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0:00Well, this morning we're going to
0:01continue our study of the Gospel
0:03according to St. Luke. We're still in
0:05the seventh chapter. And today I will be
0:08reading from verse 18 through verse 35.
0:13And it will only be through the grace of
0:15God that I'll be able to cover all of
0:17that in the sermon. That remains to be
0:20seen how gracious the Lord is pleased to
0:22be.
0:24Then the disciples of John reported to
0:27him concerning all these things. And
0:30John calling two of his disciples to
0:32him, sent them to Jesus, saying,
0:35"Are you the coming one,
0:38or do we look for another?"
0:42When the men had come to him, they said,
0:43"John the Baptist has sent us to you,
0:46saying, Are you the coming one, or do we
0:48look for another?" And that very hour he
0:52cured many of infirmities, afflictions,
0:54and evil spirits,
0:56and to many blind
0:58he gave sight.
1:00Jesus answered and said to them, "Go and
1:02tell John the things you have seen and
1:04heard,
1:06that the blind see,
1:08the lame walk,
1:11the lepers are cleansed,
1:13the deaf hear, the dead are raised, the
1:17poor have the gospel preached to them.
1:21And blessed is he who is not offended
1:26because of me."
1:29When the messengers of John had
1:30departed, he began to speak to the
1:32multitudes concerning John.
1:35What did you go out into the wilderness
1:37to see?
1:39A reed shaken by the wind.
1:43What did you go out to see? A man
1:44clothed in soft garments.
1:48Indeed, those who are gorgeously apparel
1:50and live in luxury are in king's courts.
1:56And what did you go out to see? A
1:57prophet? Yes, I say to you,
2:01and more than a prophet, and this is he
2:04of whom it is written, "Behold, I send
2:07my messenger before your face, who will
2:10prepare your way before you. For I say
2:13to you, among those born of women, there
2:15is not a greater prophet than John the
2:17Baptist,
2:20but he who is least in the kingdom of
2:22God
2:24is greater than he."
2:27And when all the people heard him, even
2:29the tax collectors justified God, having
2:32been baptized with the baptism of John.
2:36But the Pharisees and lawyers rejected
2:38the will of God for themselves, not
2:40having been baptized by him.
2:44And the Lord said to, "What then shall I
2:46liken the men of this generation?
2:48What are they like?
2:50They're like children sitting in the
2:52marketplace and calling one to another,
2:55saying, "We've played the flute for you,
2:56and you did not dance. We mourned to
2:58you, and you did not weep.
3:03For John the Baptist came neither eating
3:05bread nor drinking wine, and you say he
3:07has a demon.
3:09The Son of Man has come eating and
3:11drinking, and you say, "Look, a glutton
3:13and a wine bber, a friend of tax
3:15collectors and sinners."
3:18But wisdom is justified
3:21by all her children.
3:25Again, we've had the unspeakable
3:27privilege this morning to hear a word
3:29from God himself. For this is his word
3:33superintended and inspired by God the
3:35Holy Spirit for our instruction and our
3:38edification and for our sanctification.
3:42Please receive it as such.
3:45Let's pray
3:48again. Oh Lord, we look to you as the
3:50fountain of all truth
3:53to help us understand your truth
3:57to embrace your truth,
4:00to love your truth,
4:03and to obey your truth.
4:07For we ask it in Jesus' name.
4:10Amen.
4:12When last we looked at
4:15Luke's gospel, we considered the raising
4:20from the dead of the son of the widow of
4:22Naine.
4:24And we read at the end of that episode
4:27that
4:29the people glorified God saying, "A
4:31great prophet has risen among us and God
4:33has visited his people."
4:37And as a result of this astonishing act
4:40of raising one from the dead, the
4:42reputation of Jesus swelled throughout
4:45the land and reports were carried
4:48everywhere.
4:49Obviously, one of the places
4:52where that report had been carried was
4:55to a dungeon 5 miles from the Dead Sea
5:03where John the Baptist had been
5:05incarcerated
5:07for daring to critique publicly the
5:10morality
5:11of the king. and John was languishing
5:16in prison. At the same time, the
5:19popularity of Jesus was on the rise
5:24among the populace.
5:26And obviously, John was confused. He's
5:30hearing all the great things that Jesus
5:32had done.
5:34And while Jesus is doing these great
5:36things,
5:38John
5:41is in prison.
5:44and he's wondering about this.
5:46Now, there are those commentators who
5:49assume that the reason why John the
5:52Baptist sent messengers to Jesus with
5:54the question, are you the one who is to
5:57come or should we look for another say
6:00that well John had not been shaken in
6:02his confidence? After all, he was a
6:05prophet.
6:07And he was simply having his disciples
6:10go and ask Jesus this question for their
6:13sakes to confirm their faith. For John
6:19was going to transfer the allegiance of
6:21his disciples to Jesus.
6:25But I think that's a stretch of biblical
6:28interpretation. I think we have to go
6:30with what the text says itself. It's
6:32John who asks a question and the reply
6:35that Jesus gives is not simply for the
6:37benefit of his disciples but Jesus says
6:40you go and tell John.
6:42So Jesus is obviously
6:45receiving this question as it comes from
6:47John and he gives the response
6:52to John.
6:54Why should be a strange thing for us to
6:57imagine
6:58that John might actually be having
7:00second thoughts.
7:02He had gone on public record
7:06proclaiming Jesus as the one who was to
7:08come, the lamb of God who would take
7:11away their sins. The one who would be
7:14greater than John the Baptist. The one
7:17who baptized Jesus in the River Jordan.
7:20He had made this public proclamation
7:24of the person of Jesus and whatever his
7:29personal expectations were of Jesus as
7:33of yet to this date obviously
7:37they were not fulfilled. Is it
7:40impossible for a prophet of God to go
7:43through a dark night of the soul, a time
7:46of doubt?
7:48Not if we consider the prophets of the
7:50Old Testament like Jeremiah who was
7:53clearly ready to turn in his prophets
7:55card when he had had enough of the
7:57derision heaped upon him by the people
8:01saying your word has become a reproach
8:03to me. I'm in derision daily. I will
8:07speak no more in your name.
8:09Or Elijah crying out
8:13I I alone have left. Or consider Jonah
8:20who boarded a ship to escape the
8:23responsibilities of the word of prophecy
8:26that God had given to him. We could go
8:29on for a long period of time citing
8:32examples of the real humanity of the
8:35prophets of God in the Old Testament who
8:38just like everybody else in times of
8:41distress and in times of trouble had
8:44moments of doubt and confusion.
8:50And John, every day as he languishes in
8:52this horrible dungeon,
8:55has to be wondering,
8:58"Where's Jesus?
9:01Did I make a mistake?
9:03Did I proclaim the wrong one
9:07to be the lamb of God?" And so it he
9:11can't stand it anymore the more these
9:14reports that he hears. And so finally he
9:16sends two of his disciples to Jesus to
9:19ask him tell us are you the one
9:23or we should we look for another before
9:26we look at Jesus' response of this
9:30let me just have a a word of application
9:34do you know how many millions of
9:37millions and millions of people
9:41who are on this planet today and even in
9:44our own country
9:46who were not persuaded
9:49that Jesus was the one.
9:52The whole Jewish nation is still waiting
9:54for the Messiah having rejected
9:58Jesus
10:00and being convinced that he was not the
10:03one who was to come. Every Muslim on
10:06this planet believes that Jesus
10:09ultimately was not the one who was to
10:10come. And there are others who are
10:12looking for a hero there, a heroine
10:14there,
10:16anybody that could fulfill the role of
10:19the rescuer, the deliverer, the savior
10:25who are not satisfied
10:28with Jesus. And then there are many,
10:31many millions of people who believe that
10:34Jesus was one of the ones who was to
10:37come.
10:39but by no means the only one. They will
10:44acknowledge that Jesus is one way to
10:46God,
10:48but will shrink in a horror at the
10:50suggestion that he's the only way to
10:53God.
10:55I can't think of any proclamation or
10:59profession
11:00more repugnant
11:02to a secular culture
11:05than the proclamation that there's only
11:07one way to God. And that one way is
11:11Jesus. I'm sure with the number of
11:13people that are in this room this
11:14morning, there must be many of us in
11:16this very room today
11:19who believe and have said, "Oh, I think
11:21there are many ways to God."
11:24If there are, then it's likely that
11:26Jesus isn't one of them.
11:30Because Jesus said he was the only one.
11:32And the word of God says he's the only
11:34one. The word of God says one mediator
11:38between God and man.
11:40There's only one who's given an
11:42atonement.
11:44And if you think that God is stingy and
11:47lacking in grace by restricting it to
11:51one way, you need to ask yourself the
11:53question, why is there any way?
11:56What have we done that would merit God's
12:02being moved to provide any way of
12:05salvation?
12:07But in his glorious grace,
12:11he has given to us
12:13the monogan,
12:16the only begotten of the father.
12:22And let me say this.
12:25If you're not willing to stand for that,
12:27it may very well be that you're an
12:30unregenerate person.
12:33This is where the rubber meets the road.
12:35This is where your loyalty to Christ
12:39comes to the test. Are you going to
12:42please men and bow to political
12:45correctness in a pluralistic and
12:47relativistic culture? Or are you really
12:50persuaded
12:52that Jesus Christ is God's only son?
12:57The only one to have provided atonement
12:59for our sins. The only one whom God
13:03raised from the dead. The one whom God
13:05has appointed him as judge and has
13:08appointed a day by which he will judge
13:11the whole world by Jesus. Not by
13:13Muhammad, not by Confucious,
13:16not by Gautama Buddha.
13:19Buddha's dead.
13:22Muhammad's dead.
13:24Confucious is dead.
13:26And only Jesus
13:29has been raised
13:31and elevated to the right hand of God
13:33the Father where he sits right now as
13:35the King of the Kings and the Lord of
13:37the Lords.
13:40But maybe you're thinking,
13:42"God hasn't done enough
13:45sending his son to pay the price for
13:48every sin that you've ever committed.
13:51That God hasn't done enough to raise his
13:53son for your justification
13:56and raised him as the firstborn from the
13:58dead. That because of him, if you put
14:01your trust in him, you will live forever
14:03and ever and ever without a tear,
14:06without a pain.
14:09it's not enough for you. If that's not
14:12enough,
14:14then I do suggest to you
14:17that you look for another.
14:20But such a suggestion
14:22is to suggest that you go on a fool's
14:25errand
14:27because there isn't another
14:29who can do what Jesus has done for you.
14:36And this is where you need to be able to
14:38be prepared
14:40to stand in the face of all the
14:43hostility
14:45of the world
14:47out of loyalty
14:50to your savior.
14:52Consider Polycarp in his late 80s when
14:55he was arrested
14:58and taken into the arena, the coliseum,
15:02where the lions were waiting to feast
15:04upon his body. And even the emperor did
15:08not want to be so harsh on this man in
15:12his old age. And he said, "You don't
15:15have to die, Polycarp. All you have to
15:17do is say away with the atheists,
15:21meaning the Christians,
15:23and you will live.
15:26And so he said,
15:29"For over 80 years, my Lord has
15:31sustained me.
15:33You think I'm going to deny him now, but
15:36if all you want me to say is away with
15:38the atheists, I'll do that." And he
15:39looked at the crowd, to the Romans, and
15:43he said, "Away with the atheists.
15:46if they
15:48were the atheists.
15:50Is there a polycarp in the room today?
15:55Are those here willing to say,
15:59"Yay, he is the one,
16:02the only one and the one I will die
16:05for." But the question came
16:09from John the Baptist of all people.
16:13Jesus, are you the one
16:17or should we look for another?
16:20Now, Jesus
16:22is not angry at that question.
16:25He's patient with that question. But I
16:28love the way he answers that question.
16:31Jesus said to them,
16:33"Go tell John the things that you have
16:36seen and heard.
16:38Go tell John
16:40that the blind see.
16:43The lame are walking. The lepers are
16:46cleansed.
16:48The deaf hear.
16:50The dead are raised.
16:53And don't forget to tell him this. Above
16:56all else,
16:58the poor
17:00are having the gospel
17:03preached to them.
17:07Why was it so important? The thing that
17:09would create such a marvel in the land
17:11was to see people who had been blind
17:13from their birth having their eyes open
17:15and they could see the lame leaping for
17:18joy. The deaf hearing,
17:22the dead raised.
17:26That's a big deal.
17:29He says, "You go tell John what you've
17:31seen."
17:33But don't forget to tell him, "The poor
17:36have the gospel preached to them." Why
17:39was that included?
17:42I think it's clear. It's no mystery. Is
17:45not the agenda set in Isaiah 61 for the
17:48Lord's anointed, the Messiah?
17:51Behold, the spirit of the Lord is upon
17:53me to preach good news to the poor,
17:57deliverance to the captives, and so on.
18:00The job description
18:03for the Lord's anointed, for the Messiah
18:05set forth in ancient prophecy, Jesus is
18:08saying, John, go read your Bible.
18:14Read Isaiah 61.
18:18And you'll get the answer to your
18:19question.
18:21whether you should look for somebody
18:24else because nobody else
18:28was fulfilling the prophetic
18:31description of the Messiah like Jesus.
18:36Jesus added, "And blessed is he
18:40who's not offended because of me." Don't
18:42want to leave that out.
18:45That's a very important beatitude.
18:48Why is it that professing Christians
18:52are so reluctant to say Jesus is the
18:56only way? We know how the world thinks
18:59about that. We know they can't stand to
19:01hear that. We know that that is utterly
19:04offensive to them.
