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0:00When someone starts saying mean things
0:02about you, there's a clever way to
0:04handle it. Imagine you're the conductor
0:06of an orchestra and it's your time to
0:08shine. When they finish talking, calmly
0:11ask them, "Is there anything else you
0:13want to say?" Now, two things can
0:16happen. They might keep saying hurtful
0:18things, so you ask the question again,
0:20"Anything else?" The idea is to make
0:22them admit defeat and say, "No, I'm
0:25done." Then you ask them, why did you
0:28say all those things to me? They might
0:30struggle to come up with a good excuse
0:31or feel regretful. If they act tough,
0:34you can show them you're not bothered by
0:36saying, "Why do you think I care about
0:38what you want?" That'll shut them down.
0:40But wait, there's more. Take out your
0:43phone, check the time, and walk away as
0:45if they don't matter. That's the final
0:47blow. You win. If you've listened this
0:49far, drop a 100 in the comments.