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0:00You ever wonder why these guys doing
0:01e-commerce? They're supposed to be these
0:03hot shots. Yeah, I got a Lambo. I got a
0:05GT3RS.
0:07Where are the girls?
0:08Where are the girls? These red pill
0:11dudes teach you that money is going to
0:13solve all your problems. It's going to
0:14get you all the girls. Going to fix
0:15everything you've ever wanted to fix.
0:18No issues with women. They see the
0:19Lambo, instant attraction.
0:22Same with black pill. Oh, yeah, just
0:23just improve your looks, dude. If you
0:25become become a 10 out of 10, you can do
0:27whatever you want and she's going to
0:28love you. She's going to look at you one
0:29time and she's going to be oh my god, I
0:31want this guy for the rest of my life.
0:33You've been taught a lie. Everything
0:34you've been taught is a lie. You have
0:35been taught a lie and you need to
0:36unlearn everything.
0:39You want to get women? It's not about
0:40learning things. It's about unlearning
0:42things because you've been taught so
0:43much crap along your life
0:46along the span of your life that you
0:48literally just need to unlearn a few
0:50things because this thing this thing
0:52about this whole situation of getting
0:54women
0:55and attracting women is actually so much
0:57simpler than you think.
0:59And it doesn't require a bunch of
1:01fundamental systems and game and money
1:04and looks.
1:05It's actually very simple. There's one
1:07metric I want you to look at. This is
1:09the one metric that actually matters at
1:11all times at all times. With every woman
1:14in the world. Every single one of them.
1:16I don't care where she comes from. I
1:17don't care what history she has. I don't
1:19care what kind of family she comes from.
1:21Rich, poor, ugly, fat, good-looking,
1:24doesn't matter.
1:26This applies to every single one of
1:28them. And if this metric is constantly
1:29satisfied and if this metric is
1:31constantly being paid attention to and
1:34being identified at the right times,
1:36every woman
1:38will stay attracted to you. You will be
1:39able to keep women
1:41around you for the rest of your life if
1:43you constantly satisfy this metric. And
1:45this metric
1:46is SMV discrepancy on your end.
1:50Meaning you at all times need to satisfy
1:54SMV discrepancy. What is SMV
1:56discrepancy?
1:58For any of you don't who don't know what
1:59SMV is,
2:01search it up. SMV.
2:04SMV discrepancy needs to be satisfied on
2:07your end, meaning you have to constantly
2:09show her that you have higher SMV than
2:11her.
2:12That's SMV discrepancy.
2:14If you constantly satisfy this,
2:17a woman will always stay attracted to
2:18you. Now, money can do this. Looks can
2:21do this, but it's only a quarter of the
2:24story. Because it only does so much for
2:26you. See, I'll tell you what money and
2:27looks is going to do for you.
2:29Money and looks,
2:31think of it as like you've got a house,
2:34and money and looks
2:36swings the door open.
2:38But inside the house
2:41is one thing, and it's her mind.
2:46And you see,
2:48her mind opened the door to you because
2:50she saw the flashy stuff. She saw your
2:53little nose and your high-set cheekbones
2:55or whatever the hell all that crap is.
2:59But if what's inside her mind isn't
3:01satisfied once you walk through the
3:02door,
3:03guess what? Second date ain't coming.
3:06Third date ain't coming. You're getting
3:07ghosted. Period. I don't care how much
3:09money you have. I don't care how
3:11good-looking you are. It does not
3:12matter. You are going to get ghosted.
3:14This is why you see these guys in
3:15e-commerce, all these drop shippers.
3:17They're pathetic losers.
3:19They have cars. They have money to blow
3:21at the club, and they still have not a
3:23single girl who loves them. I'm in the
3:26business of teaching you how to make a
3:27woman love you, not how to get a woman
3:29on a date with you, not how to attract
3:31the woman. I'm telling you how to retain
3:33a woman and make her fall in love.
3:35Isn't that what you want? Don't you want
3:37a woman to love you? It's not about
3:39being seen with a pretty woman
3:41or going out with a girl that's hot or
3:43getting in your bedroom. This is a
3:45horrible mentality, and it's empty.
3:49You want women to love you. You don't
3:50want to get in the bedroom. You want
3:52women to love you. That's what every
3:53single one of you guys want.
3:56All of you want that. Every man in this
3:58world wants a woman who loves him.
3:59That's what I'm going to teach you.
4:01And the only way for you to do that is
4:02to demonstrate SMV discrepancy. So, what
4:04does this mean?
4:06This means that at all times
4:08you need to be the guy out of all the
4:10other guys that she's ever met
4:12that can get more women in the bedroom
4:15than all of them.
4:16You need to be the dude that has the
4:18most amount of female options.
