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0:00Okay, these are the five signs that a
0:02woman is about to cheat on you in a
0:04relationship.
0:05I want to just lay these out in a good,
0:08easy-to-understand, logical format, so
0:10that way you can just see the red flags,
0:13and that way you can just quietly exit
0:15without causing too much of a disruption
0:19in your day-to-day behavior. Okay, the
0:22very first thing that you'll notice if a
0:25woman is most likely about to cheat on
0:27you is that she will ask you if you are
0:30talking to other women.
0:32So, even though she's talking to other
0:33men
0:35and you haven't done anything wrong,
0:38she's going to come to you with a
0:40conversation asking you if you are
0:42talking to other women. So, why is she
0:45doing this? Okay, she's doing this
0:47because she doesn't want to be the one
0:49who's guilty of cheating.
0:51Okay, she wants to find some way
0:55to make it seem like you're a bad person
0:58in a relationship to be with. So, what
1:00you have to know is that women
1:01communicate covertly. And what that
1:04means is she will want to justify her
1:07reasoning for lining up your
1:09replacement, so it seems like it was
1:11your fault. Okay, she wants it to seem
1:14like it was your fault, that you're a
1:16bad partner, you're a bad guy to be in a
1:18relationship with, because she doesn't
1:20like you anymore, so it seems like your
1:22fault, and it only makes clear sense
1:25that she should exit. So, here's what it
1:27looks like. She might come to you and
1:29say something like, "Are you talking to
1:30anybody else?"
1:32And maybe you say something like
1:34"No, why would you even ask that? No,
1:36I'm not talking to anybody else. What
1:38would even make you ask that?" Okay,
1:40maybe you say something like that.
1:42And then here's what you're going to
1:44notice, the word that she might slip in
1:46is the word defensive. She might say
1:48something like, "You seem like you're
1:50getting defensive just for me asking."
1:54It feels like I can never trust you. So,
1:56do you see how she now applied emotion
1:59to this discussion? Why are you getting
2:02so defensive?
2:04Even if you just answered the question,
2:06this is something that she might say.
2:08Well, now there's all of a sudden an
2:09argument, and now what's happened is
2:11that she most likely convinced herself
2:14that you were talking to somebody else.
2:17Therefore, it's now okay if she is
2:19talking to somebody else or she is
2:21seeing somebody else because she just
2:23got the feeling that you were too.
2:26This is how that works.
2:28You simply can't win.
2:31If you say no,
2:33"Why would you even ask that?" But
2:35you're super laid-back and nonchalant
2:37about it, well, she might say, "Why do
2:39you seem so laid-back and nonchalant?
2:41We're in a serious relationship. You
2:43would be more serious
2:45when you answered this question." You
2:47see, you just can't win either way. So,
2:49this is the first thing that you might
2:50notice. If she will ask you if you are
2:52talking to other women, okay?
2:55The second thing, number two, okay, the
2:56second thing that you might notice that
2:58she does if she's about to cheat,
3:00there's all of a sudden a new best
3:02friend that she's always texting that
3:05you have never seen before.
3:07All of a sudden, she just has a new best
3:09friend that she's so invested in
3:11texting, and I'll explain to you how
3:12this works. So, most of the time it's a
3:14dude, but she changed the contact name
3:17to a woman or to one of her girlfriends
3:19that she has, okay?
3:21So, a lot of times what she'll do
3:24is, let's say for example, she changed
3:26the contact name to one of her
3:28girlfriends,
3:30but she maybe spells the name
3:31differently, okay?
3:33So, that way she knows to answer the
3:36real one in front of you to not seem
3:38suspicious.
3:40Okay, so maybe she actually has a
3:42girlfriend whose name is this, but she
3:45just spells this one a little bit
3:46differently so you don't recognize it,
3:48okay? So, the reason why she's doing
3:51this is because this is so she can
3:53actually talk to this dude all day
3:57and she wants you to drop your guard,
3:59okay? She wants to be able to talk to
4:01him all day without you raising any
4:03awareness that something is going on.
