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0:00The worst girls to get with are church
0:01girls. The worst women that you'll ever
0:03date is women who are all about going to
0:06church.
0:07I'll never forget I was 23. I was seeing
0:09this girl, I think she was about 24. She
0:11was like a year older than me.
0:13She would come over all the time on
0:14Saturday nights.
0:16Just get down to the dirty. Oh, yeah,
0:18everything you could imagine. Then she'd
0:20wake up Sunday morning and say, "Time
0:22for church." You ask her what she's
0:24doing, she'd tell her all of her friends
0:25churching. Yep.
0:28That's what she was doing. You know why
0:29all these women need to go to this
0:31church so much is because they're doing
0:32so much sinning.
0:34The worst women that you'll ever date is
0:37women who constantly try to
0:39give this illusion to the whole world
0:41that they're some good girl church girl.
0:44What I found about women is that the
0:46mask that they give to the world is
0:49usually to like give a false or opposite
0:53representation of what's going on on the
0:55inside in their mind and in their
0:56emotions.
0:58That's what I found. The women who
1:00constantly portray this
1:02"Oh, I'm a good girl. You can take me
1:04seriously. I'm in the church. Oh, I pray
1:07to God. God is first in my life." All
1:09this, yeah. These are a lot of times
1:11women These women a lot of times, right?
1:14They will gut you.
1:16They will twist that knife so hard. She
1:18will show no remorse. She'll show no
1:20remorse. These are the women who a lot
1:22of times they'll cheat the most. They'll
1:24have no remorse. You'll be dating them
1:26for 6 months and she'll just ghost you.
1:29She'll just ghost you. Out of nowhere.
1:31No remorse, no empathy. Operates
1:34completely off of emotions and a lot of
1:36times they're meaner and more deceptive
1:39than just even women sometimes you'll
1:41meet out at a bar.
1:43That's the truth. I can even tell you
1:45this. A lot of times women that
1:47outwardly portray this like party girl
1:49vibe, sometimes they'll be a better
1:51woman to date because internally their
1:53world is opposite compared to what
1:54they're actually representing to the
1:56world. Internally, they want that
1:58relationship so bad and she ends up
2:00being the most loyal, sweetest
2:01sweetheart you could ever ask for.
2:03You have to watch out for church women.
2:05They will twist that knife so damn hard
2:08you'll be sitting there crying for
2:09months. What I find most interesting
2:12about modern women today, okay,
2:15it's not anything to do with social
2:17media or dating apps or any of this,
2:19it's how
2:21majority of modern women
2:24are attracted to and gravitate towards
2:28men
2:29who have zero base survival skills.
2:34As a man today, you do not need to know
2:37how to hunt
2:40or fish
2:41or build anything
2:43or work with your hands or use a tool.
2:47You don't need to do anything. You don't
2:50need to know how to do anything. Like
2:52majority of guys these days, what is
2:54absolutely wild to me is that you're
2:56telling me that you can just lose some
2:58weight and be in a calorie deficit,
3:01okay, get a couple cool necklaces and a
3:04tattoo and look good and take some
3:07pretty pictures on Instagram and that's
3:09good enough to not only attract a woman
3:13but get majority of women
3:15to fall in love with you
3:17despite providing zero base skills
3:22despite providing zero base masculinity,
3:25strength, and skills
3:28and not having any real-world or
3:30real-life
3:33capability beyond pixels on a screen and
3:36making money digitally.
3:38I think that that is absolutely wild. I
3:41don't think we've ever seen a time in
3:43history where that was the case
3:46where a man essentially
3:50has to know zero In fact, I would even
3:53say this,
3:55where the men who know how to do things
4:00are actually rewarded less when it comes
4:03to dating than men who know how to do
4:06absolutely nothing at all.
