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0:00You only want to buy her flowers, and
0:01you only want to be there for her 24/7
0:03want to cuz you don't actually want to
0:05do this. You only want to do this
0:06because you think it's attractive. What
0:07if I told you this was unattractive?
0:09Would you still want to do it? No, you
0:10wouldn't. So, all these guys talking
0:11about, "Well, that's how I am. That is
0:12me being myself. I want to give her
0:14flowers. I want to show her how much I
0:16care." If you cared, you wouldn't give
0:17her flowers.
0:18If you cared, you wouldn't do all these
0:20cuck things that everybody has told you
0:22are attractive because they aren't
0:23attractive.
0:25Women do not care if they receive
0:27flowers from you. They only want flowers
0:29from the guy they want, and they don't
0:30want that guy because he gave them
0:32flowers. They want him for something
0:33totally unrelated. You have to
0:35understand this.
0:36If you really were doing the things that
0:38you're supposed to do, which is chasing
0:40your dreams, understanding what is the
0:42point of life, following your purpose,
0:43following God, guess what? Now, all of a
0:45sudden, every woman would want you.
0:47And then you would realize, "Wait a
0:49minute. So, it's not about the flowers.
0:50It's not about opening the car door.
0:51It's not about sitting on FaceTime. It's
0:52not about, you know, doing everything
0:54the way she wants me to do it. It's
0:55actually about me just focusing on
0:56myself because when I focus on myself,
0:58she focuses on me. When I focus on her,
1:00she doesn't focus on me. She focuses on
1:01another dude." Then you go, "Wait a
1:03minute. So, she doesn't want flowers."
1:04So, now you don't want to give her
1:05flowers anymore. You guys always come to
1:07me and tell this to me.
1:08You always say this to me, "Oh, but what
1:10if I do want to give her flowers cuz I'm
1:11a caring guy?" That but that's not
1:13showing that you care.
1:14That's not showing that you care. If you
1:15want If you really cared and you wanted
1:17to show that you would you care, what
1:18you would do is you would go out there
1:20and create a life that nobody else can
1:21give her.
1:22That has nothing to do with giving her
1:23flowers. Any man can give her flowers.
1:26You think you're special? You ain't
1:27special. And the only reason you're
1:29giving her flowers, and the only reason
1:31why you're doing all these things, and
1:32you're bowing down to her, and you're
1:33changing your life, morphing your own
1:35life to her, like you are literally
1:37changing all of your standards, all of
1:39the things, all your priorities, you're
1:40bending them for her. Why? Cuz you're
1:42operating out of out of fear. You're
1:44afraid to lose her.
1:46So, you're doing what you think is
1:47attractive even though it isn't
1:48attractive. So, it's a double negative.
1:50You're going to lose her, and you are
1:51lowering attraction through trying to be
1:53nice. Oh, you're such a good boyfriend.
1:54You ain't a good boyfriend. You're
1:56You're a nobody.
1:57You're a loser. You don't understand how
1:59the game works and if you continue doing
2:00what you're doing right now, it'll never
2:02work out for you. I guarantee you, if
2:03you are this man that I am describing
2:05right now, it will end. Remember, I said
2:07it here first. Before any of your
2:09buddies told you this, before your
2:10father told you this, before your mother
2:12told you this, before she told you this,
2:13I'm here saying it first, it's going to
2:15end, guaranteed. You might even make it
2:17to the marriage, okay? And it'll still
2:19end. And that's even worse because now
2:21she's taken half of your life with her.
2:24And this is what men fail to understand.
2:25Then by the time they get it, it's too
2:27late.
2:28And I have guys coming to me, okay? That
2:31have gone through my mentorship. I have
2:33guys coming to me that I work on work
2:35one-on-one with. Guys who have been
2:37through a divorce. Guys who have been
2:39through a marriage multiple times and
2:41been divorced multiple times. And these
2:42guys tell me, "I wish I knew what you
2:44taught me before all this."
2:47Because let me tell you, there is
2:49nothing more valuable than this. Your
2:50entire life changes. You go, "You know
2:52what? You're telling me Marcus, you're
2:54telling me that women
2:56to attract them, all it is is focusing
2:58your life away from women? I am
3:00explaining women to you
3:02not for you to spend more time thinking
3:05about women, but for you to understand
3:06that not thinking about women is how you
3:08attract women. Not focusing on your
3:10girlfriend is how you keep attraction
3:13high. That's it. It's that simple.
3:16And you guys are too afraid to
3:17understand the truth. You're too afraid
3:19to accept the truth.
3:21Cuz maybe it doesn't make sense, but the
3:23thing is you're so afraid
3:25that maybe society and all these other
3:27people are right and Marcus is wrong,
3:29even though I ain't.
3:31That what if I lose her if I don't do
3:32what she's asking me to do, right? Cuz
3:33that's logical.
3:35And you as a man, you think logically,
3:36you go, "Well, she wants flowers, so I
3:38must have to give her the flowers." But
3:39that's just the wrong way of thinking.
3:40I'll tell you why because guess what?
3:43You know what attraction is based off
3:44of? You know what attraction is built
3:46for? It's built
3:48to do one thing and one thing only,
3:50ensure that the woman finds the best
3:52partner.
3:53It Same way for you. It It is literally
3:56built for you to find the best woman.
3:58Attraction
4:00is literally optimizing the survival of
4:02her DNA.
4:03She cannot optimize the survival of her
4:05DNA from you giving her flowers or from
4:08you sitting on FaceTime or from you
4:09being her best friend. That doesn't help
4:11her in any way.
4:12Because let me tell you, if you're a
4:13broke dude,
4:14if you're a guy with no purpose, if
4:16you're a guy who's emotionally weak,
4:18all of those things, all of that care,
4:20all those flowers, irrelevant to her
4:22survival. Therefore, it is impossible
4:24for her to be attracted to it.
