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0:00okay so I've got this question a lot
0:02over the past few months why women ghost
0:05you after showing High interest
0:07initially or after showing High initial
0:10interest so here's what usually will
0:12happen a guy will meet this woman and
0:15let's say he gets the number off of a
0:18dating app or let's say he gets her
0:20phone number after meeting her or
0:23whatever and she seems interested and
0:25then eventually things just fade away
0:28and there's no more desire and there's
0:29no more attraction I'm going to show you
0:32why this is happening and then I'm going
0:34to show you how to actually prevent this
0:36from happening so I'm going to say that
0:38one more time I'm going to show you why
0:39this is happening and then I'm going to
0:41show you how to prevent it because
0:43you're not going to be able to prevent
0:44it unless you know why it's happening in
0:46the first place so here's the thing men
0:49fail to realize that women are only
0:51filtering for selected men pre-selected
0:55men every single conversation every
0:58single text message she constantly
1:00trying to get a good read on your dating
1:04value okay your
1:06smv so it's like a pass or fail system
1:10it's like every conversation she's
1:12thinking to herself what are the reasons
1:15why I should not talk to this guy
1:17anymore she's looking for reasons to
1:20basically exit the communication so men
1:23fail to realize that women are only
1:24filtering for selected men she wants to
1:27know that you're pre-selected by other
1:29women so here's what you have to start
1:31to realize and what you have to start to
1:32understand she did not just ghost you
1:35she did not just lose interest randomly
1:38she isn't just playing games like a lot
1:41of guys think this is what actually
1:43happened what happened was that she
1:45figured out that you are not
1:48selected maybe she liked the way you
1:50looked maybe she liked the
1:54way your style was with your fashion and
1:57your clothing maybe she liked your smile
2:00maybe she thought you had big biceps
2:03doesn't
2:05matter after getting to know you and it
2:08could be from just a couple text
2:10messages it could be just from a simple
2:12first date whatever happened okay she
2:16figured out that you're not selected so
2:19here's what you have to remember the
2:22reason why men will often times spend an
2:25entire you know lifetime even trying to
2:29learn better game or better social
2:32skills and it never pays off is because
2:34of this they don't realize that the
2:36entire point of game in the first place
2:40okay it's not to be able to pass her
2:43tests it's not to be able to show that
2:46you're the best socially compared to
2:48everybody else it's not to try to create
2:50chemistry and it's definitely not to try
2:52to get her to like you the point of game
2:55in the first place okay is to emulate
2:58the movements and the words and the
3:00mannerisms of a man who is
3:03selected or pre-selected if you want to
3:05call it that that is the entire point of
3:07game to emulate the
3:09mannerisms the nuances the words
3:13everything that signals hey I have
3:15options hey I have a lot of options that
3:18want to date me that is the entire point
3:20it's to show a difference in smv okay
3:23between yours and hers that's the entire
3:26point of game so the real reason why
3:29women ghost you after showing initial
3:31High interest is because she started to
3:34realize that you are not selected so
3:38let's look at all the reasons why she
3:39ghosted you you could have been too
3:42excited okay but what I really
3:45find it to be or what I typically see
3:48happens is the man is just overall
3:51willing to enter into natural
3:54communication with her when I say
3:56natural communication with her it looks
3:58like this hey how's your day going good
4:03morning hey any plans this
4:05weekend happy new
4:07year did you have a good weekend what's
4:10up how are you doing today okay when you
4:14enter into natural communication it
4:18starts to decrease your value in her
4:20eyes socially so you will never find a
4:24truly selected man saying this because
4:28he doesn't care and and he's
4:30lazy his communication pattern is lazy
4:33because what you're going to notice is
4:35women often times will come to him and
4:38desire to date him without him putting
4:41in any effort so what you need to start
4:43to realize and understand is the more
4:45effort you show the more
4:48desire starts to decrease in her eyes
4:51that she had for you so you're never
4:53going to find a truly selected man
4:55saying this because he doesn't care and