4:09This is like the biggest shift I have
4:11ever seen where as a man, actually, the
4:13less you know how to do anything and the
4:16stupider you are, the more you're able
4:19to attract a beautiful
4:21a woman or mate or like you're actually
4:24able to like the fact Do you Do you
4:26understand this? Do you think your
4:27grandparents or your great-grandparents
4:30knew anything about flirting or rizz
4:33or the words were the main benefit of
4:36getting the emotion? No, they're making
4:38sure that there was land to um
4:41grow food on and survival. Like, it's
4:44just absolutely wild to me to see this.
4:47In most relationships, the man is along
4:50for her ride. You can say men are the
4:52leaders all you want, but in modern
4:54relationships, the man is along for her
4:56ride. This is what you got to
4:58understand, and here's why. This is one
4:59thing that I've realized about
5:01dating and relationships over the past
5:0410 years. Women typically do not do
5:06anything that they do not want to do.
5:09Okay? However, men typically do a lot of
5:12things that they don't want to do. And
5:15I'm talking minute for minute, hour for
5:16hour, second for second, where you put
5:18your time. If she says, "Do you want to
5:21go bike riding with me?" he says yes. If
5:23she says, "Babe, we should go buy
5:25rollerblades and let's go
5:27rollerblading," he goes and buys them
5:29and they go rollerblading. If she says,
5:31"Babe, I really want to go on a trip. I
5:33want to go on a vacation," he says,
5:34"Let's book it." If she says, "I want to
5:36go to this restaurant," guess what
5:38happens? He goes there.
5:40Because men are simple, men like their
5:42peace, and men just go along with things
5:44because we don't want chaos. However, if
5:47you take a look at most relationships,
5:49if that man says to that woman, "Hey,
5:51babe, let's go to this restaurant
5:52tonight." He's typically going to get a
5:55"I don't feel like it."
5:56"Not in the mood.
5:58You can go there with your friends." And
6:00she exits.
6:01What I can tell you is women are very,
6:03very, very, very, very, very, very,
6:05very, very good at putting themselves
6:07first. And the more you emulate that
6:10behavior as a man, you get ahead. And
6:12what you're going to notice is women
6:14actually will start to cooperate more
6:16with you. She will actually be along for
6:18your ride. And deep down, this is what
6:20she actually wants. This is what she
6:21actually craves. Most men just don't
6:24have the frame or the backbone to walk
6:26away and say, "No, I'm going to go do
6:28this anyways."
6:29If women don't like you, there is likely
6:32a deficiency in either your looks, your
6:34money, your status, your confidence,
6:36your charisma, or your resource
6:38capability, and your competency.
6:40So,
6:42what happens is that
6:44when a guy gets dumped, or when a guy
6:46gets cheated on, or when a guy like, you
6:48know, let's say every day he just wakes
6:49up and he has no options, and he's
6:51completely single, he constantly looks
6:53at the symptom-level problem.
6:55Okay, the symptom-level problem would be
6:57like, "I'm not attractive, or I'm not
7:00attracting the women that I want, or I
7:03don't have any options.
7:05How do I obtain an option, or how do I
7:08get an option? Right? How do I start
7:10having interest?" That's the wrong
7:11question to ask. That's the symptom
7:13level. The root-level question to ask
7:15would be, "How do I actually increase my
7:17attractiveness, so women start choosing
7:20me first? How do I increase my own
7:22attractiveness, so that way a woman
7:24wants to be with me? How do I increase
7:26my own attractiveness, so that way I
7:28have an abundance of options, and I'm
7:30not coming from a place of scarcity?
7:32How do I make sure that I have enough
7:34uh
7:35looks or even sex appeal in order to
7:38generate real desire? If you start
7:41asking those level of questions, you can
7:44typically see gaps where you can
7:46improve. If you start filling in those
7:48gaps one small percentage at a time,
7:51you start to become
7:53the total package that a woman would be
7:55looking for. Okay? Because it's like you
7:58start to actually develop. You start to
8:01be irreplaceable as a man. You start to
8:03actually like you put in that 5 10 years
8:05of work
8:06when every other guy just went home and
8:08turned on the TV.