19:07And so what do we do? We want to flee
19:10from the offense.
19:12And we want to say to them,"Well,
19:14Christianity is right for me, but
19:17whatever you believe, that's fine for
19:20you. You pray to your God and I'll pray
19:23to mine, and we'll all be happy together
19:27in hell."
19:29Jesus pronounced his benediction on the
19:33believer
19:34who's not offended by him.
19:38What a strange thing that our Lord would
19:41have to give a benediction on people who
19:45say they believe in him who are not
19:47offended by him.
19:50How can you be offended by your savior?
19:54How can you be offended
19:57by the incarnate word of God?
20:00People come to me all the time with
20:02things that they read in the scriptures
20:04that they don't like. And I say it's
20:06wonderful for you if you can find things
20:08in the Bible that you don't like. If
20:11when you're reading something in the
20:12Bible and you don't like it, put a big
20:15mark next to it and go through and just
20:19wait for a minute. Keep keep read
20:20through the whole Bible and every time
20:22you see something you don't like, put a
20:24mark next to it and then go back and
20:27concentrate your study on the places
20:30where you've placed the marks.
20:33Because if you want a quick way to
20:37sanctification,
20:38that's it.
20:40Because if you find something in the
20:42Bible you don't like,
20:44it means one of two things. Either A,
20:46you don't understand the text and you
20:48need to study it more thoroughly until
20:51the problem is resolved.
20:53Or B, if after you study it more
20:55thoroughly and you come to the
20:56conclusion, yes, your interpretation is
20:58what the text is and I still don't like
21:00it, then B,
21:03you have a wonderful mirror that shows
21:06you where you need to change your life.
21:10Because if you don't like what's in this
21:12word, either you're wrong or God's
21:14wrong. Any takers on which one it is?
21:21But blessed is the one
21:24who's not offended
21:27by Jesus.
21:29And now the messengers leave
21:33and Jesus has to give a commentary
21:36about the man who had just asked the
21:38question, "Are you the one to come?"
21:41You can hear Jesus saying, "It really
21:43irks me when I get questions like that.
21:45What's wrong with this John? how quick
21:48he is and vacasillating from his faith.
21:51How weak he is. What's the matter with
21:53him? No, no, no, no.
21:57What you get here is basically
22:01a hymn of praise
22:03for John the Baptist.
22:06And he said to the multitudes concerning
22:08John, "To all those people who went
22:11flooding to the Jordan River,
22:14huge crowds that thronged along the
22:16river banks that they might be baptized
22:19in the Jordan by John the Baptist." As I
22:22told you, at this point in Jewish
22:24history, John the Baptist was more
22:26famous than Jesus. And he said, "All you
22:29people who went out there to see John,
22:33what were you looking for?
22:35What did you go out there to see? Did
22:38you go out there to see a reed shaken by
22:41the wind? It reminds you of the story of
22:43after golf tournament, Lee Trevino was
22:45hitting practice balls on the practice
22:47te and a little old lady was sitting in
22:49the stands behind him watching him hit
22:52towering shot after shot. And the woman
22:54was ooing and aawing every time Trevino
22:58hit this shot until finally he couldn't
23:00stand it anymore. And he turned around
23:02to her and he said, "What did you
23:04expect, lady? Ground balls."
23:07That's what Jesus is saying. What did
23:08you expect when you went out there? Were
23:10you out there? Did you expect to find a
23:12reed
23:14shaking with every zephr, with every
23:16breeze of wind falling apart? No.
23:20You saw a towering tree
23:24filled with strength
23:28in John the Baptist.
23:30What'd you go to see? A man clothed in
23:33soft garments.
23:35H
23:38first year I was in seminary. This
23:40seminary just merged with another
23:41seminary. And the new faculty had come
23:42up with this glorious plan to create a
23:46theological university of the highest
23:48academic excellence in the world. And
23:51they thought the way to do this was to
23:52give such assignments that no mortal
23:54could succeed in. We had to write 200
23:58pages worth of term papers every
24:00semester and we were just writing to get
24:02them done. And the reading requirements
24:06were so great that nobody could possibly
24:09read all of this. And this was the
24:12attempt to show how great the school
24:15was. Well, one of the assignments that
24:18we got in a class was a 25page paper
24:21where we had to write on the image of
24:24the minister in our contemporary culture
24:28and we had to examine cartoons found in
24:31magazines, images in novels and on
24:35television and in the movies and then
24:37write an analysis of it. I said, I
24:39didn't come to seminary to study
24:41cartoons.
24:44What a silly assignment. This is more
24:47busy work. And we would sit in the back
24:49and we'd sing our little song. M I C K E
24:54Y M M O U S E. This is a Mickey Mouse
24:58assignment.
25:00Not worthy of our attention, but I had
25:03to do it.
25:05And what an awakening it was
25:09to see what the image of the minister is
25:13in the United States of America.
25:17The chief caricature of the pastor in
25:20our land is that of a wimp where there
25:25is no manliness,
25:28no strength, only weakness and
25:32hypocrisy.
25:33Watch it on television. Watch it in the
25:36movies. Watch it in the cartoons. And
25:38you will see this image communicated day
25:40after day after day after day.
25:45What did you go out to see? A cartoon
25:49in soft clothes.
25:53We're talking about John the Baptist.
25:56John the Baptist who came out of the
25:57wilderness who lived on locusts and wild
26:00hunting. The toughest man in Israel. You
26:04didn't go out to see
26:08a soft guy dressed in opulent clothes
26:12reclining
26:14on a couch. You went to see a man. You
26:18went to see
26:20a prophet.
26:22Before Pilate announced to the crowd of
26:25Jesus, "Achaho,
26:28behold the man." Jesus announced to this
26:32crowd
26:33of John the Baptist at a homo,
26:37"Behold the man. You went out to see a
26:41man."
26:43A man of God. What did you go to see? A
26:47prophet. Yes.
26:50Of course, you went out to see a
26:52prophet. That was the attraction. 400
26:55years of silence since Malachi.
26:58A prophet had not arisen in Israel. Then
27:00all of a sudden, out of nowhere, out of
27:02the traditional meeting place between
27:04God and his people, a new prophet comes
27:07proclaiming the kingdom of God and
27:09calling you to repent and to be
27:11baptized. That's what you went out to
27:13see, a prophet.
27:15And what you saw was a prophet. Yes.
27:20But more than a prophet.
27:22And then Jesus said, "This is he of whom
27:26it is written,
27:28Behold, I send
27:30my messenger
27:32before your face,
27:34who will prepare your way before you."
27:39Here the Old Testament prophets
27:42not only prophesy
27:44about the coming Messiah,
27:47but they prophesy about the prophet who
27:50will be the herald of the Messiah.
27:53So John himself is not just a prophet,
27:57he's the subject of prophecy and the
27:59object of prophecy.
28:02He was himself prophesied
28:05by the Old Testament prophets. Jesus
28:07said, "He's a prophet." Yes. But he's
28:08more than a prophet.
28:10He's the prophet, the herald of the
28:13Messiah,
28:15the one who would usher in the messianic
28:19era.
28:21And then Jesus gives this astonishing
28:24comment.
28:25For I say to you,
28:28among those born of women,
28:31there's not a greater prophet
28:34than John the Baptist.
28:37I often fool my students in the seminary
28:40when I say, "Who's the greatest prophet
28:41in the Old Testament?" And they'll say,
28:43"Well, it was Jeremiah or Isaiah or
28:46Ezekiel or Daniel or Amos or Moses." I
28:50said, "No, greatest prophet
28:53is John the Baptist." They said, "Well,
28:55John the Baptist is in the New
28:56Testament, not in the Old Testament." I
28:58said, "We read about him in the New
28:59Testament, but this is still the period
29:01of the Old Testament. The New Testament
29:03hasn't started yet." So, John the
29:05Baptist still belongs in terms of
29:07redemptive history to the Old Covenant.
29:10And Jesus said, "Of all of the prophets,
29:13there's none greater than John."
29:16That's easy enough to handle. But
29:20he who is least in the kingdom of God
29:24is greater than he.
29:26What?
29:28How in the world can we understand that?
29:31There's only one way I know of
29:34and that's to wait till next Sunday
29:38because I told you I wasn't going to get
29:40through this whole text. We'll have to
29:42leave the answer to that and the rest,
29:44God willing, for next week. Let's pray.
29:49Father, how we thank you for the
29:51testimony of John to Jesus
29:55and the testimony of Jesus
29:58to John.
30:00Help us, oh God, even in our afflictions
30:04to look no further
30:07than your only begotten son, in whose
30:10name we pray.
30:12Amen.
30:28In our last session in our study of the
30:30trinity, we looked at the difference
30:31between contradictions and mysteries
30:35uh with specific reference to the
30:38formula for the trinity that has
30:40developed in church history. We saw the
30:42importance of precision in language that
30:46we capture the content of scripture
30:50itself. And in this final lecture, I
30:53want to look at some of the terms that
30:56are used historically to articulate our
31:00confession of the trinity. Before I do
31:03that, let me turn your attention briefly
31:06to the very first chapter of the letter
31:09to the Hebrews in the New Testament
31:13where we read these words in verse one.
31:16God who at various times
31:19and in various ways spoke in time past
31:22to the fathers by the prophets
31:26has in these last days
31:29spoken to us by his son. Here we have
31:33Christ referred to again as the son of
31:35God whom he has appointed heir of all
31:38things through whom also he made the
31:42world. He's the agent of creation
31:45who being the brightness of his glory
31:49and the express image of his person and
31:52upholding all things by the word of his
31:55power. when he had by himself purged our
31:58sins, sat down at the right hand of the
32:00majesty on high, having become so much
32:02better than the angels, as he has by
32:05inheritance obtained a more excellent
32:07name than they. Obviously, the
32:10christologology that we find in the book
32:12of Hebrews is is exceedingly high and
32:15one of the reasons why the early church
32:17was uh inclined to affirm the deity of
32:20Christ. But here we have this
32:22interesting concept where the son of God
32:26is seen as the brightness of the glory
32:30of God which is a reference to his deity
32:34and the express image
32:37of his that is the father's person.
32:42And so I just want us to see here that
32:44the son of god
32:47is distinguished from the father in
32:51terms of the idea of personhood.
32:55It is the father's person who is
32:59expressed in the person of the son. So
33:04even though we have the distinction
33:06between father and son, we also have
33:09here that idea of a personal distinction
33:16uh in the godhead. Now, one of the
33:18problems that we have admittedly
33:21in with the language of our expression
33:25of the trinity is that when the early
33:28church used the term person
33:31to distinguish the father, son, and holy
33:33ghost from each other,
33:36the term person was used in somewhat in
33:41a somewhat different manner from how the
33:44term person is used in our culture
33:48today. And that's always a problem with
33:51language because language tends to uh be
33:55dynamic that it changes its little
33:57nuances from one generation to the next.
34:00In Elizabeth, in Elizabeth and English,
34:02if you called a girl cute, you insulted
34:06her because cute meant bow-legged where
34:09today it means something quite different
34:12from that. And that's the way language
34:14has a tendency to change over time. It
34:18was the church father Tertilian
34:21who had a background not only in
34:24theology but also in law in legal
34:28studies and in the legal field who
34:31introduced the Latin term
34:35persona
34:38in an attempt to uh express the logos
34:43christologology of the time. And there
34:47were basically two references to the
34:49concept of persona in antiquity in the
34:53Latin language. And it was this. First
34:56of all, in legal terms, a person's
35:00estate or a person's ownings and
35:05possessions were part of the persona of
35:09the individual. And so in that sense the
35:12term persona had a legal
35:16uh reference point at least to
35:19Tertillian.
35:21Also in antiquity the term persona
35:25translated into the Latin from the Greek
35:28concept of the uh drama of the period.
35:34The way uh drama was carried out was
35:38that sometimes the actors on the stage
35:42had multiple roles or multiple uh parts
35:47in the play. The same actor having more
35:49than one part. And when a actor was
35:53changing his role
35:56during the play, he would put a
35:59different mask in front of his face and
36:02he would speak through that mask because
36:06the mask indicated the role that he was
36:10playing at the time. You've seen the
36:12symbolism of Greek drama where you have
36:14the twin masks, one of them frowning,
36:17which goes back to uh the dramatic
36:20tragedy, and the other one with a big
36:23smile that represents comedy. Well,
36:26those masks that were used on stage by
36:30actors who had multiple roles were
36:33called persona.
36:35I saw that done once in my life uh many
36:39years ago. One of the biggest hit plays
36:41on Broadway was a modern version of the
36:45biblical book of Job and it was entitled
36:48simply JB
36:51and Basil Wthbone of Sherlock Holmes
36:54fame and and Sheriff of Nottingham fame
36:57from the old Robin Hood series. Basil
37:00Wthbone played both the role of God and
37:05the role of Satan in that Broadway
37:08production. In fact, when I saw it, I
37:10was fortunate enough to sit literally
37:13front row center. And Wthbone would
37:16stand right at the front end of the
37:17stage. He wasn't 5t away from me during
37:20the production of that play. And he had
37:22these two masks. And when he was
37:24articulating the role of God, he would
37:26put one mask in front of his face and
37:28speak through it. And when he was
37:29articulating the role of Satan, he would
37:32take the other mask and speak through
37:33that. And that was a throwback to
37:36antiquity when these masks were used to
37:40indicate different roles or different
37:44persons. That's why they were called in
37:48the plural persona.
