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0:00Okay, so today I'm making this video
0:01because there's a very big difference in
0:04life between getting results and feeling
0:07like you're getting results just because
0:09you've learned more information.
0:11Listen close, okay? If you're learning
0:14more information, sure, you might have
0:16learned something, but that doesn't
0:17actually mean you're getting more
0:18results. In real life, you only get
0:20results when you go out in the real
0:21world and you take action. So, this
0:23video is to help you actually get real
0:25results. Real results would be like,
0:27"Hey Casey, I got a girlfriend." "Hey
0:30Casey, um you know, I'm now in my 30s
0:33and I'm finally having a family." You
0:35know, whatever the case may be. "Hey
0:37Casey, I'm finally able to maintain
0:38interest level in my relationship."
0:41That's a real result. Okay, but just
0:43sitting watching videos and learning is
0:45not a result. That's just learning. So,
0:50this video I want you to understand
0:51something. Masculine men do not fear
0:53rejection from women.
0:56They just don't.
0:58A masculine man could get rejected by a
1:00woman and that does not hurt his
1:01self-esteem or his confidence at all.
1:05He'll just think, uh you know,
1:08"I'm not her type." You know, or maybe
1:09she um has somebody else in mind at this
1:12moment in her life, right? Timing is a
1:14big part of this. So, to all the guys
1:17out there who are sitting there waiting,
1:21okay, and hoping that one day your
1:22life's going to change, your life
1:24doesn't change until you finally make a
1:26commitment to yourself to go out in the
1:28real world and take action. So,
1:31the reason why I want to tell you this
1:32is because
1:34I know guys personally
1:36who are super good-looking, okay, have
1:39influencer-level status or fame, okay?
1:43And when I say influencer-level status
1:45or fame, I'm not just talking about
1:46like, "Oh, you know, um they made a few
1:49videos or something." No, I know dudes
1:51who actually like ace the female lens of
1:54attraction
1:56and have like real influencer fame to
1:59the point where they have like women
2:01direct messaging them first constantly.
2:03I know guys like this over the years,
2:05okay?
2:07And
2:08these same guys over the years that I've
2:10met, okay, or guys who fit this
2:12criteria, maybe they're really tall,
2:14maybe they're really rich, maybe they're
2:15really good looking, maybe they have
2:16influencer status, or guys who fit this
2:19exact category, okay, have told me
2:23these things over the years. They've
2:24said one of two things or sometimes a
2:26combination. Maybe they've said
2:28something along the lines of, "Yeah,
2:29man, um
2:31you know, online dating apps this week,
2:33it's just been, you know, brutal. I've
2:34already been flaked on twice, you know,
2:36or something along those lines." Or
2:38number two,
2:40"Hey, man, uh this woman I've been
2:42seeing is pulling away from me, or she
2:44doesn't want to be in a relationship
2:46anymore."
2:47And I'm sitting there going, "Whoa.
2:49Okay, so this can happen to anybody at
2:52any stage in their life, no matter how
2:54rich, famous, or successful."
2:56Because what you have to understand is
2:58that no matter how attractive you are as
3:00a man, okay, there's variables when it
3:03comes to if things will work out in that
3:06dynamic or in that relationship or not.
3:07The very first is timing, okay? Timing
3:10is super important. If you met her at a
3:13time in her life where she wants to
3:15date, or maybe she got out of a
3:17relationship a couple months ago and she
3:19wants a fresh start with somebody new,
3:21okay, perfect. That's good timing. Now,
3:23maybe you meet a woman, okay, and she
3:25thinks you're very attractive, but maybe
3:26she's very loyal or committed to her
3:28boyfriend or husband at the time or
3:30whatever. Bad timing, even if she likes
3:33you, okay? Now, the second thing that's
3:35really important is actually being her
3:37type,
3:38okay?
3:40Because she maybe has a certain
3:41preference in types of dudes that she
3:43would want to be with. So, what I'm
3:45trying to tell you is that women are
3:46selective, okay? So, you have to find a
3:50woman
3:51who likes you. This is really important
3:54to understand. Okay, and every single
3:56guy has to do this to some degree, okay?