8:10And she might not be able to see that
8:12when you're a month in,
8:14but when you're 6 months into living
8:16that way, 18 months into living that
8:17way, years into living that way, you
8:19become so rock solid, she looks at you
8:21and she goes, "There is no way in hell I
8:23can replace this guy." And that is when
8:26you start to have options. If you want
8:28to learn and understand and master the
8:29language of women, check out what I made
8:30for you. It's in my bio. It's in my
8:31description. I have an N10 process you
8:33can just copy paste into your dating
8:34life and go.
8:36If you worked really hard through all of
8:38your 20s and 30s, don't beat yourself up
8:41in your 40s and 50s if you sit there and
8:43dwell and tell yourself, "Oh, I wish I
8:45would have had more friends and done
8:46more personal hobbies." Meanwhile, if
8:49you're a dude, because that's what
8:50usually happens, okay? Meanwhile, if
8:52you're a dude um in your 20s and 30s and
8:54all you did was party and hang out,
8:56don't dwell that you weren't one of the
8:58guys that wish you would have grinded in
9:00your 20s and 30s and focused on, you
9:02know, business because you're not where
9:04you want to be in your 40s or 50s. What
9:07I've kind of noticed is that no matter
9:08who you talk to, okay?
9:12People always think the grass is greener
9:13on the other side. Looking back, people
9:16always think they wish they would have
9:17done something different. They wish they
9:19would have
9:20done something different in their youth
9:21or their energy years, like in their 20s
9:23and 30s when they had the most energy.
9:25And what I've found is all the business
9:27owners who got really rich and grinded,
9:30those dudes wish that they would have
9:32partied more and hung out and laid back.
9:35And then all the dudes that laid back
9:37and partied more in their future,
9:40they're not happy with their financial
9:41situation and they wish that they would
9:43have worked harder. What I'm telling you
9:44is you'll probably never be happy, okay?
9:46Because that's how people are. People
9:48always think the grass is greener.
9:49People always think that they should
9:50have done something different. People
9:52always think that they chose the wrong
9:53hobby or the wrong passion or the wrong
9:56business or the wrong career. If you
9:58hear people say stuff like, "Oh, you
10:00know, I gave my best years to, you know,
10:02a boss at work who didn't value me."
10:04It's like, not really. Your boss
10:06probably wasn't even the owner. The boss
10:08like just showed up and did what she
10:10what he was supposed to do as well.
10:12Right? So, it's like everybody's just
10:13trying to actually live. Everybody's
10:15trying to get by. Everybody's trying to
10:16have fun in the meantime. And it's like,
10:19don't be too hard on yourself, right?
10:22If you're not where you want to be.
10:24Because people always think the grass is
10:25greener. People always think they should
10:26have done something different. And
10:27that's kind of just how humans are is
10:29you always think that when it comes to
10:30choice, there could have been something
10:33better. But you'll never know. And if
10:35you think like that, you'll never be
10:36happy. Love the life that you have. Love
10:39each minute that you have. Love each
10:40hour that you have and be just happy
10:42where you're at, okay?
10:45And things get a lot less stressful.
10:47Before you can learn how to flirt with a
10:50woman or have rizz with a woman, you
10:52have to master basic what I would call
10:56high testosterone communication, okay?
11:00High T communication means that you're
11:02able to walk up and introduce yourself
11:04even if you're scared, even if you're
11:06nervous, even if you are scared to get
11:08rejected, even if you think you're going
11:10to get rejected, you are going to
11:12actually put yourself out there and meet
11:14new people. You're going to introduce
11:16yourself. You're going to say, "Hi, my
11:18name is." and then you're going to
11:19introduce yourself and you're going to
11:21ask if she'd like to go out with you
11:22sometime.
11:23You're going to ask if she'd like to
11:24switch numbers and go out sometime.
11:26You're going to get used to doing that.
11:28You're not going to learn any game.
11:29You're not going to learn any flirting.