4:21And I'll give you an example of this.
4:23If she's been with a guy
4:25a lot of you guys might be with a woman
4:26that's been cheated on before, okay? And
4:28this is one of those girls that you got
4:30to play the game very carefully because
4:32see when a woman has been cheated on by
4:34another guy, a bar has been set.
4:36A bar, a standard has been set.
4:38This guy cheated on me. This guy could
4:41get a lot of women in bed, and he also
4:43had me at the same time that he was with
4:44other women, and that's a bar that's
4:46been set. If you want her to love you
4:49you need to become above that guy. And
4:52the only way you're going to do that is
4:53by demonstrating that you
4:55can get more women in the bed than her.
4:57And the only way you're going to do this
4:58is by cheating on her twice as much as
5:00that dude cheated on her. That's it.
5:01That's the only way you're going to do
5:02it.
5:03And this is why
5:05this whole perception of body count is
5:08totally wrong. There's nothing wrong
5:10with a woman who has slept with many
5:11dudes. Yes, it's disgusting. Yes, it's
5:14going to turn you off. Yes, you don't
5:16want to think about the other guys that
5:17she's been with.
5:18But it's not about that. That's not what
5:21drops her value. What drops her value is
5:23not the fact that she's been with a
5:24bunch of dudes and it's disgusting. What
5:26drops her value is that the more guys
5:27she's been with, the higher chances
5:29there are that one of those dudes has
5:31been a guy that can get a lot of girls
5:33in the sack, and it's going to be very
5:35hard for you to get her attracted to you
5:36because you now need to meet that guy's
5:38standard or be above him.
5:40So, what does that mean? It means a
5:41woman with a higher body count is going
5:42to take up a lot more of your time
5:44because she's a lot harder to attract.
5:45That's it.
5:47That's why her value is her is either
5:49higher or lower due to her body count.
5:50But let's say a woman has a a body count
5:53of 10, but every single guy she's been
5:54with is like some geeky nerd who doesn't
5:57know anything about girls, and maybe she
5:59slept with him, but he he didn't cheat
6:02on her and he was always good to her.
6:03And yes, they were in the bed, and yes,
6:05they had relationships, but
6:08nothing ever crazy happened to her. That
6:11guy never did anything to her. The bar
6:12is very low. It's very easy for you to
6:14go and attract that woman. Now, there
6:15might be a girl that's been with only
6:17one dude before, but this guy cheated on
6:19her
6:20with three other women.
6:22That girl is going to be a lot harder to
6:24attract, and she's a lot lower value
6:26than the girl that's been with 10 guys.
6:28It's just that simple.
6:30Body count is looked at as
6:32it's so it's looked at so incorrectly.
6:34It's so frustrating when I see these
6:36guys, they don't know what the hell
6:36they're talking about. "Oh, she has a
6:38high body count. Oh, she's low value."
6:39No, because you don't know what her
6:40history is.
6:42But you can tell by how hard is she
6:45to attract.
6:47The harder she is to attract, the more
6:49chances are that the chances are that
6:51she's been with a guy
6:53that demonstrated he can get a lot of
6:55women in the sack. So, you got to be the
6:57guy that can get more women than that
6:59guy in the sack if you want her to be
7:00attracted to you.
7:02That's it.
7:04You want a woman to stay attracted to
7:05you till the day you die, you need to
7:07constantly satisfy that one thing, that
7:09you can get more women
7:12in the bedroom than any other dude she's
7:14ever been with. If a guy comes along
7:18that can get more women in the bedroom
7:19than you, she's going to leave you for
7:20that guy. That's it. And you see, looks,
7:23money, and status, there's a very fine
7:25line between this and understanding the
7:27psychology of how to always
7:30pass her tests, and always demonstrate
7:31that you can get more girls in the
7:32bedroom cuz because yes, looks
7:34demonstrates that you can get girls in
7:35the bedroom. Yes, money demonstrates
7:37that you can get girls in the bedroom.
7:38But guess what? If a man with a
7:39Lamborghini goes on a date with a girl,
7:42and then, after the date ends, he calls
7:44her first and he texts her every day
7:46after that, "Good morning. Good night."
7:48Now, this guy went from "Oh, he has a
7:50Lamborghini. He definitely has has other
7:52women attracted to him because he's got
7:54resources." to "Oh, this guy gets
7:56nothing. This guy is
7:58he gets no women. He's desperate. He's
8:00literally texting me right after we
8:01finished the date."
