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0:00When someone starts saying mean things
0:02about you, there's a clever way to
0:04handle it. Imagine you're the conductor
0:06of an orchestra and it's your time to
0:08shine. When they finish talking, calmly
0:11ask them, is there anything else you
0:13want to say? Now, two things can happen.
0:16They might keep saying hurtful things,
0:18so you ask the question again. Anything
0:20else? The idea is to make them admit
0:23defeat and say, no, I'm done. Then you
0:26ask them, why did you say all those
0:28things to me? They might struggle to
0:30come up with a good excuse or feel
0:32regretful. If they act tough, you can
0:34show them you're not bothered by saying,
0:36"Why do you think I care about what you
0:38want?" That'll shut them down. But wait,
0:41there's more. Take out your phone, check
0:44the time, and walk away as if they don't
0:45matter. That's the final blow. You win.
0:48If you've listened this far, drop a 100
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