4:05So, she wants to not have to hide her
4:08phone. So, what she does is she uses a
4:10different name of probably one of her
4:12girlfriends, okay? She wants you to be
4:13in a calm state so that way everything
4:15seems okay. You don't even notice. She's
4:18just text messaging Amanda or she's just
4:20text messaging Kayla or she's just text
4:22messaging Britney. It doesn't matter,
4:25okay? She's just messaging somebody, one
4:28of her girlfriends, and because of that
4:30you got nothing to worry about. But,
4:32little do you know it's a dude and she
4:33changed that name on that contact
4:35information. This is the second thing
4:37that you might notice. The third thing
4:38that you might notice is she becomes
4:40emotionally distant and her thoughts are
4:43somewhere else and she seems very
4:45distracted.
4:46She is no longer focused on you, she is
4:49focused on the new dude. So, here's why
4:52this should be very obvious to
4:54recognize. It's because women are
4:55hypergamous, so she only wants the best.
4:59Okay? Which means she is mentally
5:01occupied with only one man.
5:04See, it's very very hard for a woman to
5:06like be intimate like with you, let's
5:08say if you're dating her, and then all
5:10of a sudden go and see that other dude.
5:13It's like no, all of a sudden she
5:14doesn't want to talk to you or see you
5:15anymore at all.
5:17Okay?
5:19Because she's focused on the one guy.
5:22So, you're going to notice a shift or a
5:23change in her emotional energy. No
5:25matter how much she tries to act like
5:28everything is just completely okay. No
5:31matter how much she wants to come home
5:33and try to act like everything's normal.
5:35It's just going to be so hard for her
5:36because there's that internal energy
5:38that's just not going to allow her to
5:40give you that love anymore.
5:42Okay?
5:43So, she's occupied with only one man.
5:45So, even though you're the boyfriend,
5:47here's how this works. Even though
5:49you're the boyfriend, since she is
5:51emotionally invested in him at this
5:54point, she'll actually start to feel
5:56like she's almost cheating on him by
5:58being with you,
6:00even though you're the boyfriend.
6:03Okay, this is female nature.
6:05This is how she's going to start to feel
6:07through this relationship with you. It
6:10almost starts to feel like she's now um
6:12betraying him by even spending time with
6:14you, even though you're the one dating
6:15her. See, this is how this works, okay?
6:18She doesn't want intimacy from both of
6:20you. You have to understand that women
6:21are hypergamous, so now her feelings are
6:24fully invested into him.
6:26This is the third thing that you need to
6:27watch out for, is that if she's
6:29emotionally distant, or her thoughts
6:31seem like they're some other place, or
6:33she seems distracted all the time and
6:35not focused on you, very big thing you
6:38have to watch out for.
6:39Point number four.
6:41Her habits start to change, okay? And
6:44maybe she has new interests, okay? So,
6:47maybe she had a set routine when you
6:50were dating her. She would wake up at
6:52the same time every day, then she would
6:53go to the gym at the same time every
6:55day, or she'd go to yoga or Pilates at
6:58the same time every day, whatever.
7:00And now all of a sudden she's breaking
7:01this routine. She's changing things up.
7:04And she's changing things up because she
7:05now is adapting her lifestyle to talk to
7:07this new dude. So, now she starts to
7:10break that routine. Um you're going to
7:12notice maybe she has new interests. All
7:15of a sudden she has new interests in new
7:17types of music that she never uh cared
7:19to listen to before. Okay, maybe she
7:21never ever liked country music, and now
7:23all of a sudden she just loves country
7:25music. Okay, this is a very big red flag
7:27you have to watch out for. Um maybe she
7:30starts to take on his mannerisms. So,
7:33you notice she starts saying or doing
7:35things, or there's certain um mannerisms
7:37that she's doing with her words that
7:39she's never done before, okay?