4:57he's lazy by you entering into natural
5:00communication here's what happens you're
5:02subconsciously saying this okay you are
5:05literally subconsciously saying hey I
5:07think you and I are on the same level of
5:10attractiveness that's what you're
5:11signaling when you enter into this kind
5:14of natural communication you're
5:16basically saying hey you and I are on
5:18the same level of attractiveness and
5:20this does not work because women don't
5:22like this as they want you to have
5:25higher dating value or higher smv than
5:29they do and that's how you start to
5:32satisfy hypergamy you need to
5:33demonstrate that you're a selected man
5:36so this is all the reasons why she
5:37probably is ghosting you or is not
5:39talking to you because you have now
5:40started to enter into natural
5:44communication a guy who is a player or
5:46more selected it's a lot of one-word
5:49responses it's a lot of times him not
5:52responding okay him appearing like he's
5:56in his own world doesn't even really
5:58care what's going on around around him
6:00and what this is constantly signaling or
6:03what this is constantly saying okay
6:05stick with me here what this is
6:06constantly signaling or saying is that
6:09hey your beauty doesn't do a whole lot
6:12for me and I'm not easily impressed by
6:15your beauty that's what this is
6:16signaling okay that's what you're trying
6:18to demonstrate so I'm going to show you
6:22how a truly selected man acts and
6:26operates okay he is nonchalant and
6:29always at pretty much a five or six
6:32level of Interest okay just a good level
6:36of chill and having fun okay he is
6:40constantly chill and he really doesn't
6:42care okay this is how a truly selected
6:45man operates he's never really excited
6:49and because he's never excited she's
6:50constantly saying how can I win him over
6:52how can I get him to show me more
6:54investment how can I get him to smile
6:56more when he's around me how can I get
6:58him to laugh more when he's around me
7:00and because of
7:02that what she's wanting to do is find
7:04reasons to leave you okay so not only is
7:09he always at just like a medium level of
7:11Interest like a five or a six level of
7:13Interest he's typically completely in
7:15his own world so a day is a day to him
7:18and his whole focus is to really just
7:20enjoy his time however he would like
7:22this is how a truly selected man
7:24operates now she has no idea when she
7:27will hear from him next okay he never
7:30appears to be in a
7:31rush okay he's never eager to set up a
7:35date let's say she has a few days off
7:38from work and you guys have been seeing
7:40each other she will notice that he isn't
7:43eager to try to see her on one of her
7:45off days from work he doesn't care if
7:47the weekend just floats by okay and he's
7:50never reactive so she might even try to
7:52start an argument and he doesn't really
7:54have any energy to invest into that
7:57argument he's not even really going to
7:58entertain it
8:01I think a lot of times guys have been
8:04conditioned to believe that you have to
8:06have this masculine Persona and you set
8:09all of these boundaries and you carry
8:11yourself a certain way but in reality a
8:14truly selected man you're never going to
8:16see him give that much effort to these
8:18things at all
8:21okay so what this guy is doing is he is
8:24demonstrating that he won't go
8:26emotionally weak for her beauty now here
8:29what it looks like I save the best for
8:32last in these two columns I'm going to
8:34show you what it looks like and then
8:35over here I'm going to show you what it
8:37sounds like okay here's what it looks
8:40like maybe he will send a text message
8:42that says I'll call you in a bit when
8:45I'm home or I'll call you in a little
8:47bit when
8:49I get
8:50home and then he never calls or he says
8:53oh I forgot to call
8:55okay or maybe he will send a text
8:58message on like Wednesday or Thursday
9:00and he says hey we can meet up Saturday
9:03I'll text you in the morning but then he
9:05never text messages her or he forgets to
9:08or he was out the night before and slept
9:11in noon okay you have to remember this
9:13the player is
9:15lazy you think the player is this High
9:19status guy giving a lot of effort
9:21driving around in the fancy sports car
9:23and all of this and he's 8 ft tall and
9:28makes a $100 million or something like
9:31that that's what you probably think and
9:33then when you find out the guy that
9:35she's dating doesn't have any of those
9:37traits or characteristics and puts in
9:38like no effort you start to actually see
9:41what hypergamy responds to and that