11:31You're going to master step one, which
11:33is actually getting to the point of
11:35realizing that like you can overcome
11:38your fears. Okay?
11:41The next thing you have to do is you
11:42have to understand that there is no
11:44right or wrong way
11:46to do this. There is only people's
11:48opinions. Let me give you an example.
11:52There's a really hot woman you want to
11:53talk to at your
11:54uh wherever you're at, you know,
11:56shopping mall or maybe it's a woman you
11:58see at the gym all the time. Okay? And
12:00let's say you've or maybe it's a coffee
12:01shop. You see the same woman all the
12:03time, right?
12:04People will say something like, "Oh, you
12:05can't do that cuz then if she rejects
12:07you, you're not going to want to go
12:08there anymore."
12:09Not necessarily.
12:11If you have a little bit of charm to
12:13you, you can walk up and you say, "Hey,
12:14I've seen you in here before. I've never
12:15met you before.
12:17I always thought you were real cute. You
12:19want to go out sometime?"
12:21You think that's going to make it
12:22awkward? You could still show up to that
12:23coffee shop and nothing's going to
12:25happen.
12:26Nothing's going to happen. You can still
12:27order your latte.
12:29Okay?
12:30This is pretty simple. When you start to
12:32overcome your fears, what happens is now
12:34you learn the second layer. And later on
12:37then down the down the road, you can now
12:39learn how to flirt, how to have better
12:41charisma, how to actually have more
12:42game, how to do things better. But you
12:44got to really just start at step one.
12:46And step one is, "Hey, I can do this."
12:49If you want to learn, understand, and
12:50master the language of women, check out
12:51what I made for you. It's in my bio.
12:52It's in my description. I have an N10
12:54process you can copy-paste into your
12:56dating life. Listen, if you have no
12:58women in your dating life right now,
13:00like you completely don't have any
13:01dates, you're gaining no attraction, you
13:03don't have a girlfriend, you need to
13:05make the conscious decision to become as
13:09attractive as possible. If you have any
13:11sugar or processed junk in your house
13:15that's causing you to spill over into a
13:17calorie surplus, get rid of it. Make the
13:19commitment to yourself to get lean.
13:22If you constantly are going out and
13:24drinking
13:25and this is having negative effects on
13:27your health, your work productivity.
13:29Make the conscious decision to get rid
13:31of that stuff. If you're smoking things
13:33you shouldn't be smoking, if you're
13:34constantly playing video games, if
13:35you're watching spectator sports, and
13:37what you notice is month by month, year
13:39by year, your income doesn't go up, your
13:41purpose doesn't go up, your business
13:43isn't growing, you're not doing anything
13:45in your life to propel yourself to
13:47become the best,
13:48what are you actually doing? Make the
13:50conscious decision to start to change.
13:53Make the conscious decision to start to
13:55become the best version of yourself.
13:56Make the conscious decision to become as
13:58attractive as possible.
14:01Do you know what happens to your life
14:02when you do these things? Good things
14:04stack up.
14:06You start to look better, you look
14:07leaner. All of a sudden when you talk,
14:08when you communicate, people take you
14:10more seriously.
14:11Your words have more meaning and carry
14:13more weight. People can tell you're in
14:15shape, people respect you.
14:17All of a sudden you start making more
14:18money, and people know that you're more
14:20competent. All of a sudden you have a
14:22better life for yourself, and people go,
14:24"Wow, this guy's a winner."
14:26Whether you like him or whether you hate
14:28him, looks like he's a winner. Keep
14:30pushing forward. You got to keep pushing
14:32forward. You have to make the conscious
14:34decision and the conscious commitment to
14:36become as attractive as possible.
14:37Listen, dating in some way, shape, or
14:39form is a competition. Dating is a
14:41competition.
14:43Like,
14:44call it what you want. Call it survival
14:46of the fittest, call it natural
14:47selection, call it hypergamy.
14:50Everybody wants the most attractive mate
14:52that they can
14:53get in that relationship, that they can
14:55actually
14:56obtain in that relationship. They want
14:58the most attractive mate possible.