3:58And the reason why I'm telling you this
4:00is because like
4:02there is going to be some women, okay?
4:04There's going to be a woman that you
4:05meet and maybe she views you as a 10.
4:07And then there might be a different
4:08woman that you meet and she views you as
4:10a five. You're the same guy.
4:13But women have different preferences in
4:15who they would gravitate towards. So,
4:17with that said, okay, I want you to
4:18actually get in the habit
4:21of going after what you want in life and
4:23trying your best to not get discouraged
4:26if things don't work out.
4:28So, let's read that one more time. Get
4:29in the habit of going after what you
4:31want in life.
4:32If you want to build a really amazing
4:34business, then I want you to get in the
4:35habit of going after that. If you want
4:36to build a great body in the gym, get in
4:38the habit of going after that. If you
4:40want to learn a new skill, if you want
4:41to learn how to skateboard, you want to
4:43learn how to play guitar, you want to
4:45talk to that one really pretty woman,
4:47get in the habit of going after your
4:50goals.
4:51And then being okay if things don't work
4:53out. Because things might not work out.
4:56You might start that business and it
4:57could fail. That doesn't mean you're a
4:58failure. You might approach that woman
5:01and she's not into you. That doesn't
5:03mean you're unattractive.
5:05You might approach that woman and she's
5:06not attracted to you, but that does not
5:07mean that you are unattractive. It means
5:10that to her
5:11you're not her type.
5:13Okay, so I'm trying to tell you this so
5:15you take some of this pressure off
5:16yourself of having to learn the perfect
5:19game, you know, and having to do all of
5:21these things because in the real world,
5:23you're going to start to understand that
5:24the more action you take, the more life
5:26starts to work in your favor because you
5:28have a doer's mindset. You're a doer
5:32instead of a thinker.
5:33Guys who think a lot but never take
5:35action don't really get anywhere. So,
5:37like I said, okay, one woman can view
5:38you as a 10, the next a five, but it
5:40doesn't matter because you don't know if
5:41she's interested or invested until you
5:43go actually go up and talk. So, this is
5:46just a really good habit of getting
5:48into, okay? This is a really good habit
5:49of getting into because the woman who
5:51views you as a 10, you got to understand
5:53this.
5:54You'll need to basically do nothing
5:56other than say hello,
5:58and then ask her out on a date, and see
6:00if you two would want to exchange
6:01numbers and go out sometime.
6:03And the woman who likes you, okay,
6:05because you're her type and it's the
6:07right timing, just who you are as a
6:10person,
6:11how you look, how you act, how your
6:13voice sounds, the nuances in your
6:15speech, your mannerisms, just who you
6:17are and how you carry yourself,
6:19to her, she likes you.
6:21And that is the type of woman that you
6:23want to invest time into.
6:25So, when she has interest, this is how
6:28it actually looks, okay? I'm going to
6:30show you how it actually looks, and then
6:31I'm going to show you two things that
6:32modern men are missing. So, how it
6:34actually looks when a woman is
6:35interested in you is it looks like
6:37normal communication. That means there's
6:39no weird tests or her pulling away.
6:42Um,
6:43she doesn't try to change the location
6:45of the date, she "Maybe."
6:49or "We'll see." No, she exchanges
6:52numbers, then she'll text you her
6:54schedule when you ask when she's free.
6:56Then, if she's excited to see you, or
6:59she's excited to see you, and then she
7:01shows up on the date, and she has a
7:02great time because she actually likes
7:04you. She wants to be there. See, that's
7:06the thing is guys are trying to attract
7:07women that fundamentally don't have
7:08interest in you.
7:11Which means you have to be okay with
7:12rejection, which is why I originally
7:14said masculine men do not fear rejection
7:16from women.
7:17It's time that you maybe update some of
7:19your beliefs to get results a little bit
7:20quicker. If you've been watching dating
7:22content for 6 months or 12 months, or
7:24some of you even longer, and you're
7:26still not where you want to be,
7:28consuming more information is definitely
7:30not helping.
7:31Okay, so, I'm glad we got that out of
7:34the way.