7:42Another example, let's say she's never
7:44watched sports ever in her entire life.
7:47And now all of a sudden she just can't
7:49stop talking about that one specific
7:51football team. Her interests are
7:53changing because she's taking on his
7:55habits. As she takes on his habits,
7:58she starts to not want to even talk to
7:59you at all. So at this point you've
8:02probably totally lost her completely.
8:05Um that's just where the relationship is
8:07probably at.
8:08And what she wants at this point, what
8:11she's hoping for actually, is she's
8:13hoping that her behavior, like what
8:15she's actually wants, okay? What she
8:16wants is she wants her behavior to
8:19appear like it's so bad
8:21that you are the one who initiates the
8:23breakup. What she wants to actually have
8:25happen here is because you got to look
8:27at it from this point of view, right?
8:30The dude has been loyal, caring, a good
8:33partner in a relationship, very nice to
8:34her, very sweet.
8:36He did everything that a good boyfriend
8:38should do.
8:39And logically she knows this and she
8:40understands this.
8:42So she doesn't necessarily want to be
8:44the one to end that relationship. She
8:46wants to make it seem like it's your
8:47idea.
8:49So what happens is her behavior, she
8:50wants her behavior to get so bad, for
8:53her to be almost so unbearable to be
8:55around that you're the one who initiates
8:57the breakup. Sadly, most guys still
8:59don't do it at this point because they
9:01have became that emotionally attached.
9:04But it's something to watch out for.
9:05Now, point number five,
9:07she suddenly has to travel more for work
9:10or way more often for work or she's
9:12working really late.
9:14If you notice a change in schedule,
9:16she's working late all the time or you
9:18feel like everything is just a bit
9:20different,
9:21listen to me closely. One of the biggest
9:23mistakes that guys make is they try to
9:24make it work. Okay? If you get to this
9:28point, listen,
9:29do not try to talk it out.
9:31Do not try to reconcile and see if you
9:33can save the relationship.
9:35Do not accuse her of cheating or talking
9:38to anybody else. Do not ask to
9:41see her text messages. None of that.
9:44What you want to do is you want to just
9:45quietly exit and ignore her and move on,
9:49okay? Because the most important thing
9:52if you're going through this breakup is
9:54you just maintain your inner sense of
9:56calm feelings. If you start to have all
9:59these conversations and you find out all
10:02this stuff, you're going to feel really
10:03bad and then you're going to have a lot
10:05of days or weeks of heartbreak and it's
10:07going to be terrible.
10:08What you want to do is you want to have
10:09the strength to just quietly exit and
10:11ignore. And that means she doesn't get
10:14any more text messages from you ever.
10:16That means she doesn't get any more
10:18calls from you ever. You're gone. That
10:21means you do not
10:23initiate any type of communication. You
10:25instantly just withdrew. You spotted all
10:27the red flags and you withdraw your
10:29attention and you save your emotional
10:31energy for somebody else or for yourself
10:33at this point, okay?
10:34You essentially gave this situation no
10:37more time and no more energy. And this
10:39is the only thing that you can really do
10:41to try to maintain your own inner peace
10:45or a state of good calm feelings.
10:47Because this point it's probably going
10:48to be really hard for you, okay? Now
10:50you're going to have to be single again,
10:51but if you move and operate that way
10:53where you just quietly exit and you
10:55ignore, it can make it a lot easier.
10:58What I advise you to do is take this
10:59video even a step further. I created an
11:02entire community so that way I can help
11:03you learn, understand, and master the
11:05language of women. And inside of that
11:08community I show you that process so
11:09that way you can attract the type of
11:12women that you want to be in a
11:13relationship with
11:15and you can retain interest levels in
11:17that relationship for far longer. That
11:19is why I made this and I built this to
11:21genuinely help you in your dating life.
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