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0:00You know what's so funny? These guys
0:01will get married and they feel like they
0:02finally got the woman forever. Like
0:04after they propose, they feel like,
0:05"Yes, I did it. Like she's mine." But
0:08this is completely
0:10the opposite of what the truth really
0:12is. Like this is completely the
0:13opposite. When you sit there and you get
0:16down on your knees and you give her that
0:18ring and you give her that devotion, you
0:19make her feel like she's the only one.
0:20And now she looks and she goes, "Okay, I
0:21got you. I got you. Can I do better?"
0:24Women are constantly optimizing for
0:26their survival. They're constantly
0:27optimizing for their best option. They
0:29want to find the best man because that's
0:30how they survive. Like a woman's
0:32survival back in the day used to be
0:34based entirely on the man that she
0:37chose. The man carried her throughout
0:40her life and made sure that she had food
0:42on the table and she could survive and
0:43could take care of the children. That is
0:46what a woman would optimize for. And
0:50women's nature, no matter how much
0:51society evolves, will never change. It
0:53is still exactly the same. They are
0:55constantly optimizing for the survival.
0:57This is why every woman wants a man with
0:58money. This is why every woman wants a
1:00man with resources. This is why every
1:01woman wants a man who's genetically
1:03superior because they are optimizing for
1:06that survival. That's what they're
1:07doing. Okay? That's literally where the
1:09attraction comes from to all those
1:11things. It's not about, oh yeah, the
1:12shape of your nose when it looks like
1:13this like it's attract. No, it's it's
1:15health, fitness, intelligence. Can you
1:19provide for me and provide for the
1:21children? So, she's constantly looking
1:24for her best option. Best option. When
1:26women cheat, you can't blame them for
1:28cheating. It's not a woman's fault if
1:30she cheats. If a woman cheats on you, it
1:31means you weren't enough. It means she
1:33found someone better. You could have
1:34been the best. You had the chance to be
1:36the best. You could have been hustling
1:37and working, but instead, you spent all
1:38your time with her. You didn't improve
1:39yourself. You didn't continue leveling
1:41up and didn't know how to play the game.
1:43You didn't understand her psychology, so
1:44you played all your cards wrong. And now
1:45she found somebody better and she left
1:46you. That is not her fault. That's your
1:48fault. That is not her fault in any way.
1:51A woman isn't loyal to loyalty. She's
1:52loyal to her emotions and her natural
1:54instinct to find the best option.
1:56Meaning, if a better option comes along,
1:58she's going to cheat on you. And you
1:59can't blame her for this. This is the
2:00way they are wired. So, this is what you
2:02have to understand. When you give her
2:04that ring, when a man marries a woman
2:07now, she looks at that man and she goes,
2:08"Okay, I completed the I completed the
2:11game." Like, the game's over, right?
2:13Because you're giving her that
2:14commitment. You're devoting your life to
2:15her. You're saying till death do his
2:16part and you're dedicating your entire
2:18life to her. So now she looks at you,
2:19she goes, "Okay, I got this man to
2:20devote. This man makes this much money.
2:23He's this look. He looks like this. He's
2:25got this, this, this, this. But wait a
2:27minute, I got him to commit. I got him
2:30to commit. I wonder who else I can get
2:33to commit. What if I can get somebody
2:35better to commit? Because if this man
2:36committed, what if there's somebody
2:37better? The only way you keep her around
2:39forever is to make her feel like she
2:41can't do better than you, which is by
2:44never ever committing. You never marry
2:45her. You never ever devote your life to
2:48her. You just have her as a woman that
2:50you love and she loves you and you guys
2:52live together or whatever it is and you
2:55continue life together and there's never
2:58ever
3:00100% you are mine, I am yours.
3:04Like that's it. That's the only way to
3:06do it. She now this is the thing. She's
3:08a woman so she can be 100% yours but you
3:10can never be 100% hers because she
3:12always has to have that fear of losing
3:14you to somebody else.
3:16If she always thinks that you might
3:19leave her for somebody else, if she's
3:22always got that fear of loss, well, that
3:24fear of loss comes from thinking that
3:25she can't do better. Like the reason why
3:27girls who get cheated on, they can never
3:29get over the guy is because they feel
3:31like they can't do better than that guy.