9:43would be dudes who don't care okay
9:47so he might say hey we can meet up
9:50Saturday and I'll text you in the
9:51morning but then he never text messages
9:53her and then her mind basically is like
9:55well is he with somebody
9:57else she made we'll send a text message
10:00that says good morning cutie or good
10:03morning babe in a text message to him
10:06and let's say he forgets to reply or his
10:09phone is off or he replies later that
10:12day because he really doesn't care okay
10:15this is what it looks like now I'm going
10:17to move on to show you what it sounds
10:19like because this is completely
10:20different okay when he starts to get to
10:22know
10:24her she wants to have deeper level
10:27investment into his life but for some
10:29reason she can't actually access it she
10:32can't access deeper levels of
10:34communication into his life for whatever
10:37reason it's like he's just not even
10:39available so a lot of guys also think oh
10:42you know if I take her on these dates or
10:44if I take her to this event or if I
10:47bring her into my life to show her hey
10:49these are my friends and this is all the
10:51cool stuff that I have going on she's
10:53going to like me and a lot of times this
10:56is just not true in fact it couldn't be
10:58further from the truth here's what it
10:59actually sounds like when a woman is
11:01really in love with you and she thinks
11:03that you're pre-selected here's what it
11:05sounds like you have to realize this if
11:08she's not saying things like why haven't
11:11I got to meet any of your friends yet
11:13I've been seeing you for four months 5
11:16months 6 months why have I never really
11:18met any of your friends if she's not
11:20saying things like why haven't you ever
11:22made an effort to introduce me to your
11:25family I've known you for eight months
11:28you've never once said hey you know my
11:31mom or dad is in town we could all go
11:33grab dinner together why have you never
11:35tried to introduce me to your family if
11:38she's not saying things like do I always
11:40need to be the first one to reach out or
11:43do I always need to reach out and text
11:45message you first do I always have to be
11:48the one that initiates a date do I
11:51always have to be the one that initiates
11:54you and I meeting
11:56up or if she's not saying things like I
11:59can't tell if you even like me if she's
12:02not saying things like this you're
12:05probably going to lose her okay so if
12:08you don't hear these things you will
12:10eventually lose her to a different guy
12:13who isn't giving as much
12:16effort and you have to understand when I
12:19make these
12:20videos I'm not necessarily happy to tell
12:23you this this is just what I have seen
12:27happen over the years
12:29okay what you have to remember is this
12:31took me like 10 years to figure out and
12:35you just have to basically accept that
12:37this is how things are um here's what
12:40you have to remember I don't make the
12:42rules or decide how things play out this
12:45is just how things
12:46happen okay this is
12:49how things work okay so to conclude this
12:53video what I want you to always remember
12:55is that women really only want what they
12:57can't have and if she feels as if she
13:00has fully obtained your desire level
13:03this is when she's going to start to
13:05lose interest and the relationship gets
13:07boring so you might have this idea of a
13:11relationship where it's like two people
13:15love each other and cooperate and care
13:18about each other and that's just not
13:19what it is when women have that Dynamic
13:22you're going to notice that they really
13:24lose interest and a lot of times they
13:26treat the man very poorly
13:29their attitude becomes really dismissive
13:33towards him she loses a lot of romantic
13:36desire and on top of that she starts to
13:39just not like him so what I did to help
13:42you learn some of these things at an
13:45even deeper level is I created a
13:47community we now have over
13:501,400 guys in there who are learning
13:53this process that I call the language of
13:55women and what I have been helping guys
13:58do is I help them learn understand and
14:00master the language of women and that's
14:03why we have so many guys in this
14:04community now actually learning this so
14:07I invite you to check out what I made
14:09for you it's below in the description I
14:11think you're really going to like it and
14:12I think that if you join this too I
14:15think it's going to help your dating
14:16life at a way quicker pace so be sure to
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