15:00Well, if you can't even obtain a date,
15:03you can't even get a date, what are you
15:04actually doing?
15:06You have to make conscious, small, micro
15:08decisions every single day that forms
15:10habits and routines to a healthy, fit,
15:13attractive lifestyle. These game gurus
15:16and these rizz guys constantly out on
15:17the street, if you see these guys and
15:19they're putting all their time into
15:20their social skills and their
15:22communication. It's like, dude, do you
15:23understand that when the
15:26dude that she thinks is hot communicates
15:28with her, he can just say, "Hey, you
15:29want to go out sometime?" and she says,
15:30"Yes."
15:31If you're seeing these guys where their
15:33lifestyle is completely lost in this
15:35party and club scene, this is not the
15:37type of life that you want. You want to
15:39be able to actually gain attraction by
15:42being a healthy, [clears throat] strong
15:44human being. If you want to learn,
15:46understand, and master the language of
15:47women, check out what I made for you.
15:48It's in my bio, it's in my description.
15:50I have an N10 process you can copy paste
15:52into your dating life and go.
15:54If she thinks you're attractive enough,
15:56you don't have to conform to anything.
15:58You could go set up all your fishing
16:00equipment that you want to work on in
16:02the living room.
16:04Most guys demote themselves to a man
16:06cave. You're telling me if you're paying
16:08the mortgage and you're working and
16:10you're doing all the stuff to provide a
16:12lifestyle for yourself, and then a lot
16:14of times the woman you're with just gets
16:15to come in and just live there for free.
16:17How is it that over 3, 4, 5, 6, 10
16:20years, 20 years, you get all the way
16:22demoted to a man cave? Or it's like the
16:24whole house is just only her
16:25decorations. The whole house is only her
16:28decorations, the whole house is only her
16:29pictures, and you literally have one
16:32small space in the garage for um
16:36your hunting equipment and your fishing
16:37equipment.
16:39It's like you don't even have an office.
16:40Here's what you got to understand, if
16:42you're I don't even want to use the word
16:43high value enough. If she thinks you're
16:45attractive enough, okay? And you've
16:47displayed that you have enough options
16:49to walk away, you don't have to conform
16:51to anything. Literally nothing. She can
16:54come to you and she can say, "I really
16:55want to get a cat.
16:57There's a new Siamese cat. Can we get
16:59one?"
17:00You say, "No."
17:02She says, "Aw, that's mean."
17:04You say, "Okay, well, you can find a
17:05different boyfriend."
17:07You don't have to conform to anything.
17:10Guys who make concessions and believe in
17:12this like cooperation level mindset of
17:16like it's give and take and I'm going to
17:18be flexible. No, you don't have to do
17:20any of that. You've been told your whole
17:22life you have to do that, but here's
17:23what happens when you actually live by
17:25that mindset of like, being a good,
17:27cooperative, whatever.
17:30She ends up respecting you less.
17:32You seem like you don't have the
17:34strength to say no when you don't want
17:36something.
17:38And then on top of that, a lot of times
17:39she'll just end up leaving or cheating
17:40anyways after you said yes to all this
17:42stuff.
17:43So, if you look at the amount of stuff
17:45that most guys, a lot of times, put up
17:47with that they don't want to put up
17:49with. Do you know how many times that
17:51guys will put up with all of this stuff,
17:53or they'll start conforming and bending
17:55their entire world to like suit her, or
17:58to like please her? This makes
17:59absolutely no sense. If she thinks
18:01you're attractive enough, she will start
18:03to actually adapt her lifestyle to
18:05yours. And if you have it the other way
18:07around, she will like you a whole lot
18:09less. If you want to learn, understand,
18:11and master the language of women, check
18:13out what I made for you. It's in my bio,
18:15it's in my description. You'll love it.
18:17I put together amazing processes to
18:19actually help you in your dating life so
18:20you can solve these problems once and
18:22for all.