37:51Now that's the original concept that
37:53Tertilian introduces into church
37:55history. But as the church developed
37:59over the first four or five centuries,
38:02the concept of person became more
38:06specified than that. And the Greek word
38:11uh was the word that was used was the
38:15word hoopostois or we call it in English
38:19hypothatic.
38:21the hypostatic union
38:26and the word hoopostosis
38:29also has a certain significance in the
38:33Greek language and it's also has a a
38:35role in modern science for some of you
38:37who are inclined to understand how it's
38:40used there but to understand the
38:43hypothatic union I want us to review a
38:46couple of basic concepts that we have in
38:49our language and in our vocabulary
38:52specifically three words that we're all
38:56familiar with. But these three words are
39:00very important when it comes to
39:02understanding the Christian doctrine of
39:04the trinity. Those three words are first
39:07of all essence,
39:11second of all existence,
39:17and third of all subsistence.
39:24Now you've all heard those three words
39:26at one time or another in your lifetime.
39:29Essence,
39:30existence, and subsistence.
39:34And to understand the import of these
39:37concepts, we have to go back a little
39:40bit into Greek thinking and Greek
39:42philosophy where we've already seen that
39:46with respect to the term homoonios
39:50at Homoios
39:52at Nika and so on that the term usios
39:58is the present participle of the Greek
40:01verb to be. And so we would translate
40:05that term usios into English by the word
40:10being.
40:12or
40:14synonyms for the Greek concept of being
40:18would include words like substance,
40:23essence,
40:26and the simplest more crude definition
40:29of Usios is simply stuff. And if you go
40:35to the ancient philosophers who sought
40:38for ultimate reality, who were involved
40:40in the task of what we call metaphysics
40:44or that fus or physics that it goes
40:47above and beyond what we perceive in
40:50this world, they were looking for
40:52ultimate reality, that which does not
40:55manifest change.
40:58They were looking for the substance or
41:00the essence of things.
41:03And that was called the usios or as I
41:08said the essence or substance. Plato
41:11made a very important distinction
41:13between being
41:16and becoming.
41:18And again this distinction was rooted in
41:21what we call prescratic philosophy in
41:24the philosophers before Socrates. Those
41:28of you who have looked at our course on
41:30the consequence of ideas which gives us
41:32an overview of the history of philosophy
41:33would be familiar with this. I mentioned
41:35that two previous philosophers to Plato
41:39were locked in conflict about the role
41:41of being and becoming in reality.
41:45Parmenities
41:46uh who was considered the most brilliant
41:49prescratic philosopher about which about
41:52whom almost nothing survives to this day
41:55is famous for his statement that he made
41:57on one occasion. Whatever is
42:04because if something is constantly
42:06changing,
42:08can we ever really say what it is?
42:12Because as soon as you think you've
42:13described what it is, it's not that
42:15anymore. It's changed. And he's saying
42:18for anything to be real. Ultimately, it
42:22has to be in a state of being. There has
42:25to be a real essence or substance to it.
42:28Otherwise, it would just be a fig newton
42:31of our imaginations.
42:33All right? So Plato made this
42:35distinction between uh being and
42:37becoming because permenities said things
42:40are whatever is is and his counterpart
42:43was Heracitis. Some call him the father
42:45of modern existentialism. Heracitis said
42:48no whatever is is changing.
42:53All things are in a state of flux. The
42:56only thing that's constant is change
42:59itself. And he said, "You can't step
43:00into the same river twice because by the
43:02time you take your second step, the
43:04river has moved on and it's not the same
43:06river that you stepped in the first
43:08time. In fact, you're not the same
43:09person because you've changed, if only
43:11by being a few seconds older."
43:14And so he says, "What what is most basic
43:17to all the reality that we perceive in
43:20this world is that whatever else we see,
43:22even if it's a rock, it's in a process
43:24of change. It's in a process of
43:27becoming."
43:28But you see Plato was saying nothing can
43:30become something unless it participates
43:32in some way in being. Because if it were
43:36totally becoming, and this is the way
43:38Aristotle said, if it were totally
43:40becoming, it would be only potentially
43:43something.
43:44And something that is pure becoming
43:46would be potentially anything but
43:49actually
43:50nothing.
43:52And that's why Aristotle as well as
43:54Plato argued that for becoming to be
43:57meaningful there has to be some prior
44:00being. And in being there's no
44:02potentiality.
44:04God is pure being. He's pure actuality.
44:08No no no potential in him. But in any
44:12case, when they were discussing the
44:14difference between being and becoming,
44:17they used they were speaking here of the
44:19difference between essence, which is the
44:21being element of something, the
44:23substance of it. And
44:27and if we want to talk about the
44:29becoming dimension
44:32in philosophical terms, the key word
44:35that has been used historically is the
44:36second one, existence.
44:39I once gave a gave a lecture
44:42at one of our conferences where I
44:46publicly denied the existence of God. I
44:50said, I want to emphatically affirm
44:52today that God does not exist. In fact,
44:57if he did exist, I would stop believing
45:00in him. Now, if ever anything sounded
45:02like a nonsense statement, it was that.
45:05But what I meant by that when I said God
45:08does not exist, I said that God is not
45:10in a state of becoming. He's in a state
45:13of pure being. If he were in a state of
45:16existence, he would be undergoing
45:18mutations. He would be changing. He
45:21would not be immutable. He would not be
45:24the god that we believe in. Now when uh
45:28when Plato for example was dealing with
45:31these concepts
45:34there were basically three categories
45:37there was being
45:40becoming
45:43and non-being.
45:47And non-being of course is a synonym for
45:52nothing.
45:53And what is nothing?
45:57Well, to ask that question is to answer
45:59it. Because if I say nothing is
46:02something, I'm attributing something
46:05about nothing. I'm saying that nothing
46:07has some content to it. Nothing has some
46:10being to it. And if it has some being to
46:12it, then it's not nothing. It's
46:15something. So, one of the most difficult
46:17concepts we have in philosophy to ever
46:19deal with is the concept of nothingness.
46:22Pure nothingness. Try to think about
46:24pure nothing. You can't do it. I mean,
46:26Jonathan Edwards defined nothingness as
46:29what sleeping rocks dream of.
46:32The closest thing I ever came to a
46:34definition of nothingness was when my
46:36son was in junior high. And he'd come
46:38home from school every day. I'd say,
46:40"What'd you do in school today?" And
46:41he'd say, "Nothing."
46:43So, I would define nothing as what my
46:46what my son did in school every day.
46:49It's impossible to do nothing. If you're
46:52doing you're doing something. So what
46:57what Plato was getting at was that human
47:01existence or that realm of becoming
47:07exists or is somewhere between being and
47:12non-being. You notice that I started to
47:14say exists and then I said change it to
47:16is. There's no way. I mean people who
47:18object to the use of Greek categories in
47:21Christian thought I challenge them try
47:23to speak for two minutes without using
47:26some form of the verb to be. See how
47:29long you can be articulate and
47:30communicate anything without falling
47:33back on some category of being or
47:36existence. It's absolutely essential to
47:38our language and to all communications.
47:41So in any case
47:44uh the the etmological derivation of the
47:49word existence is that it comes from the
47:51prefix in Latin X which means
47:55out of and the and the uh root cister
47:59the verb which means to stand.
48:04So literally
48:06to exist means to stand out of
48:09something. No, that doesn't mean that if
48:11you exist that you're outstanding.
48:14Don't come don't come to that
48:16conclusion. What it means is that it is
48:19it is describing a position or a
48:22posture. And the idea if I could if I
48:25could try some artwork here is uh let's
48:30say that this person is a stick figure.
48:36Okay. And that stick figure has one foot
48:41in being
48:44and the other foot
48:46in non-being.
48:50So that he is standing out of being but
48:53he's also standing out of non-being.
48:57And so he's in that position between
48:59pure being. He's not pure being but at
49:03the same time we're not nothing. We have
49:07reality attributed to us and so we stand
49:10out of being and we stand out of
49:13non-being and therefore we are in a
49:15state of existence. Now when
49:19uh the church historically articulated
49:22the doctrine of the trinity it did not
49:25say one in essence three in existences
49:28did not say one in essence uh they did
49:32say three in person but what is meant by
49:35the personal distinction in the trinity
49:37is not so much three distinct existences
49:41but rather the term that is used is the
49:44term subsistence
49:47And subsistence is just the Latin
49:49equivalent equivalent to the Greek
49:52concept of hypostosis
49:54because both of them mean basically the
49:57same thing linguistically and
49:59etmologically.
50:01You hear the term subsistence frequently
50:04used in our culture, in our language
50:07with respect to people who are
50:09povertystricken,
50:11who are extremely
50:13uh needy, who are barely surviving,
50:16eking out uh what we call a subsistence
50:20level of life, almost like they're lower
50:26than existing. Now the reason for that
50:30use of the term is again instead of the
50:33prefix x like we have in the word
50:37existence we have the prefix sub with
50:42the same root and the prefix sub means
50:46>> below
50:47>> below or under.
50:50And so again if we go to that Greek
50:53concept of hypoatic union hooposttois
50:57means in Greek standing beneath or
51:01standing under. So the two words
51:04hoopistasis or hypothatic and
51:07subsistence mean linguistically the same
51:10thing and both of them deal with this
51:14same root that we find in existence the
51:17root to stand.
51:19So in this case what the church has said
51:22is that in God there is one essence
51:26but three subsistences.
51:31All right? There are three persona that
51:34is who stand under
51:37the essence. They're part of the
51:40essence. They are they are all of the
51:42same essence. But we are making a
51:44distinction that I said before that is
51:47not essential. There's not an essential
51:51difference between the father and the
51:53son and the holy spirit because all
51:55three have the essence of deity.
51:59Nevertheless,
52:01there are true
52:05peculiar attributes of each of the
52:08member of the Godhead that by which we
52:11distinguish one from another. We say the
52:14father is God, the son is God, and the
52:16holy spirit is God. But we don't say
52:19that the father is the son and the son
52:22is the holy spirit or that the holy
52:24spirit is the father. We don't do that
52:27because we make these real distinctions.
52:30They are real but they do not disturb
52:33the essence of deity. So the
52:36distinctions within the godhead are if
52:39you will subdistinctions
52:43within the essence subpoints within the
52:47singular being of God. one essence,
52:52three subsistences,
52:55and that's really about as close as we
52:57can get to articulating
53:01uh the historic doctrine of the Trinity.
53:12Last week, we ended our study of the
53:15book of Acts being suspended by Luke's
53:19not giving us the final resolution to
53:23the life of the Apostle Paul. And today,
53:26I promise for you an epilogue to sort of
53:29fill in the gap between the end of the
53:32book of Acts and the end of the life of
53:35the apostle. So, with that in mind, I'm
53:38going to turn this morning to Paul's
53:41last letter that he wrote, his second
53:44epistle to Timothy, to the last chapter
53:47of that book in chapter 4, beginning in
53:51verse 6.
53:54For I'm already being poured out as a
53:57drink offering,
53:59and the time of my departure is at hand.
54:04I fought the good fight.
54:07I have finished the race.
54:10I have kept the faith.
54:13And finally, there is laid up for me the
54:16crown of righteousness,
54:18which the Lord, the righteous judge,
54:20will give to me on that day. And not to
54:23me only,
54:25but to all who have loved his appearing.
54:30Be diligent to come to me quickly.
54:33For Deus has forsaken me, having loved
54:35this present world, and has departed for
54:38Thessalonica,
54:40cresence for Galatia, Titus for Dalatia,
54:44and only Luke is with me. Get Mark and
54:49bring him with you, for he is useful to
54:52me for ministry.
54:54And Taekus I've sent to Ephesus.
54:58Bring the cloak that I left with Carpass
55:00at Trrowaz when you come and the books,
55:04especially the parchments.
55:08Alexander the copper smith did me much
55:10harm.
55:12May the Lord repay him according to his
55:13works. You also must beware of him, for
55:17he has greatly resisted our words.
55:21At my first offense, no one stood with
55:23me, but all forsook me. May it not be
55:26charged against them.
55:30But the Lord stood with me
55:33and strengthened me so that the message
55:36might be preached fully through me and
55:38that all the Gentiles might hear.
55:41And also I was delivered out of the
55:42mouth of the lion. And the Lord will
55:44deliver me from every evil work and
55:47preserve me for his heavenly kingdom.
55:50To him be glory
55:53forever
55:55and ever.
55:57Amen.
55:59Greet Prisa and Aquilla.
56:02The household of Anespherus
56:05Arasa stayed in Corinth. Petrrophamus I
56:07have left in my sick. Do your utmost
56:12to come before winter.
56:15Ubulus greet you as well as Putin's,
56:18Lionus, Claudia,
56:20all the brethren.
56:23The Lord Jesus Christ
56:26be with your spirit.
56:28Grace be with you.
56:33Amen.
56:35He who has ears to hear the word of God,
56:38let them hear.
56:40We thank you, oh God,
56:44for these final words
56:48of your anointed one.
56:51and the way that you have used them
56:53beyond that hour
56:56of his imminent demise,
56:59but have used these words across the
57:01ages to give comfort, encouragement, and
57:05inspiration
57:08to all of your people.
57:11May that be so again this morning.
57:15For we ask it in Jesus' name.
57:19Amen.