7:35The woman who has interest will show up
7:37on that date and be happy to see you.
7:39What you have to understand is that if
7:41you're trying to communicate with a
7:42woman and she's giving you friction at
7:45all with communication, any friction in
7:47communication that you get, just stop
7:49texting her completely and just move on
7:51because she isn't into you.
7:54If you ask her when she's free or what
7:57her schedule is like and she says, "I'll
7:59let you know."
8:01Uh me personally, I would just never
8:02text back ever again.
8:05Because she wouldn't give that answer to
8:07a guy she had higher interest in. So,
8:09what you want to do is you want to have
8:10conversation and you want to figure out
8:12in a quick hurry who actually is on your
8:14team basically, who wants to be with
8:16you. So, the reason why I'm telling you
8:18this is because the older I get, there's
8:20a couple things that I notice is missing
8:21from how most men carry themselves.
8:24Okay, there's things that are missing,
8:26okay, things that are missing from
8:27modern men or even attractive men.
8:31Even attractive men a lot of times don't
8:33have these two traits. And the two
8:35traits that is very, very, very
8:37important to internalize as a masculine
8:39man would be bravery and courage.
8:44That's like half the battle.
8:46Bravery and courage to tell yourself
8:47that you're ready, to tell yourself that
8:49it's okay to take action, to tell
8:51yourself that even if you're nervous to
8:53get rejected, you're going to do things
8:56anyways because you know it's going to
8:57help get you to your goals. Okay, this
8:59is really important. These are two
9:01internal high-value traits that women
9:02find very attractive.
9:04Okay?
9:06Sometimes even if at first, maybe the
9:08first couple seconds, she didn't really
9:11have interest in you or maybe had
9:12lukewarm interest, now all of a sudden
9:14she sees that you have some internal
9:16traits that she likes, now all of a
9:18sudden her emotions work in your favor.
9:19That's how fast these things can change.
9:21So, women who actually like men or they
9:25actually like want to talk to men, this
9:27is what you got to understand. These
9:28women will actually appreciate that you
9:30have the courage and the bravery. Okay?
9:33They're not going to act rude to you or
9:34try to be rude to you. Now, here's what
9:36you got to understand. If she acts rude
9:38when you um
9:40tried to have conversation or
9:41communication, cool, no worries. Don't
9:43take it personally. Don't take it to
9:45heart. Just move on.
9:47You just chalk it up as a loss. You say,
9:48"Oh, next."
9:50Friction, bad attitude,
9:52I'll just talk to somebody else.
9:54You got to have that mindset of just
9:56keeping it moving. Okay, it's like, you
9:58know,
10:00a lot of times like
10:02like take an entrepreneur for example.
10:03Sometimes the entrepreneur that has a
10:05great successful flourishing business,
10:07you don't see all those years of
10:08failure. Maybe that dude started three,
10:11four, five, six, seven, eight different
10:12business ideas over the past, you know,
10:1410, 20 years and none of them worked,
10:15but then you only see the win.
10:17Well, okay, that's a lot of times how it
10:19is when a guy has a girlfriend.
10:21It's like he went through
10:23the bad times to figure out who actually
10:26likes him. That's actually called
10:28dating.
10:29So, I think that some guys are just
10:31completely coping by saying things like,
10:33"Oh, you know, what did she do to
10:35deserve my attention or any of this?"
10:37It's like, "Well, she probably didn't do
10:38anything, but you think she's hot. So,
10:40if you'd like to go out on a date with
10:41her, I don't see why you're just going
10:43to walk past every single beautiful
10:45woman for the next 6 to 12 months again
10:47just like you did last year and never
10:49say hi to anybody." Like, I hear this
10:51stuff. I see this stuff. It makes
10:53absolutely no sense.
10:54But every single guy wants to tell
10:56themselves how logical and rational they
10:58are.
10:59It's like, "Where's the results?"
11:02Okay? So, you have to be willing to
11:05actually update your beliefs as you age
11:08to get results and success more
11:10efficiently and effectively. Okay?