3:32Because why? Because that guy never
3:33devoted to them. He never committed to
3:35them. So now they feel like, well, if
3:37this guy didn't commit, well, there's no
3:39way I can get a guy who's better than
3:40this to commit. So they feel like that's
3:42the top. They feel like that's it. like
3:46they they feel like they can do better.
3:47Then that's why they can't get over it
3:48because now their natural instinct for
3:50survival has been broken. It's been
3:52shattered because now they found someone
3:55fit.
3:56Maybe if he wasn't even fit, but somehow
3:58he satisfied SMV discrepancy.
4:02And because of the fact that he never
4:04committed, she now goes, "Well, he was
4:07this, this, and this. There's no way I'm
4:08going to find a man that has more than
4:09this, this, and this who's going to
4:11commit because this man had less and he
4:13didn't commit." Like I couldn't get
4:15commitment out of this guy and he didn't
4:17have as much as this other guy. So
4:18there's no way I'm going to get that guy
4:19to commit. So I'm just going to stay
4:20with this guy. There's nobody better
4:22than this guy because if I can't get
4:24this guy to commit but I got every other
4:26guy to commit. This is the best guy.
4:28This is the I can't do better than this.
4:30It's like I'm trying to make a good
4:31example for you guys so you really
4:32understand this.
4:36Okay. Imagine a target and you're
4:39shooting the target and you want to get
4:42the bullseye.
4:44And you continue shooting. You continue
4:47shooting the target.
4:53Oh man, that's a horrible analogy.
4:58You know, I'm just tired of seeing all
5:00this crap. I'm so tired of it. It's like
5:02you these men don't understand what
5:04they're doing. They're getting married
5:06and and all it is is just them
5:08committing to a life of misery. That's
5:11it. That's all it is. Like these men,
5:13the second they get married, they're now
5:14giving power to the woman. And if you
5:15give power to a woman, well, that means
5:17you're giving her the power to control
5:18your life. If she knows that if she
5:20leaves you, you're going to be broken.
5:22Then guess what? She's going to use that
5:24against you. When she doesn't get her
5:25way, she's going to be able to use that
5:26against you. And she's going to do it.
5:27Why? Cuz she's human. You can't blame
5:29her for this. That's not her fault for
5:30doing that. You gave her the power. It's
5:32your fault for giving her the power.
5:33Like when you marry a woman, she looks
5:35she goes, "Okay, I completed the game.
5:36Can I do better than this man? This man
5:38committed to me. Who else can I get to
5:40commit to me?" Marriage is the beginning
5:42of the end. You always want her to feel
5:45like she can't do better than you. You
5:46make her feel like she can't do better
5:47than you by you never giving your entire
5:51life to her. Like you can never ever
5:52fully devote yourself to her. If she
5:54feels like she can never fully have you,
5:57the only way that she feels that she can
5:58do better is if she she's fully got you.
6:00That's why like a lot of the times,
6:01let's say a man cheats, cheating is a
6:04great way to make her feel like she
6:05can't do better than you. But it's only
6:07great if you know how to react after she
6:08confronts you about why you cheated.
6:11When she comes and she when she comes to
6:13you and she goes, "I can't believe you
6:14cheated on me." D,
6:17we're done. All you got to do is say,
6:19"Okay, fine. No problem. You want to
6:21leave? You have you got a problem with
6:22it? Go ahead. That's it. She's going to
6:26stay with you. She's not going to leave
6:27you." You know why she is going to
6:28leave? If you apologize or you lie
6:30because now it shows you're low on
6:32options. Now it shows that you are
6:34desperate for her. Now it shows that
6:35you're afraid for her to leave. Why
6:37would you be afraid for a woman to
6:38leave? Why would you be afraid for for
6:40it to end? If you had options and you
6:42had girls better than her and you could
6:43do better than her, you wouldn't be
6:44afraid for her to leave. You would only
6:46be afraid if you think that she is the
6:47best that you can do. And remember
6:50again, if you think that she is the best
6:54that you can do,
6:57that's the same as like when you marry a
6:58woman. Like now, you only marry a girl
7:02if you think that she's the best, right?