57:22First time I went to Rome, I went with a
57:24group that I was leading in a tour and
57:28we had professional tour guides of the
57:30city and they asked me in advance what
57:33itinerary we would like to follow when
57:36we got to that city. They suggested the
57:40coliseum and the ruins of the various
57:44temples and the Roman forum and the
57:47Vatican and St. Peter's Basilica and all
57:50of those famous sites of Rome. And I
57:53said, "Well, the first place I want to
57:55see, the most important place I want to
57:57go is to the Lateran Church." And that
57:59shocked the agent because they said,
58:01"Why would you go to the Lateran Church?
58:03It's it's where the Holy Sea used to be,
58:07but the Lateran Church was replaced by
58:09St. Peter's as the Basilica for the
58:13reigning pontiff."
58:15I said, 'I want to go to the Lan church
58:18because that's where the sacred stairs
58:20are that Martin Luther visited in 1511
58:24and had his crisis experience when he
58:27joined all the pilgrims there going up
58:29the sacred stairs on his knees saying
58:32prayers on each step so that he might
58:35win indulgences
58:37for his soul and for the souls of his
58:39departed relatives.
58:42And when he got to the top of those
58:44stairs, he stood up and he said out
58:46loud,
58:48"Who knows
58:51if this is true?"
58:54And the seeds of disquitude began to
58:57assail his soul from that experience
59:00until he was awakened to the gospel of
59:03justification by faith alone and the
59:07reformation was underway.
59:10But there was a bonus in that trip.
59:12Serendipity. Something that I didn't
59:14expect. When the tour guide took us on
59:16our way to the forum to one little stop
59:19where we went down into what had been
59:22originally used as a place to gather
59:26water, a system carved out of solid
59:30rock. And it was a chamber about 15 ft
59:33wide and 15 ft deep and about 8 ft high.
59:38And this cavern was cold, dark, wet, and
59:44dank. I said, 'W what's this? They said,
59:48'Well, this is the Mamortine prison
59:52where the Apostle Paul
59:56was held captive
59:58when he was waiting
1:00:00execution. From the steps of that
1:00:03prison, one can look across the street
1:00:05and see the ruins of the forum where the
1:00:09Romans legislated their law and carried
1:00:12out their law. And it says, "A man in
1:00:15prison looks out the window of his cell
1:00:17and can see the scaffold for his hanging
1:00:20being built." So the Apostle Paul
1:00:24awaited
1:00:26his last moments when his head would be
1:00:29placed upon the executioner's
1:00:33block.
1:00:35And I don't know, none of us knows how
1:00:39long Paul was held prisoner in that
1:00:45system.
1:00:47Was it for several months? Was it for
1:00:49several weeks? We don't know. But as I
1:00:52stepped down into that place, all I
1:00:54could imagine was Paul there in that
1:00:57dank, desperate place
1:01:01writing his final letter
1:01:04to Timothy.
1:01:07It was spooky. It was like being it was
1:01:08haunted almost. I mean, to stand there
1:01:10and think this is where it happened.
1:01:12This is where Paul wrote to his beloved
1:01:15disciple and gave his last words. And he
1:01:18writes to Timothy these poignant words.
1:01:22Timothy, I'm already
1:01:26being poured out
1:01:29as a drink offering.
1:01:32He makes this reference to the Old
1:01:34Testament to the Old Testament sacrifice
1:01:37system that when the animals were
1:01:40offered in that sacrifice,
1:01:44they received an oblation, a pouring out
1:01:48of blood on the altar that would
1:01:51accompany the sacrifice.
1:01:54Now, if anybody in history understood
1:01:56that the sacrifice of Christ was a
1:01:59perfect sacrifice offered once for all
1:02:01and that Paul couldn't possibly add
1:02:04anything of merit or value to that
1:02:07perfect sacrifice of Jesus given once
1:02:10for all. Nevertheless, he was acutely
1:02:12aware
1:02:13that it is every Christian's task
1:02:17to bear witness to the perfect sacrifice
1:02:20of Christ by offering to Christ the
1:02:24sacrifice of our own lives.
1:02:27Remember
1:02:29at the end of Romans after spelling out
1:02:31the doctrines of the gospel, Paul says,
1:02:34"Therefore, my beloved brethren, I
1:02:36beseech you by the mercies of God to
1:02:39present your bodies as a living
1:02:41sacrifice unto him,
1:02:45which is your reasonable service, which
1:02:49is your reasonable act of worship." And
1:02:54so, Timothy,
1:02:55already
1:02:58I'm being poured out
1:03:01as an oblation
1:03:04to honor my Lord.
1:03:10And then he says,
1:03:13"For the time of my departure
1:03:18is at hand."
1:03:20That means it's very very close. Now I
1:03:25love the reformation study Bible. It's
1:03:28one of my works that I took great joy in
1:03:32helping with. I was responsible. Okay.
1:03:35Every note and then here in second
1:03:37Timothy when we look at this where he
1:03:38says about his det departure the
1:03:41particular author here writes this
1:03:44another metaphor for death.
1:03:46Now, if that's all the note would have
1:03:48said, I would have exed it out. But it
1:03:50goes on and says, "Paul held steadfastly
1:03:52to the hope and assurance of a
1:03:53destination beyond the grave."
1:03:56Because Paul does not say, "My death is
1:03:58at hand."
1:04:00He doesn't say to Timothy, "I'm about to
1:04:02perish."
1:04:04He doesn't say, "It's time for me,
1:04:06Timothy, to be killed."
1:04:09I prefer this English translation where
1:04:12it says for my departure
1:04:15is at hand. It's interesting if you go
1:04:19into the sources the Greek here is
1:04:22somewhat strange because the word that
1:04:23is translated for departure is the word
1:04:27analoosis which we get the English word
1:04:29directly from it analysis.
1:04:33So a more literal translation may be
1:04:35this that Paul says, "I'm already being
1:04:38poured out and the time of my analysis
1:04:42is near." But if he wrote that today,
1:04:44somebody think that he had an
1:04:45appointment with his psychiatrist
1:04:47or with his tax attorney to analyze his
1:04:52financial situation, but rather the term
1:04:55analysis in English when it was first
1:04:58coined was closer to the original
1:05:00meaning in Greek to analyze something
1:05:03was to parse it to make close careful
1:05:07distinctions
1:05:09as you separated one apart from another.
1:05:14And what Paul is saying is not that I'm
1:05:16going to die or that my personal
1:05:18existence is going to stop, but in a
1:05:23very short time,
1:05:26my body is going to be separated
1:05:30from my soul.
1:05:33I will still be alive. And in my soul, I
1:05:36will enter in to the presence of Christ.
1:05:39though my body will be put into a grave.
1:05:45The Latin source here is the word from
1:05:49which we get the word dissolution or
1:05:51even better resolution.
1:05:54So we could translate it this way that
1:05:56Paul says, "For the time of my
1:05:59resolution
1:06:01is near at hand."
1:06:04Now again, he's not saying, "I'm about
1:06:06to be killed on New Year's Eve so I can
1:06:10make a resolution." That's not the kind
1:06:12of resolution he's talking about. He's
1:06:15talking about resolving tension,
1:06:20resolving
1:06:22conflict.
1:06:24Those of you who love music know what
1:06:27it's like when the music gets away from
1:06:30the tonic foundation and you begin to
1:06:33experience the tension of dissonance and
1:06:37your ear is crying that the music be
1:06:42resolved.
1:06:44And the great musicians know how to
1:06:47resolve that tension by bringing the
1:06:50melody back home. if you will. And
1:06:54that's what Paul is saying is my whole
1:06:57life
1:06:58has been a life of stress.
1:07:01My whole life has been a life of
1:07:03tension. Haven't we didn't we read that
1:07:05week after week in the chronicle
1:07:07provided for us by Luke, which instead
1:07:10of the Acts of the Apostle could have
1:07:11been reading the tensions and distress
1:07:14of the life of Paul.
1:07:17But he said, "That's all done.
1:07:22The time of my resolution
1:07:25is at hand. Every problem that I've ever
1:07:29had, every pain I've ever felt
1:07:33will shortly
1:07:36be resolved.
1:07:38So Paul is not writing in a vein where
1:07:41his soul is discouraged or cast down.
1:07:44He's saying, Timothy, I'm ready to go
1:07:48home.
1:07:51I'm already beginning the oblation
1:07:56of the final sacrifice.
1:07:59You see, Paul died
1:08:01a martyr.
1:08:03And again, there's that one little quirk
1:08:06of the English language. The word martyr
1:08:08comes from the Greek word marteria. But
1:08:11the word martyr in Greek does not mean
1:08:13martyr. You know what it means? Witness.
1:08:17And the reason why we get that word
1:08:19martyr in our English is because the
1:08:20early church showed their witness so
1:08:24consistently that often their witness
1:08:27ended in their death. And so the word
1:08:32martyrdom which originally was
1:08:35synonymous with witnessing has now come
1:08:37to mean those who witness to the
1:08:40ultimate degree of paying with their
1:08:43lives. And now Paul borrows three
1:08:46metaphors to describe that witness that
1:08:50is about to be resolved
1:08:55where he said,
1:08:57"I have fought the good fight.
1:09:01I have finished the race.
1:09:04I've kept the faith."
1:09:07I've told you before that the experience
1:09:10I had as a 17-year-old boy
1:09:13who watched his father die a day at a
1:09:15time. I used to drag him to the dining
1:09:18room table and then back to his bedroom
1:09:20every night.
1:09:23And then one night as I was dragging
1:09:24him, fireman carry as it were across the
1:09:27living room floor, he said to me, "Stop
1:09:30and put me down for a second on the
1:09:31sofa." And so I let him sit down and I
1:09:34sat down next to him and he looked at me
1:09:36and he said, "Son,"
1:09:39he said, "I've fought the good fight."
1:09:43He said, "I've finished the race."
1:09:47He said, "I've kept the faith." Now, you
1:09:48have to understand, I had never read the
1:09:50Bible. I wasn't a Christian. I had no
1:09:52idea where those words came from, but I
1:09:55knew exactly what my father was saying
1:09:58to me. My father was looking me in the
1:09:59eye and say, "I'm going to die now."
1:10:04Those were his last words he ever spoke
1:10:06to me.
1:10:08My last words to him, to my everlasting
1:10:11shame, were the words, "Don't say that,
1:10:14Dad."
1:10:17Not realizing
1:10:19what a tremendous testimony of
1:10:21confidence of where he was going my
1:10:23father was giving when he recited those
1:10:26words to me.
1:10:28And so I carried him back to his bed.
1:10:32That night he had his final stroke, went
1:10:34into a coma, never awoke
1:10:38again here,
1:10:43but he was awake there
1:10:46instantly.
1:10:48Can you imagine how I felt later when I
1:10:51became a Christian? I was reading the
1:10:52New Testament for the first time and I
1:10:55read those words for the first time. I
1:10:57said, "Wow,
1:11:00I can't believe it how rich those words
1:11:02are." The three-fold metaphor. First of
1:11:04all, Paul says, "I have fought the good
1:11:07fight." Doesn't that rankle you a little
1:11:09bit in terms of the contemporary idea of
1:11:12what Christianity is that Christians
1:11:14should never be engaged in combat or
1:11:16conflict of any kind? We're supposed to
1:11:19be peacekeepers. always never engaged in
1:11:22arguing or debate and so on. Well, the
1:11:24New Testament tells us we're not to be
1:11:26quarrelome. We're not to be looking for
1:11:28fights. We're not supposed to be
1:11:30belligerent or bellose in our
1:11:32personality.
1:11:36But there's a fight out there.
1:11:39There is a good fight. There is a war
1:11:41out there, a spiritual war to which
1:11:44every one of us is called to be engaged
1:11:46in. There is such a thing as a good
1:11:49fight.
1:11:53Every Christian is supposed to believe
1:11:55the things of God. Every Christian is
1:11:58supposed to defend the truths of God.
1:12:00But let me take it one step further.
1:12:03It's not enough to hold the faith or
1:12:06even to defend the faith,
1:12:09but we're called to contend
1:12:12for the faith. Was that not the example
1:12:16of the Apostle Paul that for a year or
1:12:18so we've seen Sunday in and Sunday out?
1:12:21Everywhere he went, he wasn't just
1:12:24preaching Christianity wasn't just
1:12:26defending it. He was contending for it.
1:12:30Remember one of the most famous lines in
1:12:32the history of Hollywood goes back to on
1:12:34the waterfront when Marlon Brando says
1:12:37to his brothers, "I could have been a
1:12:38contender."
1:12:41What's it take to be a contender?
1:12:43Anybody can become a professional boxer.
1:12:46Bob Hope tried it in an undistinguished
1:12:50way.
1:12:52But to be a contender, you have to win.
1:12:56And you have to win enough that you
1:12:58become ranked that you have to be
1:12:59recognized as one of the top 10 fighters
1:13:03in your weight division to even be
1:13:06thought of for a moment as a contender.
1:13:09And then you have to fight your way up
1:13:11that ladder until finally you're able to
1:13:14get a championship bout, a shot at the
1:13:18title.
1:13:21The challenger
1:13:23is not the champion
1:13:26until he defeats the champion.
1:13:29But he is a contender.
1:13:32And Paul was a contender.
1:13:35In fact, Paul was a champion
1:13:38apart from Christ, the supreme champion
1:13:42of the kingdom of God
1:13:44in that day. And he said, "I have
1:13:46fought, Timothy,
1:13:48and I have fought." It's interesting the
1:13:51way the language goes. I have fought the
1:13:52fight. Well, if you fought, you were in
1:13:54a fight. And if you were in a fight, you
1:13:55fought. And so, it's almost redundant,
1:13:58but he says, I have fought the fight.
