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0:00So, for a lot of you, you're going to
0:02realize that your mom wanted you to be a
0:04beta male. Let that sink in. Your mom
0:07wanted you to be a beta male, but she'll
0:10tell you your whole childhood how she
0:11wants what's best for you and that
0:13you're her sweet little boy. That's what
0:14she'll tell you. She'll tell you your
0:16whole life that she wants what's best
0:17for you. But deep down, you'll realize
0:20that your mom wanted you to be a beta
0:22male. And look, I get that this might
0:23sound harsh, but it actually isn't. Like
0:25this is a picture right here that I
0:28found um when I was home for Christmas
0:33and like I even remember like
0:36I would have to do these like photo
0:38shoots as a kid and my mom would like
0:41bring me to these places and I'd have to
0:43sit there for hours changing into
0:46different clothes and posing and all
0:48this stuff and I would like scream and
0:51cry and like no matter what like I still
0:53had to do all this. That's what I mean.
0:54Like all of this is just a gradual
0:56process until you basically get turned
0:59into a dork.
1:00>> Your mom didn't want you to become some
1:02alpha stud with, you know, a bunch of
1:04women or a bunch of options. No, you
1:06were basically told to be a good boy and
1:08then you're told to work really hard and
1:09you were told to keep working really
1:11hard and keep leveling up and doing all
1:13this and have your focus and have a good
1:15head on your shoulders and all this
1:16stuff in order to serve
1:21the women that you're with in the
1:22future.
1:24What you'll realize is that your mom
1:26wanted you to be a beta male.
1:30You need to actually let this sink in.
1:32Now, here's what you're going to find,
1:34or here's one thing that I experienced.
1:36The amount of times looking back, like
1:38I'm going to be 30 years old this year.
1:40the amount of times looking back
1:43that I would be let's say um you know
1:47when I was growing up or when I was in
1:48my hometown like I'd have a girlfriend
1:50or something and the amount of times
1:52where like if I was around my girlfriend
1:55and let's say I was at home or it was
1:57the holidays or my mom was around
2:00where my mom would just be a complete
2:04[ __ ] to me right in front of her right
2:06in front of my girlfriend every time and
2:08it was a control it's for control.
2:11That's what it was is it was control.
2:13Because this is what would happen every
2:16single time. What would happen is my
2:18mom, okay, and you might have
2:20experienced this too, your mom will
2:21actually try to get you reactive.
2:24Why do you got to set the table that
2:26way? Yep. That's what you're wearing.
2:28Yeah. Same attitude. Whatever she wants
2:30to say. These small little micro
2:32comments, okay, to get you to be
2:34submissive. Because this is what most
2:37women get off on is watching a man be
2:39submissive to them. That's what women
2:42like. That's what a lot of times women
2:43like. A lot of times the women that you
2:45come in contact with, and this is the
2:47thing, my mom's my mom specifically, if
2:50you saw her, you think, "Oh, she's so
2:52feminine. Oh, so feminine. No tattoos.
2:56Uh dresses really uh modestly. All the
2:59houses decorated. Just decorated to the
3:01nines every Christmas. Oh, so many
3:03ornaments. So much this, so much that.
3:05all an illusion of femininity
3:07where deep down that core is a hardened
3:10just masculine controlling
3:13nagging gremlin of a woman. This is what
3:16you'll experience. This is what I
3:18experience is I would be with a
3:19girlfriend. Nothing pisses a mom off
3:22more than to know that their kids
3:23getting laid.
3:25Pisses them off to their core because
3:27it's a jealousy thing, right? the mom.
3:30Okay, your mom deep down doesn't want to
3:33see that you um talk to a lot of women
3:36or that you have a woman in your life
3:38that you give a lot of attention to
3:39because that means as she gets older,
3:42that means you give less attention to
3:44her, to your mom.
3:47Let that sink in.