11:14So, let me give you an example. If
11:15you've watched and consumed dating
11:16content for months or years, but you
11:18still have no girlfriend or no family,
11:20this is an issue. And saying things
11:22like, "Oh, you know, no validation. I'm
11:24not going to validate her. I'm not going
11:26to talk to her. What did she do to
11:28deserve my attention?" Any of this
11:30stuff. This is not a good excuse to make
11:33up for lack of courage because a lot of
11:35guys are doing this and saying these
11:37things
11:39as almost like an escape to not have to
11:41ever face the fact that there's maybe
11:44some internal things when it comes to
11:45courage or bravery that they're lacking.
11:47Because the truth is that for most guys,
11:49even if she was really, really into you,
11:51a lot of times that guy would not even
11:52have the courage to talk to her in the
11:55first place the way that he actually
11:56needs to. So, this is really, really,
11:58really important to start to understand,
11:59okay?
12:00Now, also nuance is very important,
12:02sure. If you're on a date and you're
12:04sitting there just constantly validating
12:06and stuff and you're constantly giving
12:07all these compliments, yeah, that is a
12:09bit too much and too excessive. But to
12:12constantly
12:13never give yourself an opportunity to
12:15meet anybody new, I don't really
12:17understand how this problem is going to
12:19solve itself until you actually take the
12:21steps to do so. So, I want you to be
12:24okay with going after your goals in life
12:27and accept yourself for who you truly
12:29are. This is really, really important.
12:30So, I'd say most guys, if they just took
12:33more action, I really do believe this.
12:35This is my own belief. I really do
12:37believe that if most guys just took more
12:40action,
12:41okay?
12:43And let's say you just wanted to start
12:45talking to more people. You wanted to
12:46just meet more women and it doesn't
12:48matter where you're at, you're just
12:49going to talk to people and say hi and
12:50introduce yourself. I think if most guys
12:53did this, they would probably have a
12:55girlfriend within 3 to 6 months. Some
12:57maybe a little bit longer, some maybe a
12:59little bit shorter time duration, but I
13:01think most guys would be able to solve
13:02this problem simply through volume
13:04because I've been able to overcome every
13:06single problem in my life through
13:08volume. When I couldn't bench press 225
13:12lb, when I just went to the gym every
13:14single week and did incline barbell
13:17bench press for 100 weeks in a row, I
13:19solved my problem.
13:21When I was struggling,
13:23um,
13:24in my younger years to figure out how I
13:26wanted to build my career.
13:29When I just decided I was going to work
13:307 days a week and figure it out, good
13:33things happened. When I told myself,
13:35"You know what? I was just going to
13:36actually talk to the people I wanted to
13:38talk to." Every single problem I've ever
13:40had in my life, I solved through volume
13:42and through repetition and just doing
13:43it.
13:45You know, even like um
13:47even like this channel that you see.
13:49When I was younger, I wanted to have a
13:51big channel.
13:52I wanted to have a channel with over,
13:54you know, 100,000 subscribers or
13:56something. Well, what do you see today?
13:58Volume. I've uploaded on this channel
14:00thousands of times. Look what happens.
14:03Everything in life
14:05that you want to have happen starts to
14:07happen when you take action. But, most
14:09guys just refuse to do this. They want
14:11to watch video after video after video,
14:13which is why at this point in the video,
14:15I advise you to do one thing, okay?
14:18If you've went a lot of days, weeks,
14:20months, or years without results,
14:22I want you to do two things. The first
14:24thing that I want you to do is I want
14:25you to join us inside of the community
14:27that I built so that way I can help you
14:28learn, understand, and master the
14:30language of women so that way you're
14:31around a community of other dudes
14:34solving these problems in their life as
14:36well.
14:37You are now around other guys who are
14:40learning, understanding, and mastering
14:41the language of women as well. So, join
14:44us inside of that because this is a
14:45process that I created to actually help
14:47you. That is the first thing that I want
14:49you to do. The second thing that I want
14:50you to do is actually make a commitment
14:53to yourself to every day start to
14:55actually take action so your life
14:57changes for the better. Hit the like
14:59button, comment, and subscribe, and
15:00we'll see you in the next one.