1:13:59But he he wants to say, I have fought
1:14:02the good fight. There is a good fight
1:14:06and we are all called to be enlisted
1:14:09in that battle. Now he changes the
1:14:11metaphor from the boxer to the runner
1:14:16where he said
1:14:20I finished
1:14:22the race.
1:14:25Now the race that Paul's talking about
1:14:27here
1:14:28is not the hundredyard dash.
1:14:32It's easy in one sense to be a sprinter,
1:14:37to work like mad for the kingdom
1:14:40over the short hall.
1:14:43But Paul wasn't interested in a h
1:14:45100redyard dash. He was in a marathon.
1:14:49And he was in a marathon that went a lot
1:14:51longer than 26 miles. He went in a
1:14:54marathon that seemed like it would never
1:14:56end. His whole life he was engaged in
1:14:58that race. Just this morning I was
1:15:00talking to one of our members about
1:15:01something and they said to me, "Oh, so
1:15:03you got to be patient." I said, "I know
1:15:04that. I pray for patience all the time."
1:15:06I say, "Lord, give me patience right
1:15:09now."
1:15:10And he
1:15:13he says, "My grace is sufficient for
1:15:15you." And he says, "You got to take
1:15:17things slowly."
1:15:20I said, "You don't know me very well. I
1:15:21got two speeds, fast and off.
1:15:25There is no such thing as slow.
1:15:29But that's what it takes to be a
1:15:30marathoner,
1:15:32to endure, not to just run for a hundred
1:15:35yards. I mean, who would be proud and
1:15:39say to their grandson, "Well, son,
1:15:42once I was in a hundred yard dash,
1:15:45and you should have seen me out of the
1:15:47blocks. I was running like my shoes were
1:15:50on fire."
1:15:52But at the 40 yard mark, I dropped out.
1:15:59Who would be proud of not finishing a h
1:16:01100redyard dash? I mean, that's not very
1:16:05great. But if I came in last in a
1:16:08marathon,
1:16:09but finished it,
1:16:12I would be proud to tell that to my
1:16:15grandchildren to say, I finished the
1:16:19race.
1:16:21This is what Paul is saying to Timothy.
1:16:23Timothy, I didn't just start.
1:16:26I didn't just sprint,
1:16:30but I ran and I ran and I ran
1:16:35and I ran.
1:16:37I was gasping for air
1:16:40and I kept on running.
1:16:43My legs were burning with fire,
1:16:48but I kept moving
1:16:52for the hope
1:16:55that was in front of me.
1:16:58And now, Timothy,
1:17:01the race is over.
1:17:03I broke the tape.
1:17:06I made it the whole way.
1:17:09And that whole time, Timothy
1:17:14I've kept the faith.
1:17:17Here the illustration comes from the
1:17:19military
1:17:21because even in the ancient world as
1:17:23well as in the contemporary world the
1:17:26responsibility of every soldier
1:17:30was fidelity
1:17:32to the general
1:17:34to his country. Duty,
1:17:38honor,
1:17:40country
1:17:42means fidelity.
1:17:44And when the shooting starts, the
1:17:47faithful soldier doesn't run.
1:17:50He doesn't quit.
1:17:52He goes forward.
1:17:55And that's what Paul says about his
1:17:58life.
1:17:59Like a first century Marine, his motto
1:18:02was seerfidelis, always faithful.
1:18:07And not only that sense, but the other
1:18:09nuance
1:18:10is he was also faithful
1:18:13to the doctrine
1:18:16that the Lord gave to him.
1:18:19He didn't change his theology every time
1:18:21somebody disapproved of it.
1:18:25He didn't negotiate and compromise the
1:18:28truth
1:18:30every time somebody was angered by it.
1:18:35He said, "I stayed the course.
1:18:39I remained faithful
1:18:42to my Lord
1:18:44and to his word."
1:18:47Could anybody have a better epitth than
1:18:51that?
1:18:53And so he concludes by saying,
1:18:58"Finally,
1:19:00there is already laid up for me in the
1:19:04layaway section of heaven. It already
1:19:07has my name on it
1:19:09the crown of righteousness in the
1:19:12ancient world and the Olympic games.
1:19:14When the winner was honored in the
1:19:16winner's circle, nobody came and hung a
1:19:19gold medal around their neck or a silver
1:19:21medal or a bronze medal. Rather, the
1:19:23victor was adorned with the laurel
1:19:26wreath
1:19:28symbolizing
1:19:30the title crown in his sport.
1:19:34But now he's talking about not the world
1:19:36heavyweight crown
1:19:38or the Olympic crown.
1:19:41He's talking about the crown of
1:19:44righteousness
1:19:46that Christ has put aside
1:19:49has Paul's name on it. He said, "And now
1:19:53I am ready to receive that crown."
1:19:57Which crown of righteousness not only
1:19:59will I receive,
1:20:03but all of you
1:20:06who love his coming
1:20:09will also receive that crown of
1:20:13righteousness. So you see Timothy,
1:20:17I'm ready to go.
1:20:20And even though he mentions those who
1:20:21betray him in the rest of the closing
1:20:24lines of the letter, he ends with
1:20:26doxology where he thanks God for his
1:20:29mercy and his grace. And his final words
1:20:31to Timothy,
1:20:34grace
1:20:36be with you.
1:20:40How I would have loved to have been a
1:20:41fly in the wall
1:20:43to watch Timothy when he received that
1:20:46parchment of this letter
1:20:50and watch him as he began in chapter 1
1:20:53and reads through gets to chapter 3 and
1:20:55the exhortation about holding fast to
1:20:58scripture and then come to chapter 4
1:21:03and watch Timothy's tears rolling down
1:21:06his cheeks.
1:21:09as he sees these words that Paul was
1:21:12about to die.
1:21:15I mean, he he had to be weeping when he
1:21:18read these words. And yet at the same
1:21:21time, you could see his chest start to
1:21:23swell.
1:21:25Say, "That's my mentor.
1:21:29That's the apostle
1:21:32praying for grace for me
1:21:35and for his people.
1:21:51Well, we're going to continue this
1:21:53morning with our study of the Gospel
1:21:55according to St. Luke and also continue
1:21:59our study of the Benedictus of
1:22:02Zachcharias. We've looked at the first
1:22:05two sections of it in previous weeks and
1:22:08today we're going to look at the third
1:22:11and final section of that great hymn.
1:22:15But as I did last week and the week
1:22:17before, I will be reading the hymn in
1:22:20its entirety, beginning in verse 67 of
1:22:25chapter 1 and reading through verse 80.
1:22:32Now his father Zachcharias was filled
1:22:35with the Holy Spirit and prophesied
1:22:39saying,
1:22:40"Blessed is the Lord God of Israel,
1:22:44for he has visited and redeemed his
1:22:48people and has raised up a horn of
1:22:52salvation for us in his house of his
1:22:56servant David."
1:22:58as he spoke by the mouth of his holy
1:23:01prophets who have been since the world
1:23:03began
1:23:04that we should be saved from our enemies
1:23:07and from the hand of all who hate us.
1:23:11to perform the mercy promised to our
1:23:14fathers,
1:23:15and to remember his holy covenant, the
1:23:19oath which he swore to our father
1:23:22Abraham,
1:23:23to grant us that we, being delivered
1:23:26from the hand of our enemies,
1:23:28might serve him without fear in holiness
1:23:32and righteousness before him all the
1:23:35days of our life.
1:23:38And you child will be called the prophet
1:23:41of the highest. For you will go before
1:23:44the face of the Lord to prepare his
1:23:46ways, to give knowledge of salvation to
1:23:50his people
1:23:52by the remission of their sins through
1:23:55the tender mercy of our God, with which
1:23:59the daypring from on high has visited
1:24:03us, to give light to those who sit in
1:24:06darkness and the shadow of death, to
1:24:11guide our feet, into the way of peace.
1:24:16So the child grew and became strong in
1:24:20spirit
1:24:22and was in the deserts until the day of
1:24:25his manifestation
1:24:28to Israel. Again, I remind you that this
1:24:32song of Zachcharias was inspired by the
1:24:35Holy Ghost and its inclusion in sacred
1:24:38scripture came by the same spirit's
1:24:41superintendence and inspiration
1:24:44so that it is objectively, really, and
1:24:48eternally the very word of God whose
1:24:52truth you can rely on all of your days.
1:24:56Please receive it as such.
1:25:00Let's pray
1:25:03now. Our father, as we contemplate this
1:25:05final section of the benedictives,
1:25:10we ask that by your spirit, we might
1:25:13understand the depths and riches of the
1:25:16content in it.
1:25:19That we may embrace not only with our
1:25:21minds, but our hearts and our souls the
1:25:25good news that is declared therein.
1:25:29For we ask these things in the name of
1:25:32Jesus our Lord. Amen.
1:25:37We might say that this final section of
1:25:42the Benedictus gives to us the gospel in
1:25:46a nutshell.
1:25:49as John's father now prophesied about
1:25:53his son and about his son's ministry for
1:25:58the son of God. Let's look at it in
1:26:01verse 76.
1:26:04And you child
1:26:07will be called the prophet of the
1:26:10highest
1:26:12for you will go before the face of the
1:26:14Lord
1:26:16to prepare his ways.
1:26:22We remember from other occasions in
1:26:24looking at the ministry of John the
1:26:26Baptist
1:26:28that the work of prophecy
1:26:31had ceased after the work of Malachi,
1:26:34the last of the minor prophets of the
1:26:36Old Testament
1:26:38and the voice of prophecy was silent
1:26:43in Israel
1:26:45for 400
1:26:47years. You know, we have this tendency
1:26:50when we look at ancient history in
1:26:52general and to the history of scripture
1:26:54in particular to telescope together
1:26:58various portions and sections of time.
1:27:02We think, for example, that in the Old
1:27:05Testament, miracles happened on every
1:27:09page and prophets could be found
1:27:12appearing from behind every bush. But a
1:27:17more careful study of that shows that
1:27:20there were concentrated periods of time
1:27:23in Old Testament history when there was
1:27:26a an outbreak of miracles during the
1:27:30time of Moses, for example, who was the
1:27:34mediator of the old covenant,
1:27:36who was the giver of the law of God.
1:27:40There was this whirlwind of miraculous
1:27:44activity that took place around Moses.
1:27:47And then again, we see the outbreak of
1:27:51miracle in the ministry of Elijah who
1:27:56stands at the front of a long list of
1:28:00Old Testament prophets. But for the most
1:28:04part there was very little miraculous
1:28:07activity thereafter until the coming of
1:28:10Christ where once again there was this
1:28:14marvelous outpour of miracle heralding
1:28:19the earthly ministry of our Lord. Those
1:28:23miracles were given by God for a reason.
1:28:27To certify the law with Moses. to
1:28:30certify the prophets with Elijah and his
1:28:33successors
1:28:35and above all to attest, authenticate,
1:28:39and certify the messianic ministry of
1:28:44God's only begotten son. But here, after
1:28:50years and years of prophetic voices
1:28:53being given to the people of Israel,
1:28:55where the word of God was announced by
1:28:57Elijah and Elisha, Isaiah, Jeremiah,
1:29:01Ezekiel, Daniel, and all the rest,
1:29:05not a word from God,
1:29:09400 years.
1:29:13And so many people believed
1:29:16that the voice of prophecy
1:29:19had been silenced
1:29:21forever.
1:29:23Yet those who were students of the
1:29:25prophecy of the Old Testament knew that
1:29:28some of the future prophecy then was
1:29:31that there would come a time in the
1:29:34future where one would rise up like
1:29:36Moses for example. And again in the last
1:29:39prophecy of the last prophet in the Old
1:29:42Testament from the book of Malachi, we
1:29:45read these words.
1:29:48Remember the law of Moses, my servant,
1:29:50which I commanded him in Horeb for all
1:29:52Israel with the statutes and the
1:29:55judgments.
1:29:57Behold,
1:29:59I will send you
1:30:02Elijah
1:30:04the prophet
1:30:06before the coming of the great and
1:30:07dreadful day of the Lord. And he will
1:30:10turn the hearts of the fathers to the
1:30:12children and the hearts of the children
1:30:13to their fathers, lest I come and strike
1:30:16the earth with the curse. Beloved, that
1:30:18was the last prophecy of the Old
1:30:21Testament
1:30:23where Malachi said, "The day of the Lord
1:30:26is coming,
1:30:29but before it comes,
1:30:32I will send my prophet Elijah."
1:30:38You remember that Elijah did not die,
1:30:40but was carried up bodily into heaven to
1:30:43the chariots of fire that took him away.
1:30:47And because of this prophecy, the
1:30:49ancient Jews looked forward to the
1:30:52return of Elijah every time they
1:30:54celebrated the Passover into this very
1:30:57day.
1:30:59At the table of celebration, there is a
1:31:01chair that sits there year after year
1:31:07empty.
1:31:09No one sitting in it, no one using it.
1:31:13And if you would to go and visit some
1:31:16Jewish friends at that time, you would
1:31:17ask him, "What's with that chair?"
1:31:21They would say, "That chair is for
1:31:22Elijah."
1:31:25Because God promised that he will come
1:31:27back.
