, you don't respond.
6:11You are living. You go to the gym, you
6:13work, you act like a man. You don't
6:16pursue. You don't chase. You don't get
6:18all anxious. Why didn't she call me? Why
6:20didn't she text me? You don't need to
6:22know what she did today. You don't. The
6:25only reason why you you don't care what
6:27she did today. you don't care to hear
6:28from her. The only reason why you think
6:30that you care is because you think that
6:32if you don't ask her and if you don't
6:34show that you care, she's going to leave
6:35you. It's the opposite. If you show that
6:36you care, she's going to leave you
6:38because she doesn't actually want you to
6:39call her all the time. She doesn't
6:40actually want you to care about what
6:42she's doing. She is just telling you
6:44that she wants all those things because
6:45she wants to filter you out. Women are
6:47always looking for a reason to leave.
6:50So,
6:52how do you make sure she never leaves?
6:54Never give her a reason to leave. That's
6:56it. She's not looking for a reason to
6:58stay. She's looking for a reason to
7:00leave. If you understand that this is a
7:04test and that this is a just actually a
7:07great opportunity [snorts] for you to
7:10demonstrate attraction, that you're
7:12attracted that attractive and that you
7:14have options,
7:16you should be grateful for this test.
7:18You should be grateful because you
7:19should understand that if you pass this
7:21test and you don't respond right now and
7:22you wait and then she texts you back,
7:26you'll be able to put that in your
7:28pocket that you were the guy that didn't
7:30pursue her, didn't chase her, and she
7:33had to rein reinitiate the contact. And
7:37she's always going to look at you as
7:38above all the other dudes that would get
7:40jittery and would start texting her,
7:42what is everything okay? And get all
7:44anxious. She looks at you and she goes,
7:45he doesn't care. He must have so many
7:47options. So many other women must must
7:49desire him. He must be more valuable
7:52than all the other guys because because
7:54he cares less. And then guess what?
7:57Guess who she's going to choose?
8:00You.