8:03There could be a dude that she goes on a
8:04date with that lives in his mom's
8:06basement, smokes weed all day, that's
8:08going to seem higher value to her after
8:10that first date if he doesn't call her,
8:12doesn't text her, and doesn't reach out
8:14for a week. Cuz she looks at that guy
8:15and she goes, "If he didn't reach out to
8:17me for a week,
8:19then he obviously has options and he
8:21does this all the time. He I'm a 10. He
8:24didn't reach out to me means he always
8:25goes on dates with 10s." But that one
8:27dude who has a Lambo, who lives in a $10
8:29million house, and went out with her and
8:31she's a 10 and called her right after
8:33they went out, "Oh, I had such a good
8:34time. Oh, da da da." You're not
8:35connecting with her, you idiot. You're
8:37not doing anything other than showing
8:38her you have no options and you are not
8:40satisfying SMV discrepancy.
8:43Now, she is the one that looks like she
8:45can get more more guys.
8:48She can get more options, okay?
8:51Rather than you getting more options
8:52than her. Now, she's the one who looks
8:54like she can get more options. And now,
8:56she is going to lose attraction to you.
8:58A woman wants a man that every other
9:01woman wants.
9:02Women
9:04fall in love with a man based on how
9:06valuable he is and how valuable he is is
9:09based on the fact of how many women can
9:11he get in the bedroom. You need to
9:12internalize this. I'm going to keep
9:13repeating myself because this is the
9:15main point that you need to understand
9:17and internalize because if you don't,
9:18you are never going to have a successful
9:20relationship. You are never going to
9:22have a woman fall in love with you.
9:24If you want a woman to fall in love with
9:26you, it can only be done by satisfying
9:28this one thing. That's it. This is the
9:29only thing that counts. This is why I'm
9:31telling you, you do not need to be rich.
9:34You do not need to be in shape. You do
9:35not have to be the best looking guy,
9:37because the guy
9:39that sits in his mom's basement all day
9:41and smokes weed can satisfy that SMV
9:44discrepancy the same way a dude that has
9:46a Lamborghini and a and a $10 million
9:49house can, if not even better.
9:51If he knows what he's doing, if he
9:53understands what I'm telling you, if if
9:54the guy who smokes weed all day in his
9:55mom's basement knows what I'm telling
9:57you and the guy who drives a Lamborghini
9:58doesn't, it's over. The dude that smokes
10:01the weed won.
10:03He won the second he opened his mouth on
10:04the first date. Done. Finished.
10:07Because what's in the mind is
10:09everything. Red pill, black pill.
10:11You want to keep listening to this,
10:13you're going to be miserable. You're
10:14going to be a good looking guy with no
10:15women or you're going to be an an
10:17e-commerce millionaire with no women.
10:19What's the point of having all the money
10:21in the world and all the looks in the
10:22world if nobody cares?
10:25These are just bonuses.
10:27These are just things that stack on top
10:30of the psychology of understanding how a
10:32woman works. When you understand how she
10:33works and you understand what satisfies
10:35a woman, then you can get the looks and
10:37the money and the status to make your
10:38life a little bit easier. It gives you
10:39some leeway to make some mistakes,
10:41right? Because you have those other
10:42attributes carrying you.
10:43But those attributes alone cannot carry
10:46understanding her mind. Understanding
10:47her mind is the main thing that you need
10:49to learn. And this is what no dude, not
10:51a single guy on the internet teachers
10:53teaches. Not a single guy understands.
10:56Nobody knows this. Nobody knows this and
10:58I cannot believe that people live their
11:00life every day without understanding
11:01this. It is so simple.
11:04And the beautiful part about it,
11:05the beautiful part about it,
11:07is that it's done through you not doing
11:09things. It doesn't require more work for
11:12you to be this way, for you to satisfy
11:13SMV discrepancy. In fact, it's done
11:15through you not doing things. Notice how
11:16I said
11:17the guy who doesn't text her after the
11:19first date. That guy is putting in less
11:21effort, less effort, less time,
11:24less energy and he's the one getting the
11:25girl.
11:27So, it makes your life easier because
11:28then you don't have to pursue. You don't
11:30have to text her first. You don't have
11:31to text her good morning, good
11:32afternoon, good night. You don't care
11:34how her morning was. You're just trying
11:36to attract her. You're just You're just
11:37scared that she's going to dip on you.
11:38So, you're trying to communicate. You're
11:40trying to keep communication, but this
11:41shows desperation. It shows you have no
11:42options. It lowers your SMV.
11:45Cuz no guy with options would ever text
11:47her good morning, cuz he doesn't need
11:49to, cuz he's got other girls.
11:51He's not coming from a scarcity mindset.
11:53Everyone needs to internalize this. If
11:55you I'm going to repeat myself one more
11:57time. If you want
11:59a woman to fall in love with you and
12:00stay with you till the day you die,
12:02guaranteed, like literally till the day
12:04you die,
12:05you need to focus on one thing.
12:08Constantly satisfying SMV
12:12discrepancy.