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0:00I got some news for you, buddy. The
0:01reason she doesn't respect you, the
0:02reason why she goes to the club, the
0:03reason why she goes out with guy
0:04friends, whatever it is that she's doing
0:05that's disrespectful in any way, shape,
0:07or form
0:08is solely because you are being a good
0:10boyfriend. See, society has programmed
0:12you to think that giving her all the
0:13time and attention is you showing her
0:14how much you love her, how much you
0:16care, but it's not. It's just
0:17validation. It's just giving her power
0:18in the relationship. It's just giving
0:20her a reason
0:21to disrespect you. That's all this is.
0:23See, you constantly being available has
0:26made her feel like she is the masculine.
0:28In fact, it has given her all the
0:30leverage in the relationship, and now
0:31she can do whatever the hell she wants.
0:33She can act however she wants, and
0:34there's nothing you can do. You know
0:35why?
0:36See, men don't understand but they
0:37actually give women a reason to cheat on
0:40them. Women never look for a reason to
0:42stay. They always look for a reason to
0:43leave, and you giving her the power by
0:45giving her validation, by making her
0:47feel so special is exactly why she acts
0:50however she wants to act. See, the only
0:51way you're going to get her to act right
0:53is by instilling fear of loss, but she
0:55knows you can't take that gamble. You
0:57will never, ever, ever walk away from
1:00her, and she knows this because you have
1:03given her everything. You constantly put
1:05her first. You constantly pedestalize.
1:07And you know the funny part about this
1:08is you invest so much time into this
1:10woman. It actually becomes real. You
1:12actually pedestalize this woman. She
1:14actually becomes the man.
1:16You guys don't understand this.
1:17You guys always talk about, "Oh, I get
1:18so obsessed so easily. I get so
1:19attached." Yeah, because you act
1:21incorrectly in every relationship that
1:23you carry out. It is absolutely okay to
1:25care for a woman. It is absolutely
1:27perfectly fine, and you should love a
1:29woman, but this is the thing. What you
1:30are doing is not love. See, love is
1:32sacrifice.
1:34Love is about you doing things for
1:35somebody that you wouldn't do for
1:36somebody else. Any guy, any guy is
1:39willing to give this woman flowers. Any
1:41guy is willing to give this girl
1:42attention and affection. Any guy is
1:43willing to do that. That is not love.
1:46That is not love. That is validation.
1:48See, I'll tell you what love is. I'll
1:49prove to you that love is sacrifice.
1:50Think of the two people you love the
1:51most in this world, and now think of the
1:53two people that you would sacrifice the
1:54most for.
1:56It's the same two people. Love is
1:58measured by how much you would sacrifice
2:00for that person. You aren't sacrificing
2:01anything. If you really loved this
2:03woman, what you would do is you wouldn't
2:04spend any time on her. Instead, what you
2:06would do is go out there and build
2:07yourself as a man because what that
2:09would allow you to do is to make
2:10yourself more valuable and give yourself
2:12more resources so that you could provide
2:14her with a life that other men can't
2:15provide her with. Through your
2:17sacrifices, through your sacrifice
2:19through needing
2:20to spend time with her, through your
2:21sacrifice sacrificing needing to cuddle
2:23with her, sacrificing
2:25constantly giving her this affection.
2:27See, you got to understand this.
2:29You don't really love the woman. You
2:30were just afraid to lose her. If I told
2:32you that the things that you're doing
2:34right now are actually repelling her and
2:35they're lowering attraction, would you
2:37still do them? A lot of guys are going
2:38to go, "Well, uh what if I want to do
2:40all these things? What if I want to give
2:41her flowers and I want to be her best
2:42friend and I want to be there 24/7?" No,
2:44you don't.
2:45No, you don't. That is unnatural for a
2:47man to act this way. Why? Because it is
2:49unsafe. It is against survival.
2:50Everything that you do, all your
2:51instincts and everything that you are
2:53meant for and built for is to ensure
2:55your survival and the duplication of
2:57your DNA. That is the sole purpose of
2:59life. That is what life is about.
3:01Meaning it is impossible for you to be
3:03attracted or for you to naturally want
3:05to do something
3:07that decreases your survival chances.