3:50All those phone calls when you're in
3:51college, those phone calls when you're
3:53in high school checking in, you know, it
3:55starts at a young age. You're 16 years
3:57old. You have a sleepover. Your mom
3:59wants to call you every 30 minutes. Make
4:01sure to call me right at 9:30 or else
4:03you're getting picked up. All these
4:04things, right? Your mom wanted you to
4:06actually become a beta mill. The amount
4:08of times that my mom would come in
4:10through the house and just be a complete
4:12[ __ ] for no reason or just start
4:13glaring at me for no reason. Completely
4:16just start uh ripping me apart. The
4:19thing is is at that age I didn't have
4:21the psychology or the mental um strength
4:26or the mental knowhow to know how to
4:28navigate those sentences. I didn't
4:31understand that all those pointless and
4:32meaningless sentences was actually
4:34designed to move me off center. And
4:36here's what would happen. My mom would
4:38essentially try to emasculate me and
4:39make me a [ __ ] in front of the woman
4:41that I was with. And this happened for
4:43so many times. I would even say that as
4:45soon as um a woman that I was dating
4:47would start to introduce or whenever uh
4:50she would get to know my family,
4:52it would always be a decline to the
4:54relationship because what happens then
4:56is
4:58what your mother will do is she will put
5:00you in like the saying is I'm caught
5:03between a rock and a hard place. Your
5:05mom will put you between a rock and a
5:07hard place and it would be this. If she
5:09tells you to do a bunch of [ __ ] in front
5:11of the woman that you're dating and she
5:12acts like a
5:14like just very evil to you and you say
5:17yes and agree and you submit to all of
5:18it, you're now a mama's boy and you
5:21basically submit to her. So that's the
5:24hard place you're trapped in. The other
5:26side of it is just as worse. If you get
5:28reactive and you tell her
5:31no or you tell her
5:34to basically [ __ ] off, do you know
5:37what's going to happen now?
5:39Is you look emotionally reactive and you
5:41don't look stable. you don't look like
5:43you're stoic and strong and stable. You
5:44look as if you're all over the place and
5:46you're moved off center. And then what
5:48happens is as soon as I would get home,
5:51um
5:53like uh as soon as I would get home, my
5:55girlfriend at the time would be uh
5:59it would just ruin the dynamic between
6:01her and I or it's like I'm getting
6:03tested more or it's like she starts uh
6:05trying to pick at your core identity
6:07more. A thing that you got to understand
6:09is most of the problems that you're
6:11dealing with as a man when it comes to
6:13how you communicate and act with women
6:14or your perception of what a woman is a
6:18lot of times stems from you being
6:20emasculated as a child down to
6:23everything of wear this, don't wear
6:24this, wear these shoes, be here at this
6:27time, call in at this time, check in at
6:29this time, you better do that or don't
6:32make me tell your dad or you're
6:33grounded. Right? Then the fear comes.
6:36Don't make me do this or you're going to
6:37lose your car keys. Don't make me do
6:39this or I'm going to take away your
6:40PlayStation. Whatever the case may be,
6:42this is what you're going to run into.
6:44Your mom wanted to emasculate you and
6:46make you a complete beta male. And the
6:48more you start to see this, if you
6:50actually if you actually look at all of
6:52the [ __ ] rules that your mom
6:54probably created, set the table this
6:56way. Don't wear this. Wear that instead.
6:58Make sure you're home by this time.
7:00Don't touch that dessert till exactly
7:027:15.
7:04All of these rules were for control
7:07because that's what she pushes for. What
7:09she'll push for over and over and over
7:11is to control. To control every little
7:13micro detail of your life. If you don't
7:16spot this, you will
7:20run into female manipulation your entire
7:23life. If you can't break free
7:27of the emotional attachment that you
7:30have to constantly being controlled by
7:32your mother or constantly needing the
7:33communication from your mother. Listen,
7:35your mom also didn't want you to be like
7:37a strong um viable option out in the
7:39world either. No, no, no. What does your
7:41mom typically do? Your mom told you to
7:43live in leisure. Your mom tells you,
7:45"Oh, honey, if you don't feel good, just
7:48lay on the couch, take a nap, take some
7:49time off."
7:51Comforting. everything was comforting
7:54and then she strips you of all the
7:56traits that you actually need. And if
7:57you didn't have a dad to essentially set
8:00the tone of how you're supposed to act
8:01as a man, then you're really in for a
8:03rude awakening. This is just some of the
8:04things that you're going to learn the
8:06older you get is that your mother wanted
8:08you to be a complete beta male. Because
8:10that means as you get older, you don't
8:12have a girlfriend or a wife. That means
8:14at 9:00 a.m., 12:30 in the afternoon,
8:17and then 5:00 p.m., you're calling her.
8:19You're calling your mom all day. Good
8:21morning, Mom. How are you doing? Hey,
8:23what are you doing for lunch? And then
8:24right before bed, good night, Mom. Love
8:26you. That's what she wanted is to not be
8:28alone.
8:30This is what you're going to run into.
8:33This
8:35stripping you of all of your masculinity
8:38so that way you give your attention and
8:40your time to her. And this goes beyond
8:43just dating. This is purely about how
8:46you were raised.
8:49Your whole life from every decision that
8:51you made was probably molded by either
8:53your teachers who were most likely
8:55female or your mother