4:25Impossible. There is not a single man
4:28that has given a woman flowers and made
4:30it and was attractive, ever.
4:32Ever.
4:33There is nothing attractive about that
4:34at all. There is nothing attractive
4:36about you being her best friend, giving
4:38her all the time and attention in the
4:39world. There's nothing attractive about
4:40you sitting on FaceTime with her. None
4:42of these things. There's nothing
4:42attractive about you showing how much
4:44you guys trust each other and how close
4:46you are in sharing your location with
4:47her. Nothing about that is attractive.
4:50The reason why lowers lowers attraction
4:53is for a very simple reason.
4:55And it's that it shows that you have no
4:57value. See, a man with value is a man
4:59that every woman wants. A man that every
5:01woman wants is a man who has options. A
5:02man who has options is a man who has a
5:04lack of care of losing a girl. A man who
5:05has a lack of care of losing a girl
5:07would never share his location with his
5:08girlfriend.
5:09He would never buy her flowers
5:10continuously. He wouldn't sit on
5:12FaceTime because he has to do and
5:14he has to go to work and he has to build
5:15his business.
5:17That's why the only reason you're doing
5:18those things is because you're afraid to
5:20lose her. When you're afraid to lose a
5:21woman, it shows that you have no
5:22options. You know what kind of man has
5:23no options? A broke man. A man who's
5:24unsafe. A man who's emotionally weak. A
5:26man who has no no value. And a man who
5:29has no value has
5:31absolutely nothing that the woman can be
5:33attracted to.
5:35A man who has no value,
5:37okay, cuz this dating The dating game is
5:38transactional, whether you like it or
5:39not. A man who has no value cannot in
5:41any way, shape, or form
5:43create attraction
5:45at all.
5:47At all. Not even a little bit.
5:49And you guys don't understand this. You
5:51guys don't understand this. You think,
5:52"Oh, yeah, you know, if it was meant to
5:53be it would No, there's a system. And
5:56she makes this calculation every single
5:58time she sees you. Is he worth my life?
6:01Is he worth my commitment? Is he worth
6:03my loyalty? One day if a guy better than
6:05you comes along, she will cheat. I don't
6:07care how famous you are. I don't care
6:08how much money you have. I do not care.
6:11If there's a guy that comes along, and
6:13this is the thing, he might not even
6:14have as much money as you.
6:16But if he cares less than you, cares
6:17less than you to lose her, which
6:19demonstrates what? A lack of holding on
6:21to her, which demonstrate demonstrates
6:22what? Which must mean that he has a
6:24bunch of options, right? You would only
6:26be willing to let a woman go, and you
6:27would only be
6:29a man who has a You would only have a
6:31lack of fear of her disappearing from
6:32your life if you could easily replace
6:34her. If you could easily replace her,
6:35that means you have options. If you have
6:36options, that means that you have value.
6:39If you got value,
6:41you're attractive.
6:43So, that guy comes along. And maybe he
6:45doesn't make as much money as you, but
6:46he just doesn't care as much as you do.
6:49And he's just, you know, free spirited,
6:50and he's just living life, and he's so
6:52comfortable in himself, and so abundant,
6:54and everything is just great. And he
6:56doesn't care to pick at her sometimes,
6:57and he doesn't care to make fun of her,
6:59and he doesn't care to just live in the
7:00moment and say whatever the hell comes
7:02to his mind.
7:03He just doesn't care.
7:06He doesn't care to impress her, doesn't
7:07care to say the right things, he doesn't
7:09care to buy her flowers, he doesn't care
7:10to take her on the perfect date. I
7:12guarantee you, I don't care if you've
7:13known this woman for 20 years and you're
7:14married with five kids, she will cheat
7:17on you with this man.
7:20Because she makes the calculation that
7:21this man is better for her survival.
7:23Why? Because he's more emotionally
7:24stable.
7:26He doesn't care, which must mean he has
7:27options, which must mean he has value,
7:28which makes him more attractive. And
7:31he's living in the moment.
7:34He's living in the moment. Do you
7:36understand?
7:37He has no insecurities. Again,
7:39demonstrating that he has options. He
7:41can replace her easily, and she looks at
7:43him and she she goes, "If he can replace
7:45me easily and my husband can, he must be
7:47more valuable, right?"
7:49Make sense?
7:50You got to be an idiot for that not to
7:52make sense. You married the woman.
7:55And here comes a guy who maybe doesn't
7:57have as many statistics as you maxed out
7:59on the paper,
8:00but the thing is it doesn't matter cuz
8:02his resume
8:04it go she goes blind to it. Because she
8:06looks at him and she goes, "He doesn't
8:07care and my husband does. So, he must be
8:10more valuable."
8:11Because the only way the only reason why
8:13you would care about a woman
8:16is because you don't think you can do
8:17better. It's because you don't think you
8:18can find someone better.
8:20And now she looks at you and she goes,
8:21"If you can't do better than me, that
8:22means that I am the best. And this guy
8:25doesn't even want to commit to me, this
8:26other guy, right? Your competition. He
8:28doesn't even want to commit to me,
8:30which means he doesn't think I'm the
8:31best at all cuz he doesn't give me any
8:33affection. He doesn't care to dev-
8:35devote his life to me.
8:37So, he must be more valuable cuz he's
8:39got more valuable options. If you guys
8:42want to understand this further, if
8:43you're struggling with your woman right
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8:58seriously. I want people to internalize
9:00this and really understand this.
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9:06I'm going to hook you up with somebody.
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9:11to talk and we're going to figure this
9:12out and your life is never going to be
9:14the same. It's going to change for the
9:16best.