3:11Simple as that. The only reason you want
3:13to do it is because society has told you
3:14that if you don't do it, you're a bad
3:16boyfriend. And they've told you that if
3:17you're a bad boyfriend, you're going to
3:18lose the woman. See, you're only loyal
3:20and you only give her all your time and
3:22attention because society has instilled
3:24fear of loss in you.
3:26They are using the trick that you're
3:27supposed to use on her, which by the
3:29way, it isn't a trick because it's
3:30natural for a man not to focus on a
3:31woman.
3:32They are using it against you to control
3:35you, to make you just another little
3:37program
3:39in the system.
3:40That's it. They are programming you.
3:42Let's scare these men
3:44into being with only one woman so that
3:47all it takes for them to be broken is
3:48that one girl leaving them. Now they're
3:50emotional. Now they make impulse
3:51decisions. Now they're consumers. Now
3:53they're buying flowers and going on
3:55dates and spending all their money doing
3:56a bunch of and they're never
3:57ever going to focus on their business
3:59and building themselves, which is great
4:00for the people at the top who created
4:02all these rules in the first place
4:03because they are creating these rules in
4:04order to keep you at the bottom because
4:06that means they can keep all the money.
4:07They can ensure that their families stay
4:09powerful. This is a system you don't
4:10even understand that you are in it.
4:13And you think that you are being a good
4:14boyfriend. You're not. You're not being
4:16a good boyfriend. You are being a good
4:17boyfriend according to society, but who
4:19created society? The people at the top.
4:20The people at the top don't want you to
4:21win. It doesn't benefit them to tell you
4:23the truth. It doesn't benefit them to
4:25guide you along the right path because
4:27that means that if they do guide you
4:30along the right path and they show you
4:31how to become powerful and they show you
4:32how to actually be an attractive man who
4:35attains the love and attention of women,
4:39what happens now is you can now
4:41overthrow them and they don't want that.
4:42So, the entire system is built against
4:44you.
4:44And they have done it so perfectly that
4:46they have convinced you that being a
4:48cook who sits there with a woman and
4:51does absolutely nothing and is passive
4:52and is just constantly catering to her
4:54and is sitting on FaceTime with her and
4:55is constantly doing everything in his
4:57power to show her how much he loves her.
5:02They are making you weak and this is not
5:03love. This is validation. You are
5:04validating her. And what you're doing is
5:06you're giving her all of the attention
5:08and all of the power. See, a woman
5:10is going to be attracted to you based on
5:12how valuable you are.
5:14Your value, your perceived value
5:16decreases the more you care about her.
5:19That's the truth.
5:21The guy that she's going to fall in love
5:22with and the guy that she's going to
5:23marry isn't going to be you. It's going
5:24to be the guy that doesn't care about
5:25her more than all the other guys.
5:28Meaning the guy that cares the least
5:30about her. All the guys she's ever
5:31dated, she's going to choose the guy
5:32that cares the least about her. Why?
5:34Because that creates the biggest
5:35discrepancy in value.
5:37Women choose their best option.
5:40Their best option. If you aren't her
5:42best option, she will leave you for her
5:44best option. How do you establish
5:46yourself as her best option? Sure,
5:48looks, money, and status. Everybody
5:49knows that. Except for that's not what
5:51it is. Because you could have looks,
5:52money, and status, but let me tell you,
5:53I promise you,
5:55you hold her hand a little bit too long,
5:57I don't care how rich you are,
5:58I don't care how successful you are, you
6:00pedestalize her, all that money ain't
6:02saving you. What it is is a lack of
6:04care. Why? Because a lack of care
6:06demonstrates options, right? You would
6:08only not care about holding onto this
6:10girl and doing everything for her and
6:11catering to her
6:13if you had the option to easily replace
6:15her with a girl just as pretty,
6:17just as valuable.
6:19What kind of man can easily replace a
6:20valuable woman?
6:22A man with options.
6:24What kind of man has options? A man
6:27who's valuable. What is attraction based
6:29off of? Your value. Meaning the more
6:32options you demonstrate through a lack
6:33of care, the more you increase your
6:35value. And the more you increase your
6:37value, the more attractive you become.