1:31:28And as we will see later on in the
1:31:30unfolding of the New Testament record
1:31:33and from the teaching of our Lord
1:31:34himself that he said of John the
1:31:36Baptist, this is Elijah
1:31:42who was to come. This is the one who
1:31:45comes in the spirit and the power
1:31:49of Elijah.
1:31:51And in this prophetic hymn of
1:31:52Zachcharias,
1:31:54he says,
1:31:56"In you, child,
1:31:59you will be called
1:32:02the prophet
1:32:04of the highest,
1:32:07the prophet of the supreme God,
1:32:12and your task will be to go before the
1:32:15face of the Lord to prepare his way."
1:32:18This is also part of the prophecy of
1:32:20Isaiah that in the future before the
1:32:23Messiah would come,
1:32:25this forerunner anointed by God to
1:32:28restore the voice of prophecy would
1:32:31appear and cry to the people, "Prepare
1:32:36the path of the Lord. Make straight his
1:32:39roads.
1:32:41Be ready
1:32:43when he comes."
1:32:45And under the inspiration of the Holy
1:32:48Ghost, Zachcharias now is prophesying
1:32:51that his son will fulfill that Old
1:32:54Testament prophecy that John will be the
1:32:57forerunner of the Messiah. And together
1:33:01with the Messiah,
1:33:04he will be given the task
1:33:06to give knowledge of salvation
1:33:09to his people
1:33:12by the remission of sins
1:33:15and through the tender mercy
1:33:18of our God.
1:33:22So what's the mission?
1:33:26It's to inform people.
1:33:30It's to give them knowledge.
1:33:34We sometimes think that the purpose of
1:33:36Jesus coming was to do miracles
1:33:40and he certainly did that to heal the
1:33:43sick and so on or his purpose to come
1:33:45was to buy our salvation through his
1:33:49atonement and that's certainly true.
1:33:52But his earthly ministry, just as
1:33:54John's, began with preaching, with
1:33:58proclamation,
1:33:59with the announcement of the gospel
1:34:02early on. It wasn't called the gospel of
1:34:04Jesus Christ. It was called the gospel
1:34:06of the kingdom of God. And he called his
1:34:10hearers to learn
1:34:14to gain knowledge.
1:34:17But he didn't set up a university and
1:34:19give courses in systematic theology. It
1:34:22was a particular kind of knowledge that
1:34:25our Lord and his predecessor
1:34:28were commissioned to give.
1:34:32It was the knowledge
1:34:36of salvation.
1:34:43Suppose a prophet would walk in this
1:34:45sanctuary this morning and
1:34:48picked you out of the congregation
1:34:52and said to you, "Tell me what you know
1:34:57about salvation.
1:34:59What is it?
1:35:01What's it all about? Is this just some
1:35:03kind of religious concept that drips
1:35:05from our lips in our pious language?"
1:35:09But what's the content
1:35:13of salvation?
1:35:15How would you answer that question?
1:35:19How confident are you at this very
1:35:22moment
1:35:23that you understand
1:35:28what salvation is
1:35:31and more importantly
1:35:35whether you possess it.
1:35:38Well, in its rudimentary meaning, the
1:35:41idea of salvation biblically indicates
1:35:44the idea of being rescued from some
1:35:48impending disaster, being spared from
1:35:52some catastrophe
1:35:55to being saved from defeat in battle or
1:35:59from a life-threatening disease.
1:36:04But those were only approximate meanings
1:36:08of salvation.
1:36:10Meanings of salvation in the lower sense
1:36:12of the word. But the ultimate meaning of
1:36:15salvation in biblical terms was to have
1:36:19and experience rescue
1:36:23not from disease, not from poverty,
1:36:26not from military defeat,
1:36:31but to be rescued
1:36:34from God.
1:36:38I've talked about this before where
1:36:40several years ago I spoke to the book
1:36:43sellers convention
1:36:45over six 7,000 books sellers and
1:36:48publishers in a convention site and they
1:36:51asked me to give the plenary address and
1:36:53I gave the message entitled saved from
1:36:57what
1:36:59and when I explained to the people there
1:37:01what salvation meant I was running the
1:37:04risk of insulting their intelligence I
1:37:06said these people are engaged in
1:37:08Christian publishing. If anybody in the
1:37:10world should have a knowledge of
1:37:11salvation, these people will have it.
1:37:15And I'm carrying coals to Newcastle here
1:37:18telling these people about salvation.
1:37:22I don't think I've ever had such a
1:37:23response in all my life as I had that
1:37:26day after I told those people that what
1:37:29we're saved from is God.
1:37:3510 years later, I still had people at
1:37:37that convention coming up to me and
1:37:38said, "I never thought about that
1:37:39before."
1:37:41How can you not think about it? Because
1:37:44the culture in which you live and even
1:37:46the church society of our day tells us
1:37:49that God saves everybody. There's
1:37:51nothing to be afraid of. Who needs to be
1:37:53saved from God? We need to be saved from
1:37:57illnesses. We need to be saved from our
1:37:59enemies. We need to be saved from
1:38:00everything in the world except from God.
1:38:02What is there to fear from God? I'll
1:38:03tell you what there is to fear from God.
1:38:05His unmititigated wrath.
1:38:08There is no worse catastrophe
1:38:10that can ever befall you, my dear
1:38:13friends, than to fall into the hands of
1:38:15the living God while you're still in
1:38:18your sin.
1:38:21This knowledge of salvation
1:38:23is the knowledge that is being announced
1:38:28of reconciliation
1:38:33between God
1:38:35and mankind.
1:38:39And what is the absolute necessary
1:38:42condition for reconciliation?
1:38:46What is the thing that has to be before
1:38:49any reconciliation can ever take place?
1:38:53Well, before reconciliation can take
1:38:54place, there first has to be
1:38:56estrangement.
1:38:59People who aren't aranged
1:39:02don't ever need to be reconciled.
1:39:06But we're at ease in Zion.
1:39:09We have calluses on our souls. And we
1:39:11think
1:39:13we're not estranged from God. I don't
1:39:15have anything against him. Why do I need
1:39:18to be reconciled? I'll tell you why.
1:39:20Because in your natural state, you've
1:39:22declared war on him.
1:39:26Your natural human proclivity, the
1:39:30natural tendency of your soul is enmity
1:39:34against God. You consider him your
1:39:38personal enemy.
1:39:42But whenever we
1:39:44declaw God and describe him as a higher
1:39:47being or some cosmic force,
1:39:50there's nothing to fear.
1:39:53But when we talk about the God of the
1:39:56Bible,
1:40:00who is personal
1:40:03and who holds every one of us
1:40:05accountable for our lives
1:40:08and who tells us that we will experience
1:40:10everlasting damnation
1:40:13if we never repent and come to Christ.
1:40:18and even our culture today.
1:40:21It's okay as long as we remain vague to
1:40:25speak about God in general.
1:40:32But let a football player
1:40:35announce to the public
1:40:37that he's a disciple of Jesus Christ.
1:40:42Watch the hostility
1:40:45explode.
1:40:47Oh, you can talk about God.
1:40:51But when you get down to Jesus,
1:40:55you're down to the ultimate issue.
1:40:58If you are not in Christ,
1:41:00you're not reconciled.
1:41:03You're still at war. And if you don't
1:41:05believe that war is real, read the
1:41:07newspaper every day. You don't have to
1:41:08read any further than the sports page.
1:41:14Only God could enable Tim Tibo to beat
1:41:18the Pittsburgh. Steel
1:41:30just what's so funny.
1:41:39But the song goes on to give us more of
1:41:41the content of this salvation,
1:41:44the knowledge of salvation
1:41:46to his people
1:41:49by
1:41:53the remission of their sins.
1:41:57For cancer patients,
1:42:00there's usually no better news
1:42:03than when the doctor tells them
1:42:06your disease
1:42:08is in remission.
1:42:11It means it's gone away.
1:42:16It doesn't always stay away.
1:42:19We know the crushing disappointment of
1:42:22those
1:42:24who experience
1:42:26when it comes back.
1:42:29But with a remission of sins, beloved,
1:42:34it never comes back.
1:42:39When God forgives a sinner,
1:42:43he forgives them forever.
1:42:47I knew no theology when the night I
1:42:50became a Christian.
1:42:53Told that story many times.
1:42:56I listened to a friend talk to me about
1:42:58Jesus as if he were real.
1:43:02As if my friend had a personal
1:43:04relationship with him. I'd never heard
1:43:05anything like that in my life.
1:43:08But as I listened, I knew
1:43:13I got my first knowledge
1:43:17of salvation.
1:43:20And I went to my college dormatory room
1:43:24and walked in the room and turned out
1:43:26the light and got on my knees before the
1:43:29bed. And the only thing I could say was,
1:43:31"God,
1:43:32forgive me of my sins.
1:43:38And in that moment,
1:43:41I experienced the unspeakable joy,
1:43:47having my soul flooded
1:43:50with the absolute assurance
1:43:53that every sin I had ever committed
1:43:58and ever would commit
1:44:01was forgiven
1:44:04in that moment.
1:44:07And in that moment, I experienced
1:44:11salvation,
1:44:13which was the most decisive moment
1:44:17and defining moment
1:44:20of my entire life.
1:44:23Nobody can have their sins remitted
1:44:29and remain the same.
1:44:33And that's why when we come here, we
1:44:35come here not just to worship, but we
1:44:36come here to praise God and to thank God
1:44:39for what he has done for us. And I just
1:44:41hope that every person sitting in this
1:44:44room has known the joy of their
1:44:46salvation, has known that their sins
1:44:50have been fully and finally forgiven.
1:44:53But my guess would be that that is
1:44:56nowhere near the truth. There must be
1:44:59many of you in the pews this morning
1:45:03who have no knowledge of salvation
1:45:08who have never known that your sins
1:45:11have been forgiven.
1:45:13This is the doctrine of justification by
1:45:15faith that we talk about all the time
1:45:17theologically with that in the heart and
1:45:20soul of our justification it
1:45:22justification includes at its very core
1:45:28the remission of our sins.
1:45:31But how does it happen?
1:45:34Listen to what the song says.
1:45:38through. That is the means by means of
1:45:43the how
1:45:45of forgiveness of sins
1:45:52through the tender mercy
1:45:55of our God.
1:45:57Theologically we talk about being
1:46:00justified by faith through grace because
1:46:04of Christ.
1:46:06And that's true. And here in the song,
1:46:10the remission of sins
1:46:13is through the mercy of God.
1:46:17The forgiveness of sins is not something
1:46:20that you merit. It's not something that
1:46:22you strive to achieve. It's not that you
1:46:25can make up for your sins by works of
1:46:28righteousness. That is the worst myth
1:46:31ever perpetrated in the church.
1:46:36If you want to go in a fool's air and
1:46:39chase the hope
1:46:41of redeeming yourself
1:46:45by your own achievements.
1:46:49If any activity was doomed to failure,
1:46:52it would be that the only way you can
1:46:55know salvation, the only way you can
1:46:57have the remission of sins is through
1:46:59the mercy of God. But it's not through
1:47:01the justice of God. It's through the
1:47:03mercy of God. But notice here under the
1:47:06influence of the Holy Spirit how the
1:47:08mercy of God is described.
1:47:11I can't just pass over this.
1:47:18Through the tender mercy
1:47:21of God,
1:47:24you can get stopped by a policeman on
1:47:26the highway and
1:47:28have that policeman
1:47:31just give you a warning. And instead of
1:47:33giving you justice and the ticket you
1:47:36deserve,
1:47:38he says, "I'll let you go this time."
1:47:40But he may do it with a scowl. He may do
1:47:42it with a frown. You've received mercy,
1:47:44but it wasn't very tender.
1:47:48Years ago, I did a seminar on marriage
1:47:51for women.
1:47:53And in this seminar, I don't know how
1:47:55many women, 50, 100, whatever were
1:47:57there.
1:47:58I went through this exercise with them.
1:48:01I said, "If you had the opportunity to
1:48:02have a male orderer husband,
1:48:06just like you order a car, especially
1:48:08with all the exact accessories that you
1:48:11want from your car dealer, now you get
1:48:13to order the husband of your dreams.
1:48:17Write down the most important
1:48:20characteristics and attributes that this
1:48:23man would have." And so we had all these
1:48:26ladies give all of their special
1:48:30characteristics that they wanted from a
1:48:32husband.
1:48:34And we tallied them all up. And there
1:48:36were two things that stood out. The two
1:48:39things that they wanted more than
1:48:41anything else in a man. Listen to what
1:48:43they were.
1:48:44They wanted a man who was strong.
1:48:52And they wanted a man
1:48:54who was tender.
1:48:59They didn't want
1:49:02a strong man who was harsh.
1:49:06They didn't want a strong man who was a
1:49:08bully.
1:49:10They didn't want to marry a mouse. They
1:49:12wanted to marry a man.
1:49:15But they wanted in that strength,
1:49:19in that manhood
1:49:22to find tenderness,
1:49:26every woman's dream.
1:49:31And the husband of the church
1:49:34is the strong and mighty Jesus
1:49:38whose mercy
1:49:41is tender.
1:49:45When God forgave me of my sins,
1:49:50the mercy that he poured out on my soul
1:49:52that night was sweet
1:49:55and gentle
1:49:59and tender.
1:50:02That's how the mercy of God
1:50:06functions.
1:50:08Oh, the few lines that are left
1:50:12we could let go till next week, but I
1:50:14won't do that.