7:03That's the point of marriage. You marry
7:05a woman that you think is the best you
7:06can do. And you will only beg for a
7:08woman to stay after you did something
7:10wrong if you think she's the best you
7:11can do because you don't want to lose
7:12her. So now when she knows this, if
7:15she's the best you can do, she looks at
7:18you and she goes, "I have all the power
7:20because I know if I leave him, he's
7:21going to feel broken because he's not
7:23going to feel like he can do better." So
7:25now she's the masculine. She's the one
7:27with the power. And what happens now is
7:30she goes, "Okay, well, I have power over
7:31this man. This man is no longer a man.
7:33He's a woman. Can I do better than this
7:35man? She's going to ask herself that
7:37question. In fact, she's always asking
7:39herself that question. That's why
7:40sometimes she does things that you don't
7:41want to do, that you don't want her to
7:43do. Like, for example,
7:46girls will go to the club, they will
7:48dress the way they're not supposed to
7:49dress. They will ask you if they can go
7:53to their friend's birthday party when
7:54they know they're when they know there's
7:55going to be other guys over there
7:57drinking and doing other things, hitting
8:00on them. They're going to do all these
8:02things. That is them testing right
8:04there. That's the same kind of test.
8:05They want to see is this man insecure?
8:08Is he going to fold? How much does he
8:09care? They're always trying to see how
8:11much you care. The second they realize
8:13that you care 100%, that's the second
8:16that it's over. That's when it ends
8:18because now she knows, "Okay, I finished
8:19the game. I got you. You're you're
8:21committed. You're devoted. I can break
8:23you. If I can get you to commit, I must
8:26be able to get somebody else better to
8:27commit." or she's going to have that
8:29curiosity and she's going to want to try
8:30which means she's going to leave you.
8:32That's all that it leads to. All these
8:34men fail all these tests. All these
8:36tests is constantly her filtering to see
8:38where are you on the value chart. Are
8:40you more valuable than me or are you
8:41less valuable than me? If she can't get
8:44you to react when she goes out and goes
8:46to the club, if she can't get you to
8:48react when she does something wrong,
8:50she's always going to feel like she's
8:51inferior to you. She's always going to
8:53feel like she's not enough. She's always
8:55going to feel like, well, I'm nothing
8:57special because if I was, he would be
8:58super jittery and afraid and he would be
9:00super, you know, frantic about me doing
9:02this or doing that or disrespecting me.
9:04He would take it to heart. It's like,
9:06think about the three out of 10 that you
9:08didn't really care about. Like, you
9:10dated some girl in like high school and
9:11like you you didn't really care and you
9:13never cared what she did. It's like,
9:14why? Because you never fully devoted and
9:16that girl was crazy about you. Because
9:17why? Because you just didn't care. When
9:19you don't care as much as she cares,
9:22when you don't care 100%. It makes a
9:24woman feel like she can't do better than
9:26you. Because think about it,
9:29all the other men in the past that cared
9:30about her 100%. Are men that felt like
9:33she was the best. Men that felt like
9:35they couldn't do better. So if you're
9:37the one guy, you're the one dude that
9:40never commits and never gives her that
9:42devotion. She looks at you and she goes,
9:44"I can't I can't control this man. I
9:47can't solve this man. I can't complete
9:49this game. If I can't complete this
9:51game, there's no way I can get to the
9:52next level. That's There you go. That's
9:55a fantastic analogy.
9:58You You will never feel like you can get
10:00to level 20 if you can't complete level
10:0219. You are level 19. If you constantly
10:05prohibit her from completing level 19 by
10:07never ever committing and never giving
10:09her that loyalty, she will never ever
10:12feel like she is capable of getting to
10:13level 20 cuz she couldn't even complete
10:15level 19. So that's all you got to do.
10:19Don't commit. These men getting married,
10:20they don't understand. They're actually
10:22ending the entire relationship because
10:24now they're giving her the 100%.
10:26Now it's the beginning of the end. And
10:28anything from that point on is just
10:30downhill. Like you had her and the
10:32second you got down on your knees, she
10:34was gone. Finished. Game ended.