6:39That's it. The reason why your woman is
6:41disrespecting you, the reason why your
6:43woman is losing attraction for you, is
6:46because you are showing her how much you
6:47care. It's because you're trying to do
6:48everything right. It's because you are
6:50falling victim to the system
6:53that has been built in order for you to
6:55stay in this loop of she loves me, she
6:57doesn't love me. She loves me, she
6:58doesn't love me. We're a thing, we're
6:59not a thing. We're a thing, we're not a
7:01thing. You get cheated on on by this
7:02girl, you go to another girl, and you
7:03never learn.
7:05You never understand the truth. And they
7:07keep you in this cycle, and it's a
7:08genius system. But you need to break
7:10out, because let me tell you, if you
7:11don't, it's done. It's over for you.
7:14You will never be a successful man.
7:16And let's say you are going to be a
7:17successful man, let's say financially,
7:19that still ain't success. You know why?
7:21Because you're still going to get
7:21divorced. These guys are billionaires.
7:23Let me tell you, if Jeff Bezos, Donald
7:25Trump, if these guys had me in their
7:26life, they would have never been
7:27divorced, not even once.
7:29I would have saved Jeff Bezos $50
7:32billion.
7:33These men don't understand what they're
7:34doing. Even with all that money
7:37and status, they still don't know how to
7:39play the the
7:40They still don't understand that they
7:42are a slave to it just like everybody
7:44else. This is programming of the modern
7:47age.
7:48And let me tell you, if you don't break
7:50free, you will never ever be a free man.
7:52You will never be a man who lives to his
7:54full potential because life ain't about
7:57that woman. It's about you
7:59sacrificing as much as possible so that
8:01you can love your existence as much as
8:03possible.
8:04So that you can give love to as many
8:06people as possible. So that you can
8:08experience life to the fullest.
8:11So that you can do everything that you
8:12want to do. And then if you choose to
8:14love that woman, you can. But see right
8:15now you can't.
8:17Because if love is about sacrifice, the
8:18only way you can actually love that
8:20woman is by sacrificing something for
8:21her. But you have nothing to sacrifice
8:23because you're spending all your time
8:25with her. Instead of going out there and
8:26pursuing things to the point where you
8:27acquire resources and now you have time
8:30and energy and money to sacrifice and
8:31give her things and give her a life that
8:33you nobody else can give her and give
8:35your family a life that nobody else
8:37can give their family.
8:39Now you have something to sacrifice. The
8:40love comes out of you. Let me tell you,
8:42you will never feel love if you have
8:43nothing to sacrifice.
8:44You don't have those things to sacrifice
8:45because you were spending every day
8:47pedestalizing the woman. You were
8:48spending every day centering your life
8:50around your girlfriend. And it's funny
8:52because it's a double negative. It's not
8:54like you get to keep her by doing that.
8:55No, you're going to lose her and you're
8:57going to lose your potential. You're
8:59going to lose your purpose. You're going
9:00to lose everything you could have ever
9:02been.
9:03Or you can win twice. You can listen to
9:06me and what you can do is you can become
9:08the best, most incredible version of
9:10yourself. You can expand onto human
9:12consciousness.
9:14You be You can become a human.
9:16A one of one human.
9:18Do something that nobody else has ever
9:19done.
9:21And at the same time, the whole world
9:22starts to revolve around you. The women
9:24in your life
9:25can't fathom a life without you.
9:28You don't have to do anything. They're
9:29just obsessed with you because of how
9:31irreplaceable you are. Because remember,
9:33attraction is based on value.
9:35So your goal every day isn't to try and
9:37convince her to be attracted to you.
9:41It's for you to become more attractive
9:43to the point where you have to be
9:46someone who just exists, and women run
9:48to you, and women obsess over you, and
9:50they just want to be a part of your
9:52life. They beg to be a part of your
9:53life, and there's no other way to win.
9:55There is no other way. Everything else
9:57is cope. Make a decision.
10:00Make the right decision.
10:02Be calculated.
10:03And do something that is actually going
10:06to benefit humanity. Right now,
10:08you're just being a little