1:50:17Through the tender mercy of our God,
1:50:21with which
1:50:23with which
1:50:27the daypring from on high
1:50:31has visited us.
1:50:34I told you before how many multitudes of
1:50:38titles there are in the scriptures for
1:50:40Jesus.
1:50:42Last week we looked at the title the
1:50:44horn of salvation in the house of David.
1:50:48Here in this same song is another title
1:50:52for Jesus.
1:50:54The daypring
1:50:57from on high in the Greek it's the
1:50:59anatole that means
1:51:02the breaking of the dawn
1:51:06when the sun rises.
1:51:10That's the day spring.
1:51:13That moment where the night retreats
1:51:18and the shadows fall away
1:51:22and the lights come on
1:51:25in the morning dawn.
1:51:29That is who is described here as a title
1:51:34for Jesus. Going back again to Malachi
1:51:38where he said when that day of the Lord
1:51:40comes when Elijah will return, he said
1:51:44the son not s o n but s u n the son of
1:51:48righteousness will arise with healing in
1:51:52his wings.
1:51:55That's the daypring
1:51:58from on high,
1:52:01the rising sun
1:52:04who visits us. The first Sunday we
1:52:07looked at this, we spent the whole
1:52:09sermon on the concept of visitation of
1:52:11God. And here it comes again at the end
1:52:14of the song.
1:52:16We are visited
1:52:18by the son of righteousness.
1:52:21When that sun rises, when the daypring
1:52:23appears, what happens?
1:52:27He gives light
1:52:30to those who sit in darkness.
1:52:34He gives light to those
1:52:38who are in the shadow
1:52:40of death.
1:52:42light
1:52:44that makes it possible for us to see
1:52:47where our feet are going
1:52:50into the way of peace.
1:52:54Remission of sins,
1:52:57the knowledge of salvation, the tender
1:53:00mercy of God,
1:53:03the son of righteousness coming
1:53:07in the midst of darkness
1:53:09and of the shadow of death.
1:53:13And the song ends
1:53:16with this footnote.
1:53:20So the child grew, John the Baptist,
1:53:24and became strong in spirit
1:53:28and was in the deserts
1:53:31till the day of his epiphany, till the
1:53:33day of his manifestation
1:53:38to Israel,
1:53:40the desert,
1:53:44the traditional meeting place
1:53:47between man and God. the desert
1:53:52where Elijah fled for refuge,
1:53:56fed by the ravens, living in a cave.
1:54:01So now living on wild locust and honey,
1:54:06this child grows stronger and stronger
1:54:09and stronger until the summons comes to
1:54:13him saying, "Now
1:54:16prepare
1:54:18the way
1:54:20of the Lord."
1:54:22What a song.
1:54:24So much there. You can't do justice in
1:54:26three weeks to that. We just scratched
1:54:29the surface.
1:54:31Read it again and again
1:54:33for your soul's edification. Let's pray.
1:54:38Thank you, oh Lord, for these words of
1:54:40promise, for the salvation that has
1:54:42come, for the remission of our sins
1:54:45through the experience of your tender
1:54:48mercy.
1:54:50We thank you that you have not
1:54:53been harsh with us. that even when you
1:54:57convict us of our sins, there's a
1:54:59certain sweetness to it that makes us
1:55:03able
1:55:04to accept it and to turn from our wicked
1:55:07ways.
1:55:09Thank you for this great gospel
1:55:13that is ours.
1:55:16Amen.
1:55:41We're going to discuss the problem that
1:55:44the research indicates is the number one
1:55:47reason that people give for the
1:55:51breakdown and break up of marriages. And
1:55:54as I'm sure you can guess, the number
1:55:57one problem listed in America for
1:56:01struggles and the dissolving of
1:56:03marriages in the United States is this
1:56:09sex,
1:56:11lack of harmony, lack of communication,
1:56:14lack of intimacy and adjustment in the
1:56:18sexual dimensions of marriage. That may
1:56:21seem to be somewhat of a surprise to us
1:56:24in light of the fact that in recent
1:56:26decades we've gone through an explosion
1:56:29not only of interest but in literature
1:56:32of sexual relationships and harmony. You
1:56:36can go to any bookstore to the self-help
1:56:40section of the bookstore or even
1:56:41separate sections on sex in marriage and
1:56:44find dozens of marriage manuals, how-to
1:56:47books, and counseling books on how to
1:56:50have a great sex dimension to your
1:56:54marriage. But somehow
1:56:56we're still experiencing severe problems
1:56:59of sexual harmony within marriage. I
1:57:03have to say this too at this point that
1:57:05in that even though the research
1:57:06indicates that this is the number one
1:57:08reason given for the breakdown of
1:57:10marriages in our country. I personally
1:57:12don't believe that it is the number one
1:57:14reason. I believe it's the number reason
1:57:16people say but I think there's an
1:57:18underlying reason that goes even deeper
1:57:20than the sexual dimension which we'll
1:57:22look at in another session. But since
1:57:25this is one that has people very very
1:57:28concerned, I think we need to spend a
1:57:31little bit of time on it. One of the
1:57:33biggest problems of course that we face
1:57:36in adjusting to the sexual dimension of
1:57:39marriage, particularly as Christians,
1:57:42is making the transition
1:57:45from living in a life situation all the
1:57:48way up till marriage where God says no.
1:57:52And then all of a sudden we're expected
1:57:54to enter into a relationship where that
1:57:56which was once forbidden
1:57:59is now not only allowed
1:58:02but in biblical categories is commanded.
1:58:06That is very difficult for for many
1:58:08people to understand that that which is
1:58:11forbidden in one context is absolutely
1:58:15commanded by God within the bond of
1:58:18marriage. Now, the church has struggled
1:58:21for centuries with that dimension. Just
1:58:24last week, for example, I was reading an
1:58:26essay from the great theologian St.
1:58:28Augustine, who is one of my all-time
1:58:30favorite writers and theologians. And in
1:58:33this particular essay, he was making the
1:58:36case that the only moral justification
1:58:40for marriage for sex relationships
1:58:43within marriage is with a specific view
1:58:48towards conceiving and bearing children.
1:58:52That is, Augustine saw no room within
1:58:55marriage and the marriage relationship
1:58:57for the enjoyment of sex as a physical
1:59:01bond involving physical pleasure between
1:59:04a husband and a wife. In other words, it
1:59:07was kind of a necessary evil that one
1:59:09had to go through in order to propagate
1:59:11the species. Now, I'm persuaded that
1:59:14that viewpoint that even the great St.
1:59:16Augustine advocated is one that is found
1:59:20not in scripture but has its roots in
1:59:23ancient Greek and oriental views that
1:59:26depreciated the value of anything
1:59:29physical.
1:59:32We know what the sin of materialism is
1:59:34in this world where people seek all of
1:59:36life and all of meaning through physical
1:59:40things through money, through food,
1:59:42through wine, women and song, through
1:59:44the gratification of the body. And we
1:59:47call that materialism. And we know that
1:59:49that is a distortion of the reality that
1:59:52God has made. And sometimes to
1:59:54counteract that we go to the other
1:59:57extreme and fall into the error of what
1:59:59may be called spiritualism
2:00:02where the only thing that is of value is
2:00:05the spiritual dimension the soul. But we
2:00:08believe in a God who made a physical
2:00:10world
2:00:12who made man not just as a disembodied
2:00:16spirit but as a person who in who has
2:00:19both a soul and a body and the New
2:00:23Testament for example and the teaching
2:00:24of Jesus shows a profound concern for
2:00:27man's material well-being that we are
2:00:31called to feed the hungry to clothe the
2:00:34naked to give shelter to the homeless
2:00:37Those are physical concerns. And so even
2:00:41the apostle tells us that
2:00:44the man's body belongs to the woman in
2:00:47marriage and the woman's body belongs to
2:00:49the man and we are not to defraud each
2:00:51other. So we don't find this negative
2:00:55view of the physical dimension of our
2:00:58humanity in scripture. But God is very
2:01:02clear about the context in which sex may
2:01:06be enjoyed.
2:01:09I remember not too long ago doing a
2:01:11study of the New Testament view of sex
2:01:16and just isolating those passages in the
2:01:18New Testament where Jesus and the
2:01:20apostles speak about sex. And in my
2:01:22studies, I went to what's called the
2:01:26theological dictionary of the New
2:01:27Testament, which is produced by a group
2:01:29of of German scholars who have no brief
2:01:32for evangelical Christianity and are by
2:01:34no means conservative in their approach
2:01:36to things. And the particular scholar
2:01:38who had done his analysis of the New
2:01:41Testament view of sex
2:01:44came to this conclusion even though he
2:01:47himself did not embrace the position. He
2:01:49said, "We cannot deny that the New
2:01:51Testament clearly teaches that in God's
2:01:54sight, premarital sex and extrammarital
2:01:58sex are
2:02:00serious offenses against his holiness."
2:02:04So that the apostle, for example, tells
2:02:06us that we ought never, there ought
2:02:08never once be named among you the
2:02:12occasion of fornication.
2:02:15You read the apologists of the first
2:02:17century, the latter part of the first
2:02:18century and into the second century as
2:02:20they're trying to defend the Christian
2:02:22faith against the attacks coming from
2:02:24the pagan realms. Not only do they
2:02:26defend the truth claims of Christianity
2:02:29philosophically, but they say, "If you
2:02:31really want to see
2:02:33what Christianity is all about, look at
2:02:35our lives."
2:02:37And he said, "Examine the moral behavior
2:02:41of Christians.
2:02:43examine our community. See if you find
2:02:45adultery. See if you find fornication.
2:02:48Imagine that. I would never stand up
2:02:51today to the 20th century secularists
2:02:53and say, "If you want to see proof for
2:02:55the Christian faith, look at the sexual
2:02:57behavior of Christians because
2:02:59Christians are as caught up in adultery
2:03:02and fornication in some cases as
2:03:05unbelievers."
2:03:07But if we look at the New Testament, we
2:03:09hear that prohibition. So severe is it
2:03:12that it makes one of the ten
2:03:13commandments, thou shalt not commit
2:03:15adultery. Now that is not because God is
2:03:18against pleasure
2:03:20or God is against human fulfillment, but
2:03:24it is because God understands
2:03:28the sanctity of that intimacy that takes
2:03:32place when people can be naked and
2:03:36unashamed. within the context of of
2:03:40marriage. And so God is not saying that
2:03:42sex is wrong.
2:03:46He creates it. He ordains it, but he
2:03:49regulates it. He says in this
2:03:51circumstance, it's not good. I don't
2:03:54allow it here. It's destructive.
2:03:57In this circumstance, it's beautiful.
2:04:00It's expressive. It's part of what I
2:04:03have made for your enjoyment. And so we
2:04:05have that problem as Christians making
2:04:08the transition. Okay. But now the
2:04:10transition is made. Then what problems
2:04:13do we discover in terms of sexual
2:04:16fulfillment in marriage? The two biggest
2:04:20problems
2:04:21that we encounter in marriage with
2:04:25respect to sex are in the case of the
2:04:28male impotency.
2:04:34Did I spell that right?
2:04:37And in the case of the female, we use
2:04:40terms like fragidity.
2:04:42Now, those terms bother me because
2:04:44neither one of them are accurate terms
2:04:47of absolutes. Nobody's absolutely
2:04:50impotent and nobody's absolutely frigid.
2:04:54These terms represent
2:04:57a continuum degrees
2:05:00that deal with how free we are able to
2:05:03express ourselves sexually in the
2:05:06marriage estate. So that we have to
2:05:08think in terms of degrees of impotency
2:05:10or degrees of fragility. Now impotency
2:05:14of course means simply a lack of
2:05:16strength or a lack of power. And the
2:05:19word fragidity is an interesting term
2:05:21because it it suggests
2:05:25coldness.
2:05:26It suggests someone who is frozen.
2:05:31And what both of these terms are
2:05:33describing
2:05:35is a certain level of paralysis
2:05:40in sexual activity.
2:05:43And so what we have, you know, eating
2:05:46away at healthy marriages is this
2:05:50problem of sexual paralysis.
2:05:55And it's become so significant that now
2:05:57we see clinics springing up all over the
2:05:59United States medically directing their
2:06:02attention to a scientific investigation
2:06:05of what is called sexual dysfunction in
2:06:08order to help people over problems that
2:06:11are destroying their marriages. It's too
2:06:13bad I would have to say that there are
2:06:15very few if any notable Christian
2:06:19clinics of research into sexual
2:06:22dysfunction because if anybody should be
2:06:24aware of how severe this problem is in
2:06:26marriages, it should be the church
2:06:28because the clergy have to deal with it
2:06:30every day. And we have very few
2:06:32resources that we can direct people to
2:06:34who have serious problems that that they
2:06:38can attend without compromising their
2:06:41own value systems and the Christian
2:06:43ethic.
2:06:45But we need help to deal with these
2:06:48forms of paralysis.
2:06:51Now, anytime
2:06:53I encounter a form of paralysis, I look
2:06:57right away for one of two things.
2:07:00There are two things in our emotional
2:07:03experiences that contribute again and
2:07:06again to all different kinds of
2:07:07paralysis. And they are I'll write them
2:07:10on the board.
2:07:12Fear
2:07:15and guilt.
2:07:18And these two incidentally are often
2:07:20very closely related.
2:07:24We say that someone is frozen
2:07:27with fear.
2:07:29frozen with fear. He stops in his
2:07:32tracks. He can't move. He can't scream.
2:07:35He hesitates. Fear paralyzes.
2:07:40So, we discover in sexual problems that
2:07:43there is a tremendous amount of fear
2:07:47entering into the Christian bedroom.
2:07:51Well, what are the fears about?
2:07:54What are we afraid of? Well, there are
2:07:56lots of things. I think both in the case
2:07:59of impotency and fragidity,
2:08:01one of the most significant elements of
2:08:03fear is fear of performance.
2:08:08That's one of the fallout problems of
2:08:12this explosion of sexual literature
2:08:15where now the myth abounds that for
2:08:17somebody to be healthy and normal they
2:08:20have to be capable of super sex both the
2:08:23woman and the man. We have all of these
2:08:26images which are mythological images
2:08:28that Hollywood plays of the super sexual
2:08:32athlete male and the woman who is
2:08:35everybody's mahari. You know, it just
2:08:38isn't true.
2:08:40But you can't tell that to the person
2:08:42when they're entering into this
2:08:43relationship and they feel this pressure
2:08:46to perform.
2:08:50Last year, I saw a list of the 10 most
2:08:53common phobias of American people. Do
2:08:56you know what the number one phobia was
2:08:57in the United States? I don't know where
2:09:00death was. Fear of death came four, four
2:09:03or five, somewhere down the list. I was
2:09:04surprised. You know what the number one
2:09:05phobia was in the United States of
2:09:06America? Fear of standing up in front of
2:09:10a group and speaking.
2:09:13That's what scares more people than
2:09:15anything else. And ladies and gentlemen,
2:09:17I can relate to that.
2:09:20And you all have experienced a situation
2:09:22where somebody gets up to speak and they
2:09:24open their mouth, nothing comes out
2:09:26because they have become paralyzed
2:09:29by their fear. Where I experience fear
2:09:34in speaking is not that I'm going to
2:09:36teach the wrong thing or I'm going to
2:09:39forget my words, but it is the pressure
2:09:43to perform.
2:09:45And you would think the more that you
2:09:46speak, the easier it is to speak. In one
2:09:50sense, yes. But the more that you speak
2:09:52and get a reputation for speaking, the
2:09:54higher the expectation is from the
2:09:56audience. And the higher the expectation
2:09:57is, the more the pressure that's on you,
2:09:59the more the pressure. In fact, I think
2:10:00I'll stop right now and get out of here
2:10:02because I can't stand it. You know, I'm
2:10:04ready to choke. We talk about choking.
2:10:06And choking is a paralysis of the neck
2:10:09brought in and brought about by fear.
2:10:14We see it with athletes under stress
2:10:17because they they are afraid that they
2:10:19will not perform to the level of
2:10:22expectation that is set before them.
2:10:27Well, our sexual relationship is not for
2:10:30display.
2:10:32Nobody's keeping score.
2:10:34It is for the intimacy of the two people
2:10:38that are involved. And it is to be built
2:10:41upon a foundation of love.
2:10:45And that doesn't mean just an emotional
2:10:48feeling.
2:10:50That means a foundation
2:10:53where sex is not ripped out of the
2:10:57relationship to love. But sex becomes an
2:10:59expression of love. I hear people say
2:11:01that we had sex two times last week. As
2:11:05if sex were something that were
2:11:06different from love. sex was just simply
2:11:10a physical activity.
2:11:13Well, for men, it's easier, it seems,
2:11:16that for men to separate sex and love.
2:11:19That's what the research indicates, that
2:11:21men can enjoy sex without love. That's
2:11:24why there are such things as prostitutes
2:11:26and why it's the oldest
2:11:29profession,
2:11:30so that men can have physical pleasure
2:11:33without love. And every woman knows
2:11:35that.
2:11:38And every woman's leery when the man
2:11:40says,"I love you." Because being
2:11:43translated, the woman is hearing, "I
2:11:46want sex with you." And in order to have
2:11:49sex with you, I have to say to you, "I
2:11:53love you."
2:11:55And the woman then is expected to show
2:11:58her love for her husband, not by giving
2:12:01him love, but by giving him sex.
2:12:06And so that builds up resentments and
2:12:09miscommunication
2:12:11that strangles
2:12:13and paralyzes the relationship. But if
2:12:18the sex is an expression of love and I
2:12:21understand that my wife is committed to
2:12:23me
2:12:25and she understands that I love her,
2:12:27then the pressure to perform
2:12:30diminishes.
2:12:32The more I demonstrate love, the more
2:12:35free my wife is to be liberated
2:12:39sexually. The more she demonstrates love
2:12:41to me, the more I am able to live
2:12:45without fear because it's perfect love
2:12:48that the Bible says that casts out fear.
2:12:55What other things are involved in the
2:12:57fear of sex?
2:13:00One of the things that's becoming more
2:13:01and more apparent to us in our society,
2:13:04particularly for the woman,
2:13:07is the fear of being hurt physically.
2:13:13The battered woman is not just a rare
2:13:17incidence in our society. And I can't
2:13:20tell you how many women I've dealt with
2:13:22in counseling who have been either
2:13:24battered as wives or battered as
2:13:27children. They have been sexually
2:13:29abused. They have been hurt. Men have
2:13:33used their strength
2:13:37to force women to submit to their
2:13:39advances
2:13:41and they're physically afraid of being
2:13:43hurt. And we also hear of the man who is
2:13:46tough
2:13:48but not tender.
2:13:50You get women together and say, "What
2:13:52are the qualities you want in a
2:13:53husband?" Yes, they want self assurance.
2:13:55Yes, they want self-confidence. But they
2:13:57also put very high at the list
2:13:59sensitivity.
2:14:01One of the biggest problems of sexual
2:14:04maturity in our nation is the lack of
2:14:07male sensitivity in love making. He has
2:14:11to prove his manhood by living out the
2:14:13old caveman myth which hurts the woman
2:14:17physically. And no wonder she doesn't
2:14:20want to be involved in sex more often
2:14:22when it's a painful experience for her
2:14:25rather than one of tenderness and of
2:14:27love. So we have to remember that fear
2:14:31of of pain can be a paralyzing force.
2:14:35Well, there are other fears.
2:14:38There's fear of discovery
2:14:42and that's a very real one. I've talked
2:14:44to countless couples where the woman
2:14:46says, for example, that she much more
2:14:48enjoys a sexual relationship with her
2:14:50husband when they're away from the home,
2:14:53when they go on vacation to a hotel or
2:14:55something like that than they are in the
2:14:57home. And and you begin to explore that
2:14:58and you begin to see that she is afraid
2:15:00or he may be and maybe the man is afraid
2:15:04that the children will walk in or will
2:15:08overhear them or whatever. See, one of
2:15:10the best investments that you can make
2:15:12in a marriage is a lock for your bedroom
2:15:15door. Again, this is the place where you
2:15:18can be naked and unashamed. But you're
2:15:21not going to be naked and unashamed if
2:15:23any minute somebody comes walking in
2:15:26because your daughter is not your wife
2:15:30and the next door neighbor is not your
2:15:32husband. And if people are afraid that
2:15:34somebody's going to see them, then
2:15:36they're inhibited. And then pe then the
2:15:39partner takes that as a personal act of
2:15:43rejection.
2:15:45Fear of pregnancy is another major fear.
2:15:49And we could go on and list these fears
2:15:52that people have that inhibit them. Here
2:15:55is where we need communication,
2:15:59where the husband and the wife need to
2:16:01talk, where we need to express to each
2:16:02other, what is it that you're afraid of?
2:16:04Are you afraid of something? And how can
2:16:07I help? I'm not going to help my wife by
2:16:10forcing her to do things
2:16:14that she is afraid of.
2:16:18Now, the second one is the one that
2:16:21almost no one talks about. Guilt.
2:16:25I'd like to express a pattern that I
2:16:28find familiar in marriage counseling.
2:16:30When I hear a man come come into my
2:16:33office and say to me, you know, I want
2:16:34to divorce my wife.
2:16:37Our relationship is deteriorated and she
2:16:40doesn't respond to me sexually and all
2:16:42of that. I will ask this question
2:16:45straight out, straight from the
2:16:46shoulder. I'll say to tell me here in
2:16:48the privacy of the office, did you have
2:16:50sexual relationships with your wife
2:16:52before you were married?
2:16:56Now, my experience in counseling cannot
2:17:00be a test of a sufficient universe to
2:17:03give you
2:17:04a percentage that covers the whole
2:17:06nation. But I'll just tell you my
2:17:08experience. I don't know how many men
2:17:10I've asked that question to hundred.
2:17:13Every single man that I've ever
2:17:16counseledled on this question and I
2:17:18asked, "Did you have sexual
2:17:20relationships with your wife before you
2:17:22were married, every single one of them
2:17:23said yes."
2:17:25Everyone,
2:17:28the virginal husband
2:17:30is almost non-existent
2:17:33as well as the virginal wife.
2:17:36So after they tell me this that yes they
2:17:39did have sexual involvement with their
2:17:41wife before they got married.
2:17:43I asked them this question. In your
2:17:45opinion
2:17:47was your wife more responsive sexually
2:17:49or less responsive sex sexually before
2:17:53you were married? And their eyes light
2:17:55up and they say
2:17:57she was more responsive before we were
2:17:59married. And he looks at me like I'm a
2:18:02voodoo witch doctor for knowing that. He
2:18:05said, 'How did you know that?' I said,
2:18:07'I know it because I've heard it so many
2:18:09times. And that's why I'm asking the
2:18:12question now. Why is it that so many men
2:18:15say that their wives were more
2:18:18responsible to them, responsive to them
2:18:20before they were married than after they
2:18:22got married? Is it because they have
2:18:24simply idealized the good old days? It
2:18:28might be. Is it because
2:18:32sex was just more exciting in its
2:18:34novelty than it has become over the
2:18:37years? That's another possibility.
2:18:40And there's another third possibility
2:18:42that the woman can only respond when
2:18:43she's in a taboo situation. And when
2:18:45she's allowed to uh perform sexually,
2:18:48she's bored with it and doesn't care.
2:18:50There are all kinds of reasons that
2:18:52would explain why men say that their
2:18:54wives were more responsive before. But
2:18:57one factor that we need to consider
2:19:00here,
2:19:01it may be true.
2:19:05In fact, it may be that the woman was
2:19:07more responsive
2:19:11and suddenly she's less responsive.
2:19:14And it may be because
2:19:18she carried into the marriage
2:19:22all this baggage of guilt
2:19:26and resentment
2:19:28because the husband manipulated her and
2:19:32persuaded her to do what she was trying
2:19:35not to do before she got married. And
2:19:38now she carries that resentment in. But
2:19:40worse, she carries unreieved guilt.
2:19:46What do you do in a case like that?
2:19:49Well, again, we can get all kinds of
2:19:51therapy offered to us from the medical
2:19:54world, from secular counselors, and from
2:19:57ministers. And the usual therapy goes
2:20:00like this in our day and age. You have
2:20:03to understand that what you did before
2:20:05you got married was okay.
2:20:08Everybody does it. The Kinsey report,
2:20:10the Chapman report indicates that the
2:20:12overwhelming majority of people do that.
2:20:14And since the overwhelming people do
2:20:16that, that indicates that it's normal.
2:20:18And if it's normal, it's healthy.
2:20:21And this is just part of your maturing
2:20:23process in becoming responsible human
2:20:26beings. You've heard that line a million
2:20:28times. I had a woman come to me who was
2:20:31about to get married. She had been
2:20:32engaged for a year or so, and she came
2:20:34and she was very, very much distressed
2:20:37with guilt.
2:20:39And she said, "Oh, what am I going to
2:20:40do?" She says, "I feel so guilty." She
2:20:42said, "I've been having sexual
2:20:43relationships with my fiance." She said,
2:20:45"And I went to see my minister." And my
2:20:47minister said to me, "Look, the way to
2:20:49get over this is to understand that the
2:20:52that the reason you feel guilty is that
2:20:54you've been a victim of this narrow,
2:20:56rigid Victorian uh Puritan culture with
2:20:59its taboos. And for you have to grow
2:21:02mature and understand that you're not
2:21:04promiscuous. You have just been a
2:21:06responsible adult." And she said, "And I
2:21:08tried that, but I still feel guilty."
2:21:11And I said, "Well, the reason why you
2:21:13still feel guilty is it because you are
2:21:15guilty."
2:21:17I said, "The prohibition against
2:21:19premarital sexual intercourse was not
2:21:20invented by Jonathan Edwards or by Queen
2:21:23Victoria.
2:21:25It was God who said no.
2:21:30And you have offended God. You have
2:21:32transgressed his law. Never mind the
2:21:34fact that everybody else is doing it.
2:21:36The law does not come from the
2:21:38psychiatrists. It does not come from the
2:21:39ministers. It does not come from the
2:21:41counselors. It comes from God. And God
2:21:43said no and you did it anyway. So,
2:21:45you're guilty. And the only thing that I
2:21:47know that can cure you of that is not
2:21:50rationalization.
2:21:52You have real guilt. And if you're going
2:21:55to get healthy, you have to have real
2:21:56forgiveness. And the only way I know to
2:21:58get that
2:22:00is for you to go home by yourself on
2:22:03your knees
2:22:05and tell God what you did and confess
2:22:08your sin
2:22:11and God will forgive you of that. Do you
2:22:16understand that you can be a virgin
2:22:19again
2:22:21in God's sight?
2:22:24And so we need to clean up marriage
2:22:29by dealing with unresolved
